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... Send *urseBetty85 a private message | | | *urseBetty85's profile:Hello every One! Im a 30 year old single LPN. I'm from New York City.
Well, I'm a pretty laid back kinda girl. Very out going and open minded. I love talking to people and trying to make them feel better. I know how it feels to be down sometimes.
I can be serious or enjoy watching Family Guy all day.
That's all I have for now, lol
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Is it even worth it to have my mother in my life?
Q. I'm at breaking point in my relationship with my mother. We've never had the best of relationships anyway but I'm seriously considering cutting her out of my life. My mother has never liked or loved me as a person. I certainly have never felt it or ...
A. 28 May 2013: Wow, I feel like you are my twin. I'm in my late twenties and have issues with my mom. I even have had things happend to as a child with family members and she called me a liar also. I have a very strong and open mind, she hates it! We always a... (read in full...)
French kissing & oral sex
Q. Would you french kiss a girl who engage in oral sex with her ex boyriend 3 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?...
A. 21 January 2009: Hey,
Sometimes you can't help the past. It's been 3 years, not 3 hours ago. Don't worrie about that.
So you are not going to Kiss anymore girls because they give there ex's oral sex?
I Understand how you feel, but in reality you can't hel... (read in full...)
Fight? Or give up hope?
Q. me and ex went out for 2 an half years we were both really in love but we let relationship get boring and she ended it. i have since went with other girls but they dont appeal the same its been 9 months should i fight for her even if she wont talk ...
A. 21 January 2009: Hello,
I know how it feels to want someone back when you
really love them.
But if they don't feel the same, there's no reason to go after them. In your case it has been 9 months.
I'm sorry to say, I think shes not interested anymore.
I... (read in full...)
Is it ok for BBW's to be Picky when Dating Men?
Q. Hey Everyone. I'm a Proud BBW, single in the dating game. I'm starting to feel bad because I've been turning down alot of men. I know I have a strong preferrence, I try to hold back on it. I like to give all men a chance. Since I was a BBW ...
A. 20 January 2009: Hello,
Thanks for your advice everyone. You helped me out
big time. Being a BBW and dating can be rockey at
sometimes and you end up with "Handsome Bastards" lol.
Thanks Once Again!
NurseBetty85... (read in full...)
We got into a bad fight and he slapped me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. Our relantionship has always been up and down. He has cheated on me couple of times and I've forgived him. Just last Sep we broke up and got back together in late Nov. Things were going good trying to ...
A. 20 January 2009: Hello,
I'm sorry any woman has to go threw that. I know its hard when you have feelings for someone and you want to make it work.
He seems to not be interested anymore after this fight, and this is a good thing.
Once a man lay his hands on... (read in full...)
Gym guy is cute-how do I let him know I'm interested
Q. I really like this guy Josh. He works in the gym I go to. He just so happens to be working almost every time I go workout. He's very cute and nice. He comes up to me and asks how I am and hopes I have a good night etc. I ask for help sometime...
A. 19 January 2009: Hey,
Well, keep talking to him. You are on the right track. Slowly built up more personal conversations, leading to the big guestion " are you seeing anybody"?
Work that in slowly if you don't wont to be straight forward. Then start to see if ... (read in full...)
Found a condom, we don't use them, is he cheating?
Q. okaii so ii have been dating "carlos" for almost 3 months now I have been hurt so many times in past relationships that its so hard for me to trust men at all but when i met "carlos" i felt that all changed but latley i just been having this feeling ...
A. 19 January 2009: Hello,
Sorry for what you are going threw.
I have been there before with my Ex. I spent the weekend in his new apartment for the first time.
While he was sleeping I went in the bathroom and opened the medicene cabinet to get something... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned if he does not get in touch with me?
Q. I have been dating a guy for about a month and have not heard from him for 5 days. I sent him a text to see if everything was okay and I found out that he was in the hospital. He is now at home trying to recover. I have sent him several texts ...
A. 16 January 2009: Hello,
I have expereinced something like that. My guy had to rush a family memeber to the hospital one day and I didn't know. So I blew up his cell, leaving not so nice messages. It went on for days. I was even thinking of breaking up!
Maybe a... (read in full...)
Unsure of the girl
Q. Me and my girlfriend love each other, but I'm not really sure im the one for her.So, my question is this, What do you do when you're not sure if you are the one for your girlfriend?...
A. 16 January 2009: Hello Young Man,
Well it's simple. Coming from a female point of view.
Just talk to her and comunicate as much as possiable.
If someone is not interested in you, they may not want to talk to you as much.
So, if you have a fun, talkive rela... (read in full...)
When me and my boyfriend have sex it only feels good once then it starts getting like sensitive.
Q. Hi, When me and my boyfriend have sex it only feels good once then it starts getting like sensitive, then once he ate me out and it felt good then he kept doing it and it wasn't feeling good. We had sex after that and it didn't feel good either. I ...
A. 14 January 2009: Hi, It's normal for us ladies to feel extra sensitive down there. This often happens when your clitorus is overly stimulated. It can feel quite uncomfortable. I would suggest that after you reach your point, if its by him eating you or interc... (read in full...)
Husband had an affair!
Q. I found out my husband of 3 years had an affair with his colleague. They even had sex. He promised to change but i do not how to forget and forgive him. I wanted to leave him but i have no heart to see my only daughter grow up in a broken family. ...
A. 14 January 2009: Hello,
I'm sorry for what happend.
I've been there before and its not a good feeling.
To be honest I never been married or had any children, But I was a child growing up without my dad at home.
He Cheating on my mother not with one woman b... (read in full...)
Cure for insomnia?
Q. I just want natural cures for Insomnia. I have not slept in days! I've been going through this since I was a young child. I'm in the Nursing field, and I've asked fellow co-workers and students, they all telling me to pop a pill. I refuse to fi...
A. 14 January 2009: Thank You everyone for your tips!
I will give them a try asap.
Fairy Lu, that sounds like a great Idea. I have so much on the brain at night, it drives me crazy. I might be able to write a book, lol.
Thanks!... (read in full...)
Not allowed a boyfriend till 16...
Q. I'm 14 And I've liked this guy for ages, he's been my best friend for two years. And recently he asked me out, we've been going out for about 2 weeks now and our relationship is going great, but there is a problem. My mum won't let me date till I'm...
A. 13 January 2009: Hi Sweetie, Listen I know you may not want to hear this but here it goes.. I feel that she's right. You are still very young. And your mind and body still needs alittle bit more more maturing. I'm around ten years older, and I knew how i... (read in full...)
How can we get to know each other better?
Q. I feel like my man and me don't no each other well, so I was wondering what are some games we can play that we can have fun with and get to no each other better?...
A. 12 January 2009: Well, since you are such a young couple.
Maybe you can play simple games something like truth or dare.
When I was your age those type of games where fun and a good way to kind things out about your friends.
In this case you will be finding thin... (read in full...)
Am I sell out because I like white men?
Q. Well for the past 10 years now since I was 14 yrs old, I add an attraction to White guys. Something about them turns me on so bad. I can count on one hand and 1/2 of all the Black and Latino men that I've dated. My friends and family think I'm...
A. 12 January 2009: Thank you everyone for your help.
I realized that having a preferrence is not being a
"Sell Out". For what the female anonymous reader said " as long as it's not because of color and stereotypes about Black men".
The reasons why I like White m... (read in full...)
Why don't I have ANY close friends?
Q. I dont get it. I mean Im in my second year of college and have absolutely no one I can regularly hang out with. I had a best friend last year but we had a falling out and she moved away. I know this group of girls, nice girls but whenever I go over ...
A. 12 January 2009: Hello, I know how you feel. When I graduated from High School, all my close friends that I've known since childhood went their separate ways. I barely talk to any of then now. Years later , now at the age of 24. I find it to be a bit hard to make ... (read in full...)
Am I just a back-up boyfriend?
Q. I met this girl a little over a year ago.It was honestly instant love.We talked all the time,and slept together a few times(nothing sexual,just kissing,and cuddeling).but the problem was she was seeing this other guy.it went on like this,sneaking ...
A. 12 January 2009: It Sounds like you may be a back up.
For the reason that she's sneaking behind the other guys back. That shows that he's more of the main boyfriend and you the second.
When it comes down to her sill loving you, it can be possiable. Because ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him or let him go?
Q. i`m 24 years old and i`ve seeing somoeone for almost 8 yrs now and we`ve got a 2 year old daudgther. the thing is i don`t think my bf still loves me anymore cause we always fighting and this has been going on for months now, to tell you the truth i ...
A. 12 January 2009: Hello, I know how you feel. I been threw that with my ex-boyfriend of 4 years. When the relationship got rockey with us fighting all the time, that's when he was starting to hang out all night with his brother, friends (some female friends),... (read in full...)
Stepfather exposed himself to me!
Q. I know this is Long, but I need some advice.. I've been knowing my stepfather since I was 11. He was always the "cool" parent. We developed a close relationship, talking about all facts of life. He was the first one to know when I loss my virginit...
A. 11 January 2009: Thanks to everyone for your help and advice. I don't feel so bad about holding my grudge now. The good thing is I will be on my feet shortly to get out this house. I think thats the big problem. When I move out I dont have to look at or talk to that ... (read in full...)
Can having anal sex get me pregnant?
Q. Ok, I need a little help. I'm 16 and have tried anal sex with my boyfriend. He got it in a little and we did it for a couple minutes but it hurt too bad so we stopped and gave up. He never came... my question is could I get pregnant from this since ...
A. 10 January 2009: From A medical point of view, you can't get pregnant. Your anas has nothing to do with you reproductive oragans. If a guy cums in your anas, first of all the sprem won't survive. Second, its not going anywhre near your vagina once its inside. N... (read in full...)
My marriage is a nightmare, because of my husbands Friend!!
Q. Please help my marriage is on the rocks because of this. My husband has a friend who we both agreed is a bad one to be associated with. (Drugs, no respect, cont. In trouble etc) so the friend won't stop calling texting etc. We have had problems ...
A. 10 January 2009: I would like to start out by saying I'm sorry for what you're going threw. Your husband needs to be on your side and stick up for you no matter what. If his friend is such a trouble maker, your husband might even fear him. You need to sit down with ... (read in full...)
Why is my b/f acting like this?Gay?
Q. Before my boyfriend and I went out, we were friends, not good friends though. I noticed that he had a lot of friends, most of whom were girls. Then we started small talk and he was always "chasing" me, texting me, writing on my myspace and I noticed ...
A. 10 January 2009: Well, you made it to second base. And if he was truely gay, it would'nt even have got that far. Maybe he is not ready to go all the way, or he respects you way to much.
Good luck! If this continues and you really want it from him, just seek som... (read in full...)
Should I be suspicious of my hubby's new guy friend who's buying him underwear and gifts?
Q. My husband has a new male friend - and he often socialises with him. My husband is very popular at work and I'm happy for him. It's the nature of this friendship that worries me though - not the fact he's friends with the guy (I've only met h...
A. 9 January 2009: It may seem suspicious because you don't know this man
verry well to judge him. Now I have a female friend that gives me money when I need it and even buy me things. We are both straight with boyfriends so I know she's not coming on to me. I just... (read in full...)
Can she get pregnant from this?
Q. okay well i fingered a girl on new years and i think i might've gotten sperm/cum on my fingers and i am scared for her she is freakin out and does not know what to do ...
A. 9 January 2009: Don't stress yourself out young man. I'm a Nurse.. and There is a very slim chance of her getting pregnant. Once the sperm hits room temperature, it stars to die. And if it was on your fingers for a while, then its pretty much dried up. Next... (read in full...)
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