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writes:i'd like to see what people will say . i was supposed to go on a date from an online date , we've been speaking for 3 month . he cancelled twice ( one reason was he forgot it was his dads birthday and another his niece broke her arm and he took her to hospital. yet his brother (who drives) actually took her.Yesterday was 'rushing' back from his holiday because he set off late .He ignored calls and texts and decided to reply once i had got home from arranging to meet me. He cancelled a 3rd time. he claims to like me so much and can 'see' a future yet he never said sorry for not contacting me. I turned up at another town in a mutually agreed place in public to which i went home after 30 mins . He then said he was still rushing to get ready and was letting me know when he was turning up. But i'd already told him i'd set off 30 mins before the meeting and that i was waiting.also that i was leaving for that town. am i wrong to not want to talk to him? even tho he 'claims ' to likes me? to be honest i feel hes a proper time waster and either a joke or ashamed to meet me because of how he looks. he's not stunner but that didnt matter to me. should i be stupid and give him another chance or tell him no more and goodbye ? he knows im annoyed with him, but he's not seeing anything wrong like i am .
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reader, SophiaM +, writes (23 August 2015):
Maybe he is just nervous about meeting you in person and he is a bit worried about his appearance but not even saying sorry for letting you down isn't very nice. He may have his reasons for all of this but I wouldn't want to be involved with somebody who doesn't really care or say sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2015): The biggest predictor for future behaviour is past behaviour. He has shown you that he is flaky so that's what you can expect from him if you decide to continue with a relationship. And the early dating period is usually where people are on their best behaviour too because they are trying to impress you, which makes things even more undesirable for you. Best of luck :)
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reader, Pureflame  +, writes (23 August 2015):
Let him go, not worth the time. You said it yourself.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 August 2015):
 I think he has had enough chances.
Being 30 minutes late (or no show) is just not OK. He isn't 15 ( I hope).
I would toss this one back and try again.
The whole I can see a future with you is bull crap - even though you have talked a lot online, it's still a bit of fantasy - people are very different in person then they are online.
For me, personally, it would be bye bye (blocked).
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