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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I'm 16 and online dating. He's 2-3 years older. What did his weird remark about me mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Hi guys. Just wanna ask your opinions too. I've met this guy about 2-3 years older than me and we're texting and stuff and we're just friends. He's really nice. We are also on the same chat site But the thing is we don't talk that often, let...

How can I make her really mine? I know she is attracted to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I met her in high school, and we have been friends ever since. I have told her I love her and she has told me she loves me too. I have distanced myself but she has gone out of the way to make me come back to her. Our boyfriends have been suspicious ...

Do possessive relationships last? Should I mention my concerns to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Hi - a female friend of mine has just got into a relationship with a man who pays her a lot of attention, says he loves her and makes her feel good. Sounds great doesn't it?!!! However, I have found out from her that before they got together off...

I told him had nothing to do with the prank, but he now won't speak to me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3351 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Dear all I have posted before asking for advice on a Fwb that got back in touch, I'm slightly heartbroken because although he wasn't getting in touch as much (not for Fwb) a mutual friend sent his friend a message (little bit childish) askin...

Am I totally crazy for "loving" someone I've never seen, and who lives in another country, and he has a Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 August 2015 (M) - Ok, this will be a long story so forgive me. So, I am a 20 year old gay male and I've played this online game for years now and like 2 months ago I met 2 really nice people, a male and a female. Over these 2 months I've grown pretty close to them,...

I still want my ex-Bf back.Do you any suggestions on how I can convince him to date me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I recently rekindled with my ex boyfriend, and after two months he tells me. He is "not interested in a relationship with me. Just fall back." I asked him twice what made him change his mind, and he has not responded. Here is what happened ...

How will I find a boyfriend when I'm not happy with my physical appearance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I am a 28 year old African American woman. Without sounding petty I just want to come right out and say this, I do not find myself physically attractive. I feel this way about my face and body. The main reason is I was morbidly obese, very un...

My husband is obese and has health issues. Should I leave him or continue to try and support him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My marriage is suffering due to my husbands excessive weight gain, should I leave him or continue to try and support him and hope that things will get better? We've been together for 11 years and have two young children. I love him dearly but ...

Should I be scared about starting to look for another Gf, due to the fact that I believe I have a small penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 August 2015 (M) - Okay so I am 16 I am scared to start looking for another gf as I have a small penis there's nothing I can do about it but it sucks. I don't want to get a gf and lose her because my penis is really small. I can't stop thinking about my ex, we've not...

My daughter cut ties with us. How can I make things right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - My 20 year old daughter moved and cut ties with her step father and I - How can I make things right? I know most of this is my fault. There has been a lot of drama in our household. My husband and I fight often and have not made good decisions ...

Is it time to bring this to a close? Seems I am now just a text friend and there has been no apology.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - May I ask for advice I fell out with a guy I got close to He gave me the impression he was finished with the person who he was with but was not the case as he has bought into a flat and had to see out the contract Anyway because I felt le...

Paying on a date. Am I making this too big of a deal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Am I making this too big of a deal? I have been seeing one guy for about 3 weeks now. Everything is good and I really love to be with him, he wants to be with me, we have fun together and everything is easy and we just click. He is very caring...

Online dating. Is me asking her when we will get together a bad thing? She will not give me a solid answer

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 August 2015 (M) - I have been in a online relationship for quite sometime now and I wont say it has been easy, I have made a few mistakes and put our trust on thin ice so she has a hard time trusting me. We have been working on this together very diligently and duri...

He's been verbally abusive. My parents call him psycho. Should I move on or try harder in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I don't whether I'm still in relationship with him or not but i will say: I am in a relationship with south indian conservative man,though my roots are from south as well but my birth and education is done in different state due to work reason i...

I feel some friends are distancing themselves from me. How do I respond or deal with this to minimise the hurt I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3375 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I've been having some friendship insecurities lately. Although I tell myself it's silly and to just let it go, it seems to be hard to do so... So a few years ago I had a wonderful group of friends, and we all spoke pretty much daily. Granted,...

Can our LDR survive if we're not able to meet face to face until 4-5 months time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I joined an online dating site a few months ago. The first thing you need to know is that I'm currently living abroad. When I joined the site, my plan was to move back to the U.S. At the beginning of next year. But, things have happened since t...

After 8 months together does my LDR really know me or care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Hello. I have been seeing a guy in a LDR for eight months. We see each other every other fortnight and talk about three times a week too. Although we have good times together, and he tells my he loves me, I often feel something is mis...

Any advice for a lonely old man of 79 who likes to masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

30 August 2015 (M) - Any advise for an elderly man who is lonely and likes to masturbate...

A psychiatrist told me I am not mad, (when I asked him) but is it possible to feel something for an historical person who lived in another era? What is this feeling called?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Since I was a child, I was always afraid about become mad. Two years ago I learned about the existence of a russian man who lived between the second part of XIX century and the start of 10's. I was enchanted for his behaviour and pe...

Is working on these two commercials together ruining our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. He is a film major and I am in art school. This year, my uncle offered us a job doing 2 commercials for a product. its been going poorly and ruining our relationship. My boyfriend feels as if he i...

Can anyone tell me why my mother is behaving this way? I'm 22 but she acts like she does not trust me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3375 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Hello all, I am a 22 year old female college student living at home with my mom. As much as I would love to move out, I can't because my tuition is where almost all of my paychecks are going. My mom and I have always been close, and we've never ...

My Mother's said she's a married man's mistress. How can I respond and preserve our mother-daughter relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, My mother told me recently she has been a mistress to a married man for the last 5 years. She got involved with him when my dad was terminally ill and told me about it after he passed away. She is still seeing him and wants to ...

Is she still attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Do you think she is attracted to me? I have known my friend for close to 15 years and our relationship grew from just being friends, to close friends in a strange way. I have always been attracted to her and she knows the fact .. She let's me...

When will all this hurt, angst and anger ease off or go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - I was treated badly by my ex and his new girlfriend. I thought I was over him as he wasn't the most loyal guy and was kind of seeing this other girl casually just before we split up - so we decided to go our separate ways and I have no wish to get b...

I made a comment to him that has come back to bite me in the butt and now I'm confused about everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Hi all, Here is my situation. I was starting to see this guy, who was chasing me for about a month before I gave in to hanging out, which is unlike me because when I feel as though I have chemistry with someone, I tend to jump right in. Hones...

I'm dating a man who is depressed. Its making me feel vulnerable. How do I not let it get to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been with someone for 6 months and I absolutely adore him. We fell in love and everything was effortless and happy. Since the beginning of the relationship I had the feeling he was maybe a bit depressed but now that he has had ...

If you have to tell yourself that you're not a lesbian does that mean you're hiding (your sexual preference) or not accepting it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - If you have to tell yourself you're not a lesbian, does that mean you're hiding it and just not accepting it? Because I keep telling myself that i'm not since I can't stop having compulsive, obsessive thoughts about my sexuality. I know. I KNOW...

I feel like I really want to text him, after our date. What can I say to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I went on a first date with a guy last night. I had already slept with him after a very drunken night out. We spoke about this and said we will start a fresh. However, he works in the army so he goes away for weeks at a time. So he goes away on ...

She used me when she was bi-curious. I want her, she doesn't want me. What can I do? I feel so lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Could be long. This has been ongoing for 3 months now and it's getting worse, not better. This girl used me as she was bi-curious and I fell for her. She doesn't want me, I want her. I can't just be friends with her but I don't wanna stop talking ...

What can I do about his reluctance to spend time with me, and have a social life together, during weekends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Recently, I've gotten into a long term relationship. We've been dating for two years and I had to move an hour and a half away to finish college. Something that has been bothering me is the fact that he never wants to spend time with me aroun...

Strained relationship with my fiance's sister. I want a better relationship with his family. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Well where do I begin. I am 23. I have been with my fiancée 4 years and engaged for 3 years. Since from the very beginning I have had a lot trouble from his side of the family, especially from his older sister. We have never really seen eye ...

Feeling insecure. Do I take notice of what my brother said? Or do I ask the guy I'm dating about what my brother said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, im not even sure where to start. But ive been dating a guy for 5 weeks, he's really lovely no problems really. He's my boss so it's a little complicated there but we've kept it out of work. I can separate these things pretty well i...

At 26 years of age, why am I now having strong gay thoughts now, when I don't think I'm gay nor bi-sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

27 August 2015 (M) - Hi, I am a little confused about myself sexually. Normally I like women, I find them very pretty and attractive, face, hair and body shape etc the usually heterosexual stuff. I am even shy around women but I find whenever I am aroused, I always end ...

Can I still trust my partner? I'm in turmoil and have doubts since I saw a message on his phone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I saw a message on my finance phone whom I have been in a relationship with for the last 4 years which as really upset me. The message were between him and his friend and said along the line of shall we have a threesom...

Should I trust my G/f and continue with our relationship or make both of our lives easier and just break it off now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

27 August 2015 (M) - I'd like to ask for some opinions, any opinions at all, from an outside point of view. I just can't think straight without determining whether I'm too emotional or just plain paranoid at this point. I'm 24, and have been with my girlfriend (same...

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly m...

He made a remark that upset me. Should I say something to my boyfriend's friend or just let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I was at the beach yesterday with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends were there to meet me for the first time and hang out with us. I was in a 2 piece suit but you could still see a bit of skin. I was devastated when I over heard his...

Doctor and dermatologist suggested remedies that have not helped. What else can reduce skin discolouration around inner thigh area?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - My inner thighs/groin area is very dark and discolorated and I don't know how to get rid of it. It recently made me feel much worse because my partner noticed it and asked me about it. I read it is a skin condition caused by insulin resistan...

She looked completely different when we met. Were my expectations too high? Do you think I should give it some time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I don't want this to sound horrible but here it goes I met a woman my age on a dating site and well...when we met she didn't look how I expected. What I mean by this is she looked a lot better in her pics on the dating site and on FaceBook. W...

Can men and women just be friends? Or does he want more even though he has a GF?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - Hi, So...I've been at a new job for a year now and my manager wasn't around for the first half, he was travelling but ever since he returned we're constantly teasing each other, going out of our way to wind the other up and I was just taking as f...

Trouble with Boyfriend, Should I stay? He's jealous and controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 2 and a half years. About a year into our relationship, we had a lot of problems with him being jealous and controlling, and I broke up with him for about a month. He begged for me back, showed up at my parent’s...

I feel lost. I do love him. But why even be with someone if they are never there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I feel like I'm not being treated properly in my relationship but I love the guy I'm with and it's so hard to figure out what to do. I feel lost, I'd don't know what's right or wrong. Me and him had a fight at the weekend gone, we spent a few d...

Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I feel incredibly guilty. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years.I am 27 and he is 29. I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. Like many relationships we have had our ups and ...

I feel I really don't deserve my partner.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - I feel I really dont deserve my partner. I have been with him six years, and I have treated him appallingly. I have anger issues and hormone problems and he has bore the brunt of it for years. I have been so jealous and possessive, how he stuck it ...

I hate cheating, but not as much as a failure to forgive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3382 days ago

23 August 2015 (M) - IT’s been the story that hasn’t gone away all week. Ashley Madison sent journalists in to a spin trying to access the 9.7 gb of data leaked on to the internet, trying to find any public figures who may be embroiled in the scandal. Suspicious spouses ...

What can I do to ensure our relationship can work, without the guilt of feeling selfish about delaying having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Hello all! Please I need your advice on this issue. I and my bf have been dating for over a year now and we have never had sex. I'm a Virgin and he is a Virgin also. We ar both 23yrs. He really wants us to have sex but I don't want to until we...

Having doubts about my long term Bf. Are my concerns deal breakers for a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3382 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Im in longterm relationship with my boyfriend of 6 years. He proposed for marriage but theres doubts despite i love him so much. Im confused with his character. Im unsure about my future with him. We had go through had times with breakups and get...

Should I be concerned? Her actions and her words are affecting my trust in her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

23 August 2015 (M) - Hi first time poster and I have two areas in my relationship that are troubling me. Please offer some helpful advice if you can. 1)My so and I agreed to air our past dirty laundry(wasn't a good idea).At any rate over the last five years more and m...

I'm dating a woman who's bigger and I'm totally into her. Why do some people question my choice, my preferences and my motives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

23 August 2015 (M) - There seems to be an issue that's come up a lot in my life and I'm wondering if others have perhaps have experienced the same thing. Ever since I was a teenager I have been more attracted to females that are more full-figured. Its not that I don...

Should I give him another chance? Or tell him to jog on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - i'd like to see what people will say . i was supposed to go on a date from an online date , we've been speaking for 3 month . he cancelled twice ( one reason was he forgot it was his dads birthday and another his niece broke her arm and he took ...