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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...

Why does he feel the need to be in contact with her when he knows how I feel about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been married about 9 months. we dated two years before we got married. Throughout our relationship when we were younger i dealt with him contacting his ex's. We were not completely exclusive, I was hardly out of highscho...

Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...

Breakdown in communication? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - I would be interested in your thoughts. Today my gf sent a text to me while I was at work at about 11.50am. She said that due to me working long hours and being so tired when I get home that she feels she never sees me. Then she asked if we could ...

He said it's in the past, but I saw the text to his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I met my current bf while he was in a relationship. I had no idea until he told me. We both tried to end things and it didn't work. She came out here and I guess they both tried to figure things out and she broke up with him. Since then him and ...

How can I overcome irritation when she doesn't call as promised?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Women not returning calls. I would like some advice on what do when a lady promises to call even though she knows she won't call. I have a friend who is a girl. Whenever she has an academic need she bombards my phone with calls. In fact one day ...

It feels as though my wife isn't interested in fixing our marriage.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone My wife and i have been seperated for about 10 weeks now, of which the first 6 i moved out. i had no other option but to come home in the end. we have been getting on now for atleast 8 weeks with laughter, conversation, fu...

She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...

My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...

Penis size issue...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Hi every One I have a big question that I need answered. Ok Im 15 and I only have a 4in penis(when erect). Is that bad because from what I've read on the web says that after 16 the penis doesn't usually grow much more. I hope thats not true and ...

Is it because I'm very hard to trust, he's too protective, or an act of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - my bf saw a public message sent by a an old friend of mine i met over a party i went to (male). and my boyfriend saw it and practically insists on making a huge deal out of it, and turning jealous. Now i understand that the message might have been a ...

Raped by two men and troubled by porn

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...

Four months and no sex - is there someone else??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: explicit language deleted and paragraphs added for easier reading] I am a female (35 years of age)... and I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man (48 years of age) for 10 months now. Sex was GREAT in the beginning an...

How can I expose her lies without admitting I snooped?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - I've been in a LDR for almost 6 months now. Within the last month, we've been fighting alot. A while back, my girlfriend gave me the password to her email. I got curious and checked. She's been talking to (and calling) some other guy. Older email...

What do you think of a man, who...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - What do you think about a man whom, you leave a phone message in the morning asking if he wants to have dinner and at 8:30pm he calls, leaves a message that does not mention the call, you try to call back and know he is there because he is on ...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...