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writes:Hello,am 22yrs old,a female and av always wanted to keep my virginity for the right guy.wen I was 18,I was in a relationship and wen we are making out,he normally uses his penis to rub my vagina,in one of dose occassions!he ejaculated on my vagina and I didn't see any problem with that until my period got delayed the next mth,I went to d hospital after talking some drugs to make my period come wen I was bluntly told I was pregnant!with my hymen still intact!I had to face an abortion den but suprisingly d doctor told me he cudnt find a hymen also!I was so devastated cos I know av never had sex before!I cudnt even tell my boyfriend and I went thru d whole process alone!av never had sex before in my life but av aborted a baby before and I stil avent ad sex before!I don't know wot happened to my hymen,do I still count myself as a virgin?!am so confused
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (2 June 2012):
yes you are still a virgin, I have heard of this happening other people
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): It is not impossible to get pregnant with out having intercourse so dont lisen to " aunt honesly". What happened was when he was rubbing up against your vagina and ejaculated some of it had to of got inside your vigina, maybe by running down your vagina and into your hole?, even a lil drop of seamen can get you prego. and dont freak out about your hymen not being there! that can rip even when your really young by playing a sport, or jumping, falling, riding a horse, riding a bike, ect. ( google it if you dont believe me) it does not mean your not a virgin anymore, please dont panick. and next time he's rubbing on your vagina with his penis let him ejaculate somewere else, so this sorta thing doesnt happen again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012): A guy can't enter a virgin 'slightly' without her noticing! Don't you remember your first time?!
Back to the question - I have no idea. Technically I guess the answer is 'no' you're not a virgin, but if you feel you genuinely haven't given yourself in that way to anyone then I could understand you classifying yourself as a virgin.
Sorry to hear you had to go through an abortion (though that seems less distressing to you than the idea of lost virginity...).
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 If I were you, I'd concentrate on finding a reliable method of birth control to avoid an unwanted pregnancy again, rather then your status as a virgin.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (30 May 2012):
 It is almost next to impossible to get pregnant without having intercourse. He must have entered you slightly without you noticing in order for you to get pregnant.
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