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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How to trust someone...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi, ive been married for 3 and a half years and its been a nightmare so far, every year i say if i have another year like last year we wont make a 4th, but here i am still plodding on in misery, my hubby was keeping in touch with his ex, he met up ...

Since getting back together, he's made no effort to reassure me--and he's the one who cheated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together four years (lived together/wedding booked). he cheated on me and started going with this other girl (I didnt know), he split up with me but maintained we were on a break. Treated me really badly - didn't say sorry and said ...

Is this a cheating husband or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - if my husband emails and call his exgirlfriend who he cheated on me with when we were dating and he's telling her how she's pretty and her lips are so invting. would that be considered cheating? ...

Do you think she forgave me for talking to her boyfriend like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - ok well my homegirls boyfriend is really cute abd i like him. yesterday i was on myspace and we were going back and forth asking questions. he asked me if he was my type and i said yes and then i asked if i was his type and he said idk i dont want ...

Dont let jealousy control your lives, learn to forgive and forget

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - To everybody, have learnt in my relationship that its jealousy that had caused most arguments. For all you lady's and gentleman that come on asking for help the biggest help i can say to you is DONT let jealousy over rule you, it did me, and it got ...

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has been distancing himself from me, maybe men are not right for me and I should become a lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together into this one post] Question 1: I jus found out yesterday that im pregnant. My bf has been distancing himself from me(not calling, texting, or coming over to my house). ...

She has me wrapped around her little finger......how can I stop her talking to my enemy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - hi, my girlfriend has me wrapped around her little finger,She has recently been going out with a friend that gets her into mischif, they both meet up with an old friend that i call my ARCH ENEMY!, The truth is im a verry jellous person who loves her ...

Do I believe my eyes or is he right in saying it is just my head playing tricks on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi i,ve been married 13 yrs now and i have a problem last yr an issued arrived which caused my trust to vanish he wasnt unfaithful or anything but he lied and covered up things to continue his lies n i caught him out. since then we argued n i think ...

My girlfriend keeps lying about her past and I cant handle it anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I dont know if I want to stay with my girlfrend and I really need some help here. I know it should be my own decision but I really dont know what to do anymore. She had told me everything about her past. Well I had though everything. She had tol...

Why did he have to go looking somewhere else for that kind of attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 January 2010 (?) - I feel like I'm not good enough for my boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything has been great until recently. I found out a couple of weeks ago that he had been getting in touch with this girl who had called his ...

Pregnant and worried he is cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I'm afraid my fiancee is or soon will be cheating on me. I'm 4 months pregnant and I've let myself go a bit because of it. I've found emails of him emailing craigslist girls saying he wants to chat and he's looking for a friend AND lover. He even ...

Why did I cheat on him when I am the one accusing him of cheating?

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19 January 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I was in a very long relationship (two years) and i honestly thought that he was the one for me. After a while, i realized that i was chatting on the internet to men i didn't even find attractive. My relationship at the time was very ...

Do you think my husband is telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I would like to know if my husband is telling me the truth, since we recently got married he told me he had a female friend and she was married and he had never met her, that she lives en PA and she is his friend because they talked over the phone ...

Online dating and trust

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi there, I need your advice on my situation. I am an international student in the US. During my thesis writing, I felt so stressful and boring, then I googled and joined a chat forum where I met a guy from Singapore. We started to talk and he s...

Conflicted - To leave or to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 6 years, I am 24 he is 29. we have been living together for about 5 and a half years. Anyway, recently I have caught him out lying and being dishonesty to me in regards to his activities on dating websites. I bas...

He's a pathological liar, and says he's still in love with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused as to what to do with a situation concerning this guy I dated. It's been over a year since we broke up, but we decided to remain friends. Before anyone gets any ideas, I have not been intimate in any way with him since w...