Did these guys like me... and other questions?
Q. Ok, so where I work I am a cashier. So I run into different types of people. But I was curious with these two customers. Do they like me? Please answer all my questions! Here is what happened: Guy # 1: I actually see this guy come through the fron...
A. 12 July 2009: Seriously I really don't think so it seems to me that they were just be nice guys,I'm also like this and can carry on a conversation but that doesn't always mean that I am interested in every girl I talk to.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to last longer and bring back his sex drive?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a lover which I have had for 25 years, he is married to another woman, and has 3 boys with her, I have 1 son with him. I moved away from him many years ago when my son was 3, he is now 20. We have had a relationship on and off ...
A. 12 July 2009: The more he gets it the longer he'll last men tend to do this after not getting it for awhile ask him to masterbate a few hours before sex this way when the time arrives he won't reach his peek so fast. He just a got a little over excited that's ... (read in full...)
Snoozy sex!
Q. Last night me and my boyfriend were really drunk, we went to bed and had sex (we always use condoms) then we fell asleep in each others arms. I can vaguely remember waking up in the middle of the night still half asleep to pull the quilts over ...
A. 12 July 2009: No one can really tell you If you are pregnant or not. If you can remeber if it spilt or notthen how are we suppose to know. Just to be safe I would suggest you to take a pregnancy test after a few days and then get help if you are.... (read in full...)
My troubled life and I'm not sure what to do about it
Q. I've remained anonymous because it is for the sake of my family, not me. I think I have a very unbalanced view on men. I have not had the happiest of childhoods. My dad (I don't usually call him that) was a woman beater. Plates, fists, anything....
A. 12 July 2009: Hi there,
I can tell you that not all men are pigs some have good hearts though there seems to be very few. I understand that you can never forgive your father for what get had done to you I have had a similar situation to yours work my fatter age ... (read in full...)
I don't like anal sex and my boyfriend is being an ass about it
Q. i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't ...
A. 12 July 2009: Remember it's your body and he should respect it my gf also does not like anal sex and I respect it and have not mentioned it since he should respect your boundaries and stop asking you if he loves you he won't be forcing it upon you and hurting you ... (read in full...)
Should I still worry if I'm pregnant?
Q. We almost did it last June 1, the tip of his penis sort of entered the tip of my vagina, the upper tip part. I got my period on that month, it wasn't late or whatsoever. But i can't help but worry. I need help, advice. Should i still worry? I'm ...
A. 12 July 2009: Don't worry if you already had your period then you are fine you are not pregnant.Next time tell him to use a condom.Relax you can breathe your not pregnant.... (read in full...)
Is she just being herself? Or could her flirting be more?
Q. Ok... well... maybe someone could clear this up for me. Im going to try to cut this to the chase because im infamous for writing 1000+ word questions. Never could figure out when a girl was flirting with me, especially this one. She's very flir...
A. 12 July 2009: From experience this girl is what I call a tease and a girl that can really make you go crazy. Don't get to attached because then you will get hurt these aren't the kind of girls you want to be dating because she will drive you crazy and you will ... (read in full...)
What are people's views on dating a third cousin?
Q. hi, i recently got back in touch with my third cousin. we're both 19 and related through blood. every year when i was born i would spend a week up north with my cousin and we grew up together really close.we used to kiss under his duvet when we ...
A. 12 July 2009: I don't see what the problem is after all it's your 3rd cousin go for it and follow your heart it will lead you in the right way and you can be sure you will never regret it no matter the outcome.... (read in full...)
He hates condoms!
Q. I've recently began having sex with my boyfriend, and I went on the pill, so we could have unprotected sex together (as we know we have no STIs and are regularly checked anyway). Yet, now I've decided to not be on the pill, as its easier if he just ...
A. 1 February 2008: try durex sensi thin it works for me... (read in full...)
We're long distance and we keep getting on and off, what do you think, is there any chance he likes me enough to make this work?
Q. Long story. I'll try to condense it. We were a summer fling that happened overseas. We both go to college here so we decided to continue the relationship. During that I broke up with him once, only to get back together the next day. I asked hi...
A. 5 January 2008: hey um i think that when u told him that you just wanted to be friends the second time that you broke up with him he moved on and now he probably has someone else in mind.I dont think that there is goiñg to be another go it seems like hes moved on ... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to stand my ground??
Q. Hey everyone, I'm the kind of guy that i don't care where my gf goes im in anohter country and i have been away from her for over a year. I'm back in 2 months but i don't think i can get passed this next obstacle. She wants to go to a Hallowee...
A. 27 October 2007: Ya i guess most of u are right and thx for all the replies we talked it out and she decided not 2 go she said taht she loves me and doesnt want to lose me over this she said its just one night anywais so it doesnt matter she said shes not going 2 go ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex still calling if he dumped me?
Q. i was with my ex-bf for 6 years and he broke up with me because of our constant fighting. i think he just didnt love me. since our break up, 1 year ago, he still calls every 2 weeks, why? i asked him not to call if he was seeing anyone. when i p...
A. 26 October 2007: hes playing games with ur head and is calling u 2 make u feel bad and make u jealous just threaten 2 call the cops on him and hell stop cause he should be doing that he should respect u and the decision he made he should stand by it... (read in full...)
Can cheaters really change??
Q. hi, I have a boyfriend that i really love, can't imegine a life without him. He loves me too but he has been cheating on me but like in our country its normal for boys/girls to cheat on each other. All i want to know is we talked about it and he ...
A. 3 September 2007: plain and simple hun no they dnt cheaters just love the thrill of cheating I have never cheated but i no plenty of people who do... (read in full...)
Post breakup sex and he is playing with my head
Q. hey all im really confused, Me and my ex have been broke up for just over 3 months. It was a bad break up, but yet we have still continued to sleep together. Whenever i ask if he wants to work stuff out he says i dont know, or 'i'm never gunn...
A. 3 September 2007: plain simple no he just wants you for sex when hes not getting any hes using you what u need to do for urself is respect yourself and move on becuase he will never stop if he loved you he wouldnt be playing mind games!... (read in full...)
I cheat on my fiancee all the time, but its his fault cause he got me into computers
Q. I am engaged to a wonderful man who i love,but i am addicted to cheating.It seems so easy,they are all available on the internet. He has almost caught me twice,but luckily i turned it around on him and now he has to prove to me that he`s not a ...
A. 3 September 2007: sorry to say but that makes you discusting you should be faithful to him if your not happy with your relationship dnt drag him along and hurt him tell him the truth tell him you want to move on and that you dnt love him at all because if you can ... (read in full...)
I am monitoring all interaction between my wife and her friend. Did I do the right thing?
Q. For the past couple of weeks my wife has been exchanging sexual emails with an old friend she found online. They had phone sex and even met up one day when she took the kids out to the cinema. I confronted her about it and she insists that although ...
A. 3 September 2007: You know what i say i say ur being a wuss and u need 2 stand up for urself because she is walking all over you and you dnt stand up for yourself go up to her and tell her straight in the face either its him or me and if she says him then you know ... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer innocent or not so innocent girls?
Q. I'm wondering do guys prefer innocent looking girls or girls who dont look so innocent? It seems to me that guys only like girls who dont look innocent. I myself look really innocent and this annoys me because guys seem to not go for me, they go ...
A. 23 August 2007: WAT! I LOVE INNOCENT GIRLS I FIND THEM MORE ATTRACTIVE AND WAY BETTER TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH DNT WORRY PPL WILL NOTICE U MORE WHEN THERE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE SERIOUS WITH A GREAT PERSONALITY msg me back if u wanna talk... (read in full...)
Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you paranoid?
Q. Am I the only one that finds that dearcupid makes me paranoid reading about all the different questions people ask(cheating with bosses, having sex with brothers and sisters etc) Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you ...
A. 22 August 2007: Yes you all are right and I do know that people that ask these questions are in need and come for help on this site and i alsothink its great but i also think that it makes u think about all the things that can happen in a relationship and also ... (read in full...)
24 year old virgin. What will guys think? I need advice.
Q. im 24 and ive never had sex. how lame is that? what will guys think when i tell them? i pretty much have no experience..i need advice....
A. 19 August 2007: Im 18 and not a virgin but my 26 year old cousin is and jes a guy so your not alone i know that i would rather have a gf thats a virgin then one that wasnt when i met her so your good im sure alot of guys would love that!... (read in full...)
My 32 year old married boss has started giving me lifts home. I KNOW he wants to take it further!
Q. hi, im 17 years old have a boyfriend and have a part time job as a waitress. my boss is 32 and married with kids. recently when he is giving me lifts home we have started going for a drive and ended up kissing many times and i know he wants to take ...
A. 19 August 2007: OMG girls these days is there ever anything they dont ask this one is common sense no u shouldnt have an affair with ur boss! You have a bf and you should let him know that you have kissed your boss dont be surprised if he leaves you in a flash i ... (read in full...)
He's got no money and can't work because of his bad leg... so his solution is for me to sell my body (sex-wise) for money!
Q. i gt bk with my bf in april after breaking up in dec.we gt engagd recently and he took me to his country to meet hiz parents.he says he loves me and does nearly everything i say we plan a lovly future but the onlything is he does nt want to work ...
A. 19 August 2007: HE is sick!dont u ever sell your body it shouldnt have even crossed his mind to get you to sell your body!he has no respect for you GET AWAY from him hun
any questions msg me take care hun... (read in full...)
I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her...
Q. I'm worried! My boyfriend says he loves me, he always has and he still does but I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her but this was a ...
A. 17 August 2007: YEA U SHOULD U CANT TRUST HIM!!cause he doesnt love u if he said those things its that simple!... (read in full...)
All of a sudden she started to talk about the future and how things are going to change once she starts school.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and am almost back from a one year long distance relationship. What is bothering me is that all of a sudden she started to talk about the future and how things are going to change once she starts ...
A. 16 August 2007: We talked about it and she said that by the phone she means holding it she said that on the computer on mic is better.I told her that if she starts ignoring me that i wont hesitate to dump her she almost started crying.Im starting to think that ... (read in full...)
Should I take the initiative and call, or should I wait for him to call?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for just a little over three years. Since the beginning of this year we have been getting into little spats and arguments, mainly about his behavior towards me. I try and talk to him about why he says hurtful ...
A. 5 August 2007: I say you dnt call him if you do you will seem desperate and also he will see you as weak and take advantage of you and also if he really loves you he will call you.I say dnt call him let him call you because if he loves u like i said he will call ... (read in full...)
I've been in a long distance relationship for 8 months, and we'll be together soon, but I don't know if I can forget our problems
Q. Hey my name is Andrew I have been apart from my gf for about 10 months now and I will be back in less then 8 weeks. The problem im having is the following: I love her and I want to stay with her forever but I dont know if I can just forget everythi...
A. 5 August 2007: Well some of the things that went on are her talking to guys on the phone that I dnt feel comfortable with and lieing to me about it,from what i know she hasnt cheated also there was a time where she was going out to a party with all her friends and ... (read in full...)
How can i surprise my girlfriend?
Q. Hey, I'm almost back from Portugal and I want to suprise my gf. We have been away from each other for a year when i get back, and I want to thank her for holding on. Anyone have any good ideas on how to suprise her when I get back? Or any good da...
A. 23 July 2007: Thank you for your replies
Andre C... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...
A. 22 July 2007: Hey Andrew,
Im on everyday speak good english and have nothing better to do with my time so i would love to please msg me back thank you.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago because I found out that she was cheating on me. She said that we can never be together.
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago because I found out that she was cheating on me. She said that we can never be together. I still love her, I mean we were together for two years. At first I didn’t know what to do, but then I was ...
A. 19 July 2007: Don't take her back she cheated on you so you know that shes not loyal and you can't do that to your girlfriend, it's not fair to her hope I helped---... (read in full...)
I noticed that she has been Googling romantic getaways and has also logged onto free Online Email Greeting cards with "Love" and "Missing You" titles. Do I have something to worry about?
Q. I am a 40 year old married man. Recently I discovered that my wife has a hidden HotMail account that I am not suppose to know of. I have not confronted her yet and don't want to as I would like to see if there is a way I can tap into her email ...
A. 14 July 2007: Well i dnt think theres a way of getting into it either guess it or look at her secret question and try to answer it if u get it right then u can reset the password to anything u want...hope i helped... (read in full...)
He is harrassing me about spending 150 on a laptop when he spends 170 a month on BEER!
Q. Im 19 and my fiance is 26. for some reason i feel like i'm wasting my time! we have been together 9 months and have known each other 4 months before we got together. i have kinda moved in with him and his dad and sister. because of the hassle we ...
A. 13 July 2007: You should get out of that relationship...Drugs and alchol dnt mix there is going to be alotof problems to come
Any questions msg me take care hun... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to have asked for the expensive ring back?
Q. I just bought a $3K ring for my girlfriend and then she announces she is moving out after 10 months. I asked for the ring back and that offended her? Am I wrong to have asked?...
A. 13 July 2007: She should give it back without a doubt.I hate gold diggers"!!!!... (read in full...)
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