Am I a normal teenager?
Q. I am a 19 year old boy. I am starting my 2nd year of university, and I know what this means to a lot of people "parties, sex, alcohol etc." But this doesn't concern me. When people are out going crazy Im at home studying. I recently asked a girl ...
A. 5 September 2008: Just be yourself. If you are content being the way you are keep with it. If there is something in you you would like to change then go ahead and do it. There is nothing wrong with you, on the contrary, you sound like a pretty mature and awesome ... (read in full...)
Our friendship is dwindling! Did I do something wrong?
Q. hello all, i know a girl for a month and our freindship was so great, just great!. i have read some articles about how to know if she is interested or not interested and i find the two signs in her (interested and not). our freindsh...
A. 5 September 2008: Maybe you should ask her, I know it's hard...but it's the only way to know what's up with her. If you care for her I think you should do so, if it's just a passing infatuation then move on, regardless of the reasons why she changed, although I think ... (read in full...)
Why do lonely people looking for love stay single?
Q. I'm nearly 25 and haven't had a proper girlfriend. I remember back when i was 15 and my best mate got with the girl i liked and how terrible i felt. i moped for weeks. then about a year later - i was seeing a girl (if you can call it that) for about ...
A. 5 September 2008: Dear friend. There is no hole inside of you. You are full of love, but that love you have to give it to yourself first. Believe in yourself, accept and love yourself. Once you get there you will attract another whole and loving person into your ... (read in full...)
He keeps wanting to meet up even though I have a boyfriend?!
Q. yesterday, this boy i know told me that he really liked me, i kind of guessed from the way he always is with me; constantly talking to me, hugging etc. i was flattered, but had to say no for certain reasons. i thought and everyone else thought he ...
A. 5 September 2008: Just let him know your feelings in a gentle but firm way. He is not so cool after all, if he knows you have a boyfriend you love and is still after you??
Blessings dear!! :)... (read in full...)
The love of my life just left me and I want her back!
Q. So my girlfriend and I were together for 15mo. and we lived together for 11mo. She broke up with me last month telling me that we are just too different people. She also said that I didn't appreciate her, or support any of her beliefs/values. I ...
A. 5 September 2008: Ok, the first thing you have to evaluate is the communication problems. Without a good communication any relationship just breaks apart. You should try and think why she feels that you didn't appreciate her and support her, that is very important in ... (read in full...)
When I tell him of the hurt he's caused me, he passes the blame to me! Why is he doing this?
Q. I have a friend who says he is in love with me. We are really great friends, however, i am not sure if i am ready for a relationship. What I can't understand is that whenever I try to speak to him about some emotional hurt he has caused to me, he ...
A. 5 September 2008: Communication is crucial for a good relationship. If he is not open to listen to you, let alone understand you, do you think this relationship is worthwile?
He seems to be defending himself, because he could be probably feeling guilty, but if he g... (read in full...)
So should I stay with this uninterested man or move on?
Q. So, I didn't take a job because I was "in love" with my man. Now I have the same job I had before, I'm a little older and without a sure future with this man. I'm really not sure what to do. I'm not that much of a "catch" by any means, but ya ...
A. 5 September 2008: Think of yourself first. Never again turn down something that benefits yourself because of another person.Don't stick to someone just because you think you won't find no one else...it's not true. Change your mind, believe in yourself and in love, ... (read in full...)
Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. What should I do?
Q. I was talking to this guy and things got pretty hot and heavy for a while. Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. Said he'll call and take 4 days to call me back. I took it as a hint he wasn't interested so I moved on. Then he calls ...
A. 5 September 2008: First of all you have to determine if you want to have a relationship with someone who has issues from past heartaches, even if he likes you, those will interfere in your relationship. Ask yourself if you want to become some kind of psychologist or ... (read in full...)
I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!
Q. Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...
A. 5 September 2008: Thanks again Blue Angel, I will keep focusing on myself instead, I agree with you!! I will leave matters in God's hands... Blessings to you!! :)... (read in full...)
I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!
Q. Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...
A. 4 September 2008: The thing is if he just didn't like me, he could have just said: well it was nice meeting you, and then just get up and go!! but he was the one who got up and came back to the table with his phone number in a card!!! I just DON'T GET IT!!??... (read in full...)
I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!
Q. Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...
A. 4 September 2008: Thanks a lot for your sound advice Blue Angel!! Well, I know it was kind of overwhelming for us to meet just like that, and yes, it's true that I am still working through what happened with my ex-boyfriend, even though we were "together" for only ... (read in full...)
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