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Archived questions from: 6 November, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My husband hit me while drunk and doesn't remember. Should I trust him not to do it again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Recently my husband hit me. He had been drinking and he lost his temper. He had no recollection the next day, has apologised and promised it will not happen again. I just don't know how I feel or if i'm stupid to believe him. He is a drinker anyway, ...

He is saving an old love letter from some other girl! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hello the other day i saw my boyfriend going threw his stuff and pulled out a letter her glanced at it for a few seconds and folded it up and put it back in hes box then when he left i went and read it. IT was a old love letter for some girl? why ...

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...

My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...

Can anyone help me, or give me any advice on changing the way I perceive sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have always had a problem with sex, it was something I'd quite happily let guys do, but it was something I let happen to me (hoping there was a hug and the end), rather than something I felt part of. I got together with a guy 8 years ago. We'd bee...

The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...

Is this older man playing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...

Why is my ex playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - So, my ex and I broke up in dec. 2007. We talked on and off from that point until the end of feb. hooking up once. I had a lot of issues going on then and I went away for a year to sort through them. During that time we had no contact ...

My past tells me to be cautious

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I posted previously about this attached guy who is flirting with me. So a little update, he isn't with this girl, they are actually separated at the time. So, heres my problem. I really like this guy. We talk everyday, all day. I'm getting really c...

Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...

I hate that my boyfriend watches porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I hate that my boyfriend watches porn. I gave him many pictures of me, and he himself has taken several pictures of us doing stuff. But he doesn't use them at all, he just uses regular big tit porn. I have small boobs, and I'm not as perfect as ...

Are they setting me up for something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hello. please don't judge me until you read it till the end.it may sound silly and just lame teens thing,but its not ,please take the time to read it and help me. I'm 16 years old and when i was 13 my family moved to another state .it was ha...

What can I do to help her get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...