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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Any advice on what to do with my hymen problem????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Heya. I used a tampon once and it really hurt me. So i haven't done it since. My boyfriend and i are thinking about sex but i am really scared of the pain. I did horseback riding for 8 years and i have done football, but my hymen is still ...

I lost my virginity a while back and it hurt A LOT, but it didn't bleed, is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend about two months ago.. it was hurting alot. and i mean ALOT! but i didnt blead.. idk why because hes realy big.. about 10 in or 10 1/2 yet even thow i was in so much pain i didnt bleed.. is that normal?...

I'm a virgin but my girlfriend is not. I hear that it would be wrong if she took my virginity, but I don't think it is. What is your opinion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - me and my girl friend are both 14, we love echother a lot. even at this age. we have been told it's real, a few time's so we think it is....... but she is not a vergin and i am.......would it be wrong if she took my verginity? i wont do eny...

Did we lose our virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - Please let me know whether I'm a virgin? I'm a 20 year old boy and very recently my girlfriend forced me for sex but as I was trying to penetrate her she cried and I left her alone, I couldn't see her in pain. Not even the head but yes a little...

What would be the most unpainful position for my virgin girlfriend during sex? Other tips to reduce the hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - what would be the most unpainful position, for my girlfriend during sex? if the time comes i really dont want to hert her, what is the best way to make it as painless as possible for her? i would do enything, to keep from hurting her if i...

I'm a virgin and my boyfriend and I feel ready to have sex. Just a few questions.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I feel ready to have sex. Just a few questions..... Approximately how long will it hurt after we've had sex? (I'm a virgin) He's had sex before, and I don't know what position would be most comfortable. Should we stick wit...

How can I not go into marriage anxious after the guilt of feeling my mothers touch??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a virgin in my twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I am close to...

Has anyone had their hymen broken riding a horse (and did it hurt)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Hi my 16 year old sister is going horse back riding for the first time . one day she was looking up things about sex , virginity and other stuff. mostly on dr. drew's web site and gurl.com about the hymen that we women have she found out that the ...

Very self conscious about my big breats. Any natural method for breast reduction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I feel really self concious about my boobs, I'm 15 and I'm size 34DD. Is this too big?? Iv tried eating less and exercising more to loose some weight off them and haven't really lost anything only 6 pounds... Should I get a Brea...

I plan to lose virginity with this boy but I'm very paranoid about the condom splitting and very self conscious about my body.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Well.. I really wanna have sex with this guy.. and it would mean losing my virginity but I'm scared if the condom splits. I am really really paranoid about it splitting and me ending up with getting pregnant and i cant afford to get pregnant. But i ...

Did this paedophile take my virginity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Well i've been with this man for 13 months, he's 22.. i think. im not goin to tell u how old i am but im not younger than 13. i always go to his house. we dont have PROPER sex.. we just like rub against each other, but we're naked.. you might tink ...

Should I lose my virginity to my best friend, or wait for that special man to come into my life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - My best guy friend and I are both 16 and have been friends for almost two years now.These past 5 months or so we have been very touchy feely,we've done everything except for sex.We are both virgins,and he always plays around saying that some day ...

My girl says she wants to shower with me and get some whipped cream...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

18 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend said she wants to take a shower with me and lay on my bed naked and get some whip cream and she says that i can do whatever i want to her and she will do whatever i want her to do to me but she says she dont want sex. I kind really ...

Early 20's, virgin, and suffering from anxiety. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6174 days ago

17 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a virgin in my early twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I ...

He forced himself on me but it didn't hurt. Does that mean I am still a Virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - I don't know what happened here. My boyfriend and I were making out when he removed my clothes and told put his penis down there, he said he wouldn't penetrate that we are just playing. Before I knew it he was using force though I didn't feel any ...

Where can I find a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - Hey I need sum help! Where can i find a gf? Im 18 and have never had a gf? And obviously a virgin then. I have no confidence in going up to girls and talking to them. But wen i do find sum courage they usually go for my more attractive mates...

Worried I'll aim for the wrong entrance when I try and have sex... is it hard to find?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - hi im chris and i am a virgin. i have turned down many opportunities for sex bacause i am scared i will stay limp or not be able to find the correct entrance.. is there any easy way to find the right hole when your in intercourse? Chris...

Is it normal to bleed after first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - hey there people in dear cupid land... me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months yesterday :) and we decided to have sex ( he's 18 and im 17) it was a fantastic end to the eveining but... is it normal to bleed a little bit after sex im ...

I was up... then I wasn't. Did I wait too long to stick it in? What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

12 December 2007 (M) - me and my gurl tried having sex again we were in the bed kissing touching and everything all that gud stuff and while doing so my penis was hard as a rock but when it came down to doing the do i couldnt get on hard to save my life y is that? did i ...

Is this possible? Penis fracture during sex when certain positions are assumed? (e.g. cowgirl) Also, can it be recuperated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

12 December 2007 (M) - Hi all, I am a 23-year old virgin who has read up quite a bit on sexual matters. I have heard that the male penis can snap when certain positions are assumed (e.g. cowgirl), under certain level of intensity. May I know how this can be successfu...

My first sexual contact 7 months ago was painful and I am still in immense pain during sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - i am 18 and have been in a relationship for the past 12 months. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around 7 months ago which was really painful. I still however still cannot have sex without bein in immense pain. This is now becoming an issue in ...

He's seen me naked but we haven't had sex yet and I'm scared about progressing...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend is coming back from college, and I haven't seen him in 3 months. I've never done many sexual things. He's seen me fully naked, but I'm kinda scared. He asked me if we could go ahead and have sex. He has way more ...

Can there be bleeding from penis as the male loses his virginity?? Does excessive masturbation have implication upon holding an erection easily during the sexual act?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

11 December 2007 (M) - I just wanted to ask for educational purpose that during sexual intercourse as male loose their virginity can there be bleeding from penis ? and how painful is sex for males and if someone has masturbated many a times before actual sex can we get an ...

Could a tampon take your virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

10 December 2007 (F) - Out of curiosity, If you have never had sex but you use a tampon and your hyman breaks, would you be considered not a virgen?...

Having previously used a vibrator, will my 'first time' be less painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6182 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) - Hi Guys Just a quick one, Im a 20 year old virgin and i think me and my boyfriend will be taking the next step soon enough, Now i know about protection and not to do it if its not right, my question is i have used a vibrator before so will hav...

Should I tell him I am a virgin before we have sex or simply don't mention it?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) - I have been going out with a guy recently but it is the first proper relationship I have been in. Therefore, I am still a Virgin. When the time comes, is it a good thing to tell the guy you are a Virgin before you have sex or should I just leave ...

Any useful tips on how we can spend time alone so our first time can be special??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

9 December 2007 (M) - Me and my girl friend are both virgins living at home with our families. We have recently decided we want to have sex but we want to do it properly (in a bed unlike a lot of people or age that are happy to use any old street corner!- using most of ...

I'm still a virgin, how do I make it last longer than 30 sec? Worried about "performance."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

7 December 2007 (M) - I have never had sex and im scared that when i do i wont be any good. When I wank I only last about 30 seconds and im worried that I'll fully embarrass myself when i have sex. I've had plenty of chances but have always put them off beacuse i get to ...

I feel anxious and depressed all the time... how do I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

7 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am a virgin in my early twenties.I was suffering from depression for the last two years. The depresion was due to difference of opinion between me and my dad. Although I was not happy to go by his opinions but could not dishearten him a...

How long should I be with my gf before we sleep together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

5 December 2007 (M) - i'm kinda a fish outta water when it comes to relationships, being that iv only had one, ever! which im still in, im jus wondering how long should i be with my gf before we sleep together?...

Could a lady feel pain or bleed if she has already broken her hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

5 December 2007 (F) - hello i want to ask 2 questions 1. will a lady have pain and bleedindg if she already broke her hymen? 2. is she considerd a virgin if she has no pain and bleedin during her first sex? will her hubby consider her a virgin? thanks....

She initiated everything but now I feel bad because she was a virgin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

5 December 2007 (M) - I was at one of my fraternity parties, and I met a girl on the dance floor. I was incredibly drunk, so I was super-friendly. We hit it off fast, and started making out. She pulled me into a darker room, and was throwing her leg up on me, and ...

I lost my virginity , it was horrible he treated me bad, now I want to wait till I get married, but the guy will probably be a virgin too, will this be a problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I've had sex with one person before, this was my ex bf of 7 months. I felt I was in love with him, yet it turns out the guy who I was 'in love with' didnt exist- it was all an act he put on. Less then a week after we had sex, ...

Me and my bf are both shy thus we haven't approached the sexual side of our relation. Will he think I am weird for being a virgin at 36?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

3 December 2007 (F) - Hi Myself and my boyfriend of six weeks are finding it difficult to tell each other how we feel about each other as we are both shy and this has led to us not starting a sexual relationship yet, who should make the first move to have sex, and as...

He was desperate to marry me, now he wants to WAIT to get engaged. What's going on with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

3 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has been telling me from two months into our relationship that he loves me more than life and wants to marry me. We lost our virginity to each other 6 months ago and now we're approaching a year. I want him to propose to me for ...

Can a dildo break your hymen??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

2 December 2007 (F) - Is it possible to lose your hymen with a dildo? If so, how can you tell if you've lost it? This weekend was my first time using a dildo, and I bled. I'm not sure if I a) lost my hymen b) caused my cervix to bleed c) caused some other area in there ...

Did I lose my virginity even if it only lasted for a few seconds??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

2 December 2007 (M) - OK so I'm wondering if I am a virgin or not. I hooked up with a girl, and I was drunk so I had a hard time getting an erection, anyways I got it up for a few seconds, and so I put it inside of her and penetrated her, but only for a couple seconds ...

I'm scared but I know I'm ready.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

2 December 2007 (F) - I'm 17 years old and so is my boyfriend. I'm ready to have sex with him, i'm just nervous because i'm a virgin and he isn't. What if i'm bad and don't know what to do and what if it hurts? I'm scared i suppose but i know i'm ready....

I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

1 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am 28 year old virgin, male, from the UK. I have never had any sexual experience with the opposite sex- no girlfriends or sexual relationships. Despite my age, I am a mature student, at University. Is there anything morally wrong with datin...

I can respect her vow of post-marital intercourse but I have my sexual needs/desires! I love her, but it's frustrating that she won't touch me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

1 December 2007 (M) - Im a 24 year old American male who has only been touched and had sex with one girl when I was 17. Over the past 7 years I have been desperate for intimacy and sex with only failed results. I did however meet a girl 4 months ago whom I have grown to ...