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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I change this mentality he has about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I've been with a guy for 3 years now, however, I have doubts about the relationship. When I first met him, I wasnt living a good lifestyle (I was Bi-sexual, and had a lot of guys), and because of him I changed for the better, I stuck with him ...

I think my boyfriend is an asshole but he is the only man I want!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles i really need help my boyfriend and i are having problems he is selfish and unaffectionate a smartmouth asshole but he is the only man i want and can think about he is my first and i care about him a lot but everyone keeps ...

He's hit me before but we have a kid and I don't want to leave him, what do I do to make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half we have a 5 month old baby together.the first time he hit me was when i was a couple months pregnant i had never been in that situation before i felt as if my life was about to end thats how bad it ...

Is there any way I can help him get over this so we can move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Please help me? :( I met up with a male friend (the first time I'd ever met him) a few months ago as STRICTLY a friends thing. I did this because he did something horrible to me and wanted to apologise in person, so I invited him down. I feel ash...

My dreams are making me paranoid.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - Hi there aunts and uncles I have had a problem for quite sometime now, ever since i have started dating. every-so-often i would have bad dreams about my girlfriends, they would be arguing over some boy or some lie shes told and something iv f...

Is there a reason I'm so jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I am 26 years old and Male, i feel exactly the same i even get jealous of my cousin, my best friends, guys she works with, or just guys in general. If she wears anything to revealing when we are out, or i am not there, but if its just us i am fine ...

I feel betrayed, we broke up and while I was home crying he was off having sex with lots of different girls, now he wants me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My bf broke up with me, then went out and had sex with a bunch of random girls, and now he wants me back after 2 weeks of being broken up for. Why would he do this? He says he realises it was all a mistake and that he didnt appreciate what he had ...

I found a photo on his phone, he says its nothing but why keep the photo?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - i have just found a photo of a woman on my husbands phone which he had hid in his phone files when i asked him who it was he lied and after alot of shouting at him he admitted he had kissed her on a night out when he was away on a stag doo. He said ...

My ex girlfriend and her friend cooked up a scheme to get back at me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - So, I went out with this girl for maybe 3 weeks. A the end of the three weeks, she dropped me for occasionally saying stupid (not mean, just stupid) things, and not calling her on a holiday. I tried to get her back for maybe a week then about a week ...

I think he sabotaged our relationship because he anticipated it wouldnt last

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I hung out recently. He's been M.I.A. for months due to personal/financial probs.He contacted me,he was in the area - We talked and flirted for hours in the car.He talked bout hating the dating process,wants companionship,someone ...

How do I stop worrying and enjoy my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I don't know how to deal with my insecurity issues. I've been with my BF for about 5 months, known him for about 6 and he's really amazing. Before him I didn't have a serious relationship. One guy I dated cheated on me and lied all the time, an...

How can I create a better life for myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Help! I am lacking a good support system that I can trust. The two people that I trusted most have both betrayed me. My fiance' of 4 years cheated on me with my younger sister who was living with us. It has been one of the most painful times in my ...

Is my wife dating another man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - please help me to make a decision about my relationship? i am suspicious of my wife dating another man after reading a message on facebook to her friend stating she was going on a date but i arrived home that night discovering "going out clothes ...

I'm hurt about my wife's sexual past so what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - My wife was married for 5 years in the seventies.Her marriage evolved into swinging.She has had sex every way you can, from anal to group sex, she was quite the party girl.Toward the end of her marriage she got knocked up to reel in her husband and ...

I hardly see him but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Ive had a thing for this guy for almost two years, off and on. recently, i realized my mistake in suppressing my thoughts of him and have come to the conclusion that i could seriously love him. i cant say im in love yet, but i honestly feel like one ...

I offered to be a FWB, he agreed but now he isnt talking to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Last week, my boyfriend broke up with me (for the third time but this time I don't want to get back together)because he had enough with all the stress from me, school, and family (his parents are breaking up and he would had to get a part-time job ...

Shouldn't relationships be built on trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - here's the situation. i've been dating this guy and he's said some pretty mean things to me/doesn't apologize/etc. and i've tried to break up with him but always he somehow convinces me to get back together with him. then we traveled togethe...

Despite a loving relationship for 17 years I am still bothered by the guys she knew before she met me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - OK - after reading all the other posts and trying to compare mine with others - I could not! So, here I go. I have been in a very sexually active relationship with my current wife of over 13 years especially when we have been together for wel...

I have proof she was cheating, but she still denies everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - what if you're you been a girl for with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. Even when u have proof of them flirting...

She said she liked me, and I started liking her, but now she says she hates me, what did I do wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

18 January 2010 (?) - I'm 14 and this girl used to have a major crush on me, and i didn't feel the same way, eventually i started liking her and now i am totaly obsessed. We went out and even though her feelings hadn't changed she ended it. She then started ignoring me ...