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Archived questions from: 10 November, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

He is complicated...drinks a lot and ignores me for days! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Since the beggining he messed up. Stood me up, would make plans and ended up getting drunk, getting drunk all time,even once when we argued and i left,he spent the night with hes ex (but this happened in the first week we met, not a relationship ...

My boyfriend slept with a girl when we'd just started dating. Is this an issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - my bofriend and i have been dating for a little over 8 months now and i recently found out 3 days after he asked me out on a date he slept with another girl should i confront him about it or leave it alone since me and him are living together now ...

Maybe I am paranoid or maybe I should trust my gut...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - hi everyone, i am 21 and have known my boyfriend since i was 15. Now we have been dating for 3 yrs. For some reason i have been having these feelings that he is hiding something from me. i would have never thought of this when i was younger, but ...

My husband and I are on different ends of the spectrum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my hubby for 17 years (married ten years and have children. In the last 6 months things have just got worse. I admit that I no longer want to be intimate with my hubby and he has got more annoyed saying I need to see a sex therap...

Is my boyfriend worried about prison or not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I hooked up with a guy I'd known for a while this summer. We had a geat time and saw each other quite a lot for about a fortnight. I had recently moved back to the area he lived in but was working away a lot so we didn't see each other again til the ...

Should I believe and trust my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I am 41 my boyfriend of 8 months is 27. I am married (partially seperated). I recently got an apartment with for my boyfriend and I. We seemed to be getting along great, then his friends started coming around. I noticed a change in him. One ...

He wants to share a hotel room but I worry he'll think I am up for sex and I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I need some advice, me and this guy I work with flirt a lot and we have never been on a date, we have kissed a couple of times, sometimes at work or at work nightouts. He has always wanted more but nothing serious, my response is - not at work. ...

He's going on another 'lad's holiday' next July and I am against it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - hello, im a 19 year old girl, been with my boyfriend for about 4 months, we have a good relationship, however he has a big ego he does love himself to bits, he has an extremly good job for his age of 19 and is a good looking guy, however he told me ...

Should I be alarmed by the timing of her personal grooming?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - I am a 44 y/o male engaged to a 42 y/o woman...we have been together for 1.5 yrs., our relationship has had it's ups and downs, however, we profess our commitment to each other. She seems to wear her ring with pride. Although, lately we have been in ...

Is this an online romance or am I over-reacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 7 years, but been together since we were teens. Only been with each other. She is very conservative and not at all into cheating ever. Very honest and pure. A Christian. Recently, she started playing an onli...

I am too afraid to enjoy this romance because of past hurt! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - ive met a guy. hes really into me.. hes soo sweet and funny. hes good looking.. goes uni really ambitious and seems really friendly and i think i like him too cos everytime i think about him i just smile.. he makes me really happy by just ...

Should I confess to having read his emails?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for 4 and a half years, 2 months ago my bf dumped me, and went away on holiday alone, but we got back together again. 3 weeks ago though he was on a study trip to barcelona, and i read his emails when he was ...

My husband is on a number of dating and sex sites, what are the chances that he has cheated or will do in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi cupid, I have been married for 7 years and have always been honest and faithful to my husband. My husband is extremely possessive and controlling, he does not even let me wear any thing that I look sexy in when we go out. He gets angry if any m...

He cheated on me all through our seven years! And he doesn't feel guilty! What the?!?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts/Uncles. I discovered my long term partner had been cheating on me all through our relationship (7years). I turned to all of you for advice. Which you gave me and I greatfully took. The problem now is, he says he didn't feel guilty wh...

Is my boyfriend breaking up with me for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We met in high school, and now we're both in college. We've had trust issues because we both have made mistakes in the past. However, our love for each other is so strong that we are inseparable. He's ...

My bf's mother said I was good for nothing..that I ruined her son's life.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - well im 18 years old and i have a huge problem, me and my boyfriend, have been together ever since we were 14 and we moved in together about a year ago. Our relationship with eachother is sometimes great but we have our ups and downs like some ...