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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I recently lost my virginity, when will sex stop hurting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - hi i just lost my virginty a few days ago , but it pained alot ,and couldnt even let him enter me fully . i am soo confused is this normal? how long does it take for me not to feel any pain ? and when will i get something out of it ,and i never bl...

Got pregnant without intercourse -- can I still call myself a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello,am 22yrs old,a female and av always wanted to keep my virginity for the right guy.wen I was 18,I was in a relationship and wen we are making out,he normally uses his penis to rub my vagina,in one of dose occassions!he ejaculated on my vagina ...

Still a Virgin at 28 years old and I want to get rid of it.

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I'm an attractive educated female and I'm about to turn 29 years old and I haven't had sex yet. Don't get me wrong, I've done everything but get penetrated. I was waiting till marriage but I have no prospects and I don't want this to be a problem ...

Everything goes great -- until the condom comes out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - Hi there. I'm writing this today because I'm experiencing an issue that (apparently, judging by numerous Google searches) many young guys face. I've been dating a wonderful girl for over 8 months now, and it is a committed and loving relationship ...

Is there a chance that a virgin won't bleed on her first sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I just had sex with a girl, younger than my age. She claims that she has never done anything like that before and was REALLY innocent on our first try, so do I. I know nothing in making a distinction between the virgin one and the experienced one. ...

Girl on top. How is it done without being totally awkward?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Ok, so I recently had my first time, but it hurt a lot, so I did some research and got some advice to try me on top next time. Only problem is, it seems like a really awkward position... But I'm sure you Aunts can help explain this to me so i...

Is it a turn off/negative thing for a male to be a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3420 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Hello. Is there a limit on how long you should be a virgin? I'm a male, turning later this year. I've never had intercourse before! What worries me is if that will put off a potential partner down the road? I'm not sure if that's a negative ...

I want to show him I love him -- should I lose my virginity to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months.. i feel like i really love him . but i sometimes think about my ex. that hurt really bad but then again we had alot connection. but! i really want to show my bf how much i love him i dont know ...

Why is it ok to be a virgin at 18?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - If I'm a virgin at 18, why do people say it's okay? I know for a fact that all those numbers people come up with about how many people lie about having sex is complete crap. There are more people around me who either have kids that are 2 or 3, or ...

Could this be a latex allergy, or is this normal for your first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - So I just lost my virginity yesterday to my boyfriend. (It hurt a lot, so there wasn't more than just a little bit of thrusting before we stopped) And he wore a condom, of course. I don't want to get pregnant! But about five or so hours lat...

How can I get a cougar woman? This is a personal choice of mine, and I wish to get me a relationship with one.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

18 May 2012 (M) - Hi, everyone. I have a specific goal that I wish to acheive. I'm in my early 20's, I still am a virgin, I STILL don't know what a kiss feels like, etc. So, I figure, to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, I should get together with a cougar. However,...

I don't want to feel like a bad person for this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4572 days ago

15 May 2012 (M) - hi everyone ok i'm 19 and still a virgin. i talk to a girl who likes me but i don't feel the same as her and i know that we will have sex down the road if she wanted to. i get very horny and want to have sex so i then masterbate and then i feel ...

I'm a 20 year old virgin...is that a turn off?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I'm in college. I've never had sex because I've never had a boyfriend and never wanted to sleep with random guys. No one ever believes me when I tell them I've never had sex mainly because I go out/party/drink a lot and ...

I suffer from fear of having sex, help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - I am fortunate enough to be a young female starting my third year of college, and I'm currently in a relationship with someone who I truly care about. Not only do I love and trust my boyfriend more than anything, but he has also been my best friend ...

When I was reluctant to de-flower her she seemed to turn off me. I love her. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

14 May 2012 (M) - i love this girl...we met online and started dating for over one year... i told her everything about myself on how i left my rich and balanced family to live in a tough place, because of the problem i have with my dad... she accepted me. Then one d...

How do I navigate my way through a love triangle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4572 days ago

13 May 2012 (F) - So, my story starts 2 years ago. I met this guy who was a bit youger than me, let's call him X, we became friends and then we started dating (sorry for my english, i'm not from america). Everything was perfect for about 1 year, we shared a lot ...

Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 May 2012 (M) - Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...

I worry that she compares me with her ex. Will she have a memory of her 'best sex' with her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

13 May 2012 (M) - I have a great girlfriend and we get along really well. Everything is going along perfectly and we really see a future together. Currently we are long distance as we are seperated for the summer, and my mind is giving me some troubles. I was a v...

Do you have to just take the plunge at some point if you're really nervous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4574 days ago

12 May 2012 (F) - Okay. My boyfriend and I have been together for six months now, he's nineteen and I'm eighteen. After A-levels are over we'll be going up to London to watch a bit of Wimbledon and we'll be sharing a room and we've planned to have sex together for ...

Guys and girls I need your thoughts please: what does define a girl who is 'good in bed'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 May 2012 (F) - I'm trying to think of a way to put this delicately but failing miserably so here goes - I was chatting with some of my guy friends the other day, and one of them started talking about how this girl was really bad in bed. I'm a virgin and my bf an...

If a girl dry humps a male virgin, does it mean she has taken his virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

10 May 2012 (M) - Hello. I'm nervous on asking about this, on here. But, I guess my question is appropriate, to ask on here. When a girl dry humps a guy, does it mean he can no longer say he's a virgin? Like, for example, does it mean he's had sex, and, as a result...

Boyfriend is ready to lose his virginity to me, but I'm not ready! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - I'm a virgin and a teenager. My boyfriend is also a virgin but he's ready to lose his virginity to me. But Im not ready. And he gets sexually frustrated. What Am I suppose to do?...

My family frown on intermingling with others. So how do I, a virgin, handle my sexual desire and wish to be married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 May 2012 (F) - I really dont know what to do. I dont have a boyfriend but a big crush on this somebody. Also i am a virgin and 19. I belong to a narrow minded family where intermingling is not considered good. My sexual desire is driving me crazy. I want to ...

Was I the first guy? Did I take my girlfriend's virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 May 2012 (M) - OK me and my GF are very close and she swears she gave me her virginity now I know I was her 1st bf in history and 1st kiss.etc anyways I'm worried (cus I get that way cus I'm insecure) that maybe she's lying and the reason why is this the day she ...

Are some people just not meant to have a partner in life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 May 2012 (M) - I'm 23 years old, and I'm still a virgin. The only romantic experience I had was during my first year of university, which was basically just a kiss. I spent a considerable amount of time working out at the gym as a teenager, and managed to get into ...

I don't think my boyfriend understand that my no means no. I am not ready. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - I think my boyfriend only wants to have sex with me and im a virgin and he is very sexual and all he wants to talk about is sex I told him im not ready but I don't think he understands what should I do?...

Be honest: would you date a 24-year old virgin or would you pass her up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

2 May 2012 (F) - To start off I want a completely honest answer from you guys. Don't tell me what I want to hear, but your real opinion. So, here goes: I'm a 24 year old virgin. Would you be open to dating one? Or would it freak you out? I'm not looking for ...

I lied in front of my friends and said I wasn't a virgin, but I am and I'm afraid they'll find out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 May 2012 (F) - i have a massive problem, that could screw me up and lose my best friends and the guy if i tell the truth!! I'm going out with this guy, we're getting closer and i can feel it's leading somewhere.. thing is i haven't had sex before, but i don't want ...

Should I wing it for my first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

1 May 2012 (M) - I am a 21 kiss less virgin (For an idea on my looks, I am a Mixed Martial Artist (so, fit), 65kg, 5,11. And my face is average if not better). I have met this girl online (she is 25) and she is really into me, but I haven't said I have never even ...