A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I have never had sex and im scared that when i do i wont be any good. When I wank I only last about 30 seconds and im worried that I'll fully embarrass myself when i have sex. I've had plenty of chances but have always put them off beacuse i get to worried. How can i make myself last long...
View related questions:
last longer, still a virgin Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): i tatally agree with megan it sounds like you are lacking self esteem. Are you sure your ready there is no need to rush into anything. Just relax and enjoy
A
female
reader, Megan Deetes +, writes (8 December 2007):
It sounds like all you need is self esteem :) Firstly have you done any thing else? Kissing is a start oral etc. etc because sex is natural it comes naturally so experience is just a bonus. If you are fit healthy and active you should be able to go for longer- its like playing a sport once you start playing you forget how tired you are if you let yourself enjoy it :) Tell yourself you are sexy and you will be tell yourself you are good in bed and before you know it you'll be a sex god :D
Good Luck if you need anymore help message me
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
...............................
|