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Archived questions from: 23 November, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I get all paranoid when he doesn't message me..why am I so insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. Before that I'd never had a relationship last more than 2 months. I've gone after the wrong guys and been hurt bad. My current bf is amazing. He treats me well, respects me and the other day said h...

Is he flirting with me just to get me in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - i have been flirting with this guy now for about 3 months however i don't know if i should take things further or not. Ok he works in the bar im a local at and i see him every weekend. The first time i seen him he just kept staring at me th...

Boyfriend has a 20 year history of being a serial cheater. Will marriage change him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Boyfriend has 20 year history of serial cheater. Will marriage change him? Will he change his cheating ways if we get married? Hi, I am 32 and with a man who is turning 40 soon. We have been together for a year and a couple of months. On ave...

I can't trust my current bf, because of past bad experiences. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - i was hurt by my ex it took me more than a year to get over him, he made me ill and i was heartbroken, then i went on a wild thing when me and my ex ended where i would meet up with alot of boys everyweek, i started seeing a few but it never worked ...

He is doing everything possible to show me how much he loves me but his betrayal is all I can focus on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts, Don't really know why I'm writing this. It's cos I need your help and reassurance again I suppose. If you know me you will remember my text cheating husband and the rest of the saga. Although I am managing to avoid bringing it up as ...

I can't trust women and it's ruining my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I can't trust women (it's almost like a fear, I guess and yes, I am a girl). I know why, though: I was bullied when I was younger because I couldn't speak English very well, all my female "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and most of all my ...

I'm a girl but I don't trust women at all... please help!

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23 November 2009 (F) - I don't trust women at all (yes, I am a girl). I know why: I was bullied because I couldn't speak much English when I was younger, most of my girl "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and my grandmother abused me mentally. It's gotten so bad th...

Does my boyfriend love me or not? And why does he look at other girls like he's never had sex in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: Two questions from the same writer combined into one here, as the information in one seems relevant to the other.] my boyfriend doesnt trust me, if i look at a boy he gets jelous and very angry and sometimes he even wants to leave...

Is he a "Phony"? Am I being taken down the Primrose Path? HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - What do you think of the situation where you IM and text daily and where a man and woman have exchanged telephone numbers as well, but every time I try to call him, it goes to voicemail (both cell and house phone), and when I ask (via text) if I can ...

Bf's ex started calling, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I am in need of some advice on if I should say something to my bf or not. Ok so we have been having problems lately. Mostly trust issues that I have, for good reason. Anyhow it was just this past month or so that things go...

He asked for a naked pic of this girl he used to talk to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: This post was edited out of textspeak which is discouraged here; please try to use standard English spelling and grammar for the benefit of all our readers. Generally I would reject this question but I had a little extra time today. ...

She's avoiding my calls and canceling our dates - is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - i have been seeing this beautiful female from my college. our first date went well and i ended up with us having sex in her place, two days later the same thing happened again. she texted me a couple days later and said that we were moving too fast. ...

Why is my wife not as tight as she was?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - I went away for couple of weeks to work, and when i came back, my wife was sort of lose, and before i went out, she was nice and tight. When i asked her why she got loose, she jumped and and chaged the topic and she did not want to talk about it...

I'm losing trust in this woman...

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23 November 2009 (M) - Please help me. In reference to my earlier question, I've been seeing this girl, who I liked, she didnt tell me about her past, in spite of me asking her, she told me she had a boyfriend, but nothing happened. Later on she tells me she kissed him ...

I told her I seen a woman naked from porn and now she doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - Okay, well, recently my girlfriend of only one month has become extremely upset with me. Why? Personally, I think it is because she is very over emotional, but many girls are. I care very much about this girl, much, muchhh more than any other girl ...

I found out my boyfriend has been cheating. Should I take him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I been with my bf for 4 months. I love him more than anything, supported him through everything, helped him a little through his financial problems. Anyway, I kinda always been a jealous gf but never checked through his personal things.(I see him ...

Boyfriend gave his phone number to suspected interest.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Heya everyone. Ok so this may seem like a silly problem and i prob shouldnt be bothered by it, but id like peoples opinions and to just rest my mind a bit. Ok well i live about 100 miles away from my boyfriend. He is moving down here tomorrow...

I am accusing her of the same things that happened to me in past relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - hi ihave a problem that is new to me. i have been in some really bad bad relationships. well i met my g/f 6 months ago an we were doing great. n then all of a sudden my problem from my past relationships poped up in my head. is she cheating can i ...