A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi everyoneok i'm 19 and still a virgin. i talk to a girl who likes me but i don't feel the same as her and i know that we will have sex down the road if she wanted to. i get very horny and want to have sex so i then masterbate and then i feel guilty and have second thoughts about us having sex and then 5 minutes later i'm back wanting to have sex with her or anyone again. part of me wants to just get it over with with anyone and for me it would be this girl cause i know i could as i can just ask her for dirty pictures and she would send me some not of her naked but close but i don't feel anything for her. i feel so guilty about it and i delete the pictures then i ask for them again like that night cause of me being that way.i don't want to feel this way anymore i feel i'm a bad person for this which i amhow can i stop feeling like this? please help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 May 2012):
 Your virginity is a big thing, my advice would be to wait until you meet someone you care about and want to be with, because it will make it feel so much better. Being horny is normal but don't use this girl for sex. She might already have feelings for you, and am sure you wouldn't want to hurt her, so I think the best thing to do here is to avoid all conversation about sex when talking to her, if she keeps bringing it up then be honest with the girl, she deserves the truth.
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