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I'm still a virgin, how do I make it last longer than 30 sec? Worried about "performance."

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Question - (7 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have never had sex and im scared that when i do i wont be any good. When I wank I only last about 30 seconds and im worried that I'll fully embarrass myself when i have sex. I've had plenty of chances but have always put them off beacuse i get to worried. How can i make myself last long...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007):

i tatally agree with megan it sounds like you are lacking self esteem. Are you sure your ready there is no need to rush into anything. Just relax and enjoy

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A female reader, Megan Deetes United Kingdom +, writes (8 December 2007):

Megan Deetes agony auntIt sounds like all you need is self esteem :) Firstly have you done any thing else? Kissing is a start oral etc. etc because sex is natural it comes naturally so experience is just a bonus. If you are fit healthy and active you should be able to go for longer- its like playing a sport once you start playing you forget how tired you are if you let yourself enjoy it :) Tell yourself you are sexy and you will be tell yourself you are good in bed and before you know it you'll be a sex god :D

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