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writes:I met a man on an on-line dating site. He kept asking me out finally I met him at a coffee shop well we hit it off I don't recall all that he was saying I just knew I enjoyed his company for hours of sitting and talking. It was strange how he would call on every transition that I was going through, like court date, the first time that I had to file for food stamps,getting turned down for interviews..a lot..When I met him I was actually waiting on my finalized divorce papers. So he had no idea what I was going through and I didn't tell him after all we just met. Well that was in March of this year now he was diagnosed with prostate cancer and he had the treatment. The question is I know he was going through changes after finding out he had cancer he went on the on line dating site and put up a very alluring profile. It hurt at first then I asked myself who am I to tell this man how to die. Anyway, I dated others on the site. Then went back to him. He's staying with his cousins while he gets his business which is a carryover from his hometown off the ground and he don't sleep over which I started having issues with not that he was going to sleep over but he's a grown man..I didn't get it. Anyway, I called it quits because he would visit once a month and stay long enough for dinner and sex. Well that got old very quickly and I told him. Well some time went by and I missed him. When he's with me its like we belong together but then he leaves and I misses him immediately, I text him "Good Morning" he may respond back or not for days...Then when he got back from surgery he said he was doing his evaluation to see if he could cum by masturbating or having sex with me and he found that he liked having sex with me better. I was lost for words. What should I do? I don't what is my options. Omg.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2012): Honeypie has hit the nail on the head. If he doesnt even have the manners to respond to you for days, why waste your time. Free yourself up for a good man that wants to be with you, not someone who just wants to use you when it suits him. You are worth more than that but you wont get it unless you demand it x
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 October 2012):
 IF you are happy being his masturbatory tool then go for it.
you mean nothing to him but sexual release. and if you are ok with that then go for it but I sense that you want more...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2012): What exactly is the offer?
Because all I see is "if you give me sex whenever I want, you get sex as well but not what you want".
That ain't an offer, that is an insult.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 October 2012):
 So he wants you to be his "flesh-light" ? (if you don't know what that is.. google or bing it)
I know you enjoy his company and all but sticking with this guy who DOESN'T want to be with you (except for sex) is holding you back from meeting someone who DOES want to be with you.
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