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anonymous
writes:i was with my ex-bf for 6 years and he broke up with me because of our constant fighting. i think he just didnt love me. since our break up, 1 year ago, he still calls every 2 weeks, why?i asked him not to call if he was seeing anyone. when i pressured him , he told me that he had one night stands with girls 15 years younger than me, strippers and beautiful bartendars.... im soooo confused and hurt.
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reader, AndreC. +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hes playing games with ur head and is calling u 2 make u feel bad and make u jealous just threaten 2 call the cops on him and hell stop cause he should be doing that he should respect u and the decision he made he should stand by it
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reader, agony jess  +, writes (25 October 2007):
maybe he has just realised what a big mistake it was finishing you and if trying to get back with you but if you do decide to get back with him tell him the strip bars need to stop jess x
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reader, Fiery  +, writes (25 October 2007):
There might be two reasons he is still calling you and neither of them paints him in a good light. First he might be calling because you are still paying him attention.If, as he says, he is having one night stands, chances are those younger women are giving him zip attention and even for a cavalier that might get to u sometimes. Secondly, he might be stoking his own ego by hurting you. I don't really think he has any more feelings for you or he would not deliberately seek to hurt you and in such a callous manner. Just ignore him, easier said than done, I know, but it pays off in the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): He is playing games with you and your head! Change your phone numbers! Or just dont answer his calls, simple, he will get bored with that in time. Push him out of your life. He doesnt want you, or does he, er, he cannot make up his mind, and while you listen to his calls, he has you just where he wants you, at the end of the line!
take care
xxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (25 October 2007):
 There might still be some feelings there, but it sounds to me as though he is looking for a reaction from you as he has no reason to tell you what he has been up to with other people.
If you have no feelings for him tell him you want no further contact with him and you are pleased that he is out there having fun, if he thinks you are not bothered by it he might stop.
Take care.xx.
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