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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Men, please help me? Is watching tranny porn normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Almost a year ago this month we met. He was obsessed with my sex!! Wanted it all the time, everyday every night....now he is always tired when he comes home from work. Or he complains about how it sucks getting old his body is out of shape. I left ...

It upsets me that even NOW she is still saying things behind my back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - After my boyfriend and I broke up, I went to my best friend for comfort. She helped me, but there were times when she was tired of hearing me sob about him, so she didn't console me as much. During this time, my boyfriend started talking to her to ...

I literally flip out thinking that when we have sex he is thinking of them or that he will find them sexier than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I really need help! Duh, the site lol anyways, i met my amazing man and 3 months later we were married. (His cousin is my best friend so i did know of him) well he was single for 5 years prior to me and has came used to checking out everything that ...

Should I be concerned about this or is this all in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - In senior year, I began to be friends with one of my friends girlfriends. She was really nice and very outgoing. However, one day when we were hanging out -just the two of us- she says, "Want to go to the movies later? Bring your boyfriend." I ...

How do I trust my boyfriend again after his sex addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I need advice on how to deal with my boyfriends sexual addiction. He is currently in therapy, has been for about a month and a half. How do I begin to trust him again? ...

My boyfriend's a physco.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Okay, first off, i regret everything i have done 100% and I am doing everything I can to make it up to my boyfriend. Anyway, me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months, and i have cheated on him twice according to him (i was talking to g...

My boyfriend prefers porn to hot sex with me - and lies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 18 months now and at first we had an amazingly erotic and stimulating sex life, did it everywhere, all the time. Things started to slow down. I knew that he did porn, I knew he went on prostitute website to ...

Relationship needing help big time please....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - Hi me and my girlfriend split up a little over 1 week ago we moved really fast some people said we were mad the first night we met she never left (moved in) she lived with me for a little over 3 months but I have fallen in love with her so much. ...

I logged into his myspace to leave him a surprise but I'm the one who got the surprise!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been going out for almost 2 years now. I am no longer sure if I can trust him any more. I was just messing around on myspace.com I was going to sign in to his account to leave a message for him as a surprise when he log on next, ...

She lies and still has feelings for an ex who passed away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - im in a new relationship and i made it clear fron the day one that i had trust issues and my partner has lied to me more than ten times and admitted that she had feelings for her dead former partner and her brother and her were constantly bring him ...

He's cheated on me for the 2nd time in 16 months! We have a young daughter together. What am I going to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - A year ago I found out that my partner had been cheating on me. We talked things through and I decided to give the relationship another go, only now 16 months later he is at it again. I had a feeling something was going on but like the last tim...

My boyfriend doesn't tust me, and now he wants us to just be friends. I'm so confused, what does he really want from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now, and i am a bit confused as to where this is going. We meet my freshman year in college in the library, he is 23 and i am 20... Every since the first time we got together, we have been INSEPRABLE. That ...

I don't know what my husband is doing or who he's with and it's driving me crazy!

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12 August 2009 (F) - I have been with this man for 2 years married one year. He is a very smooth talker. until people starting telling me things about him. That he has been with plenty of women, Im is third marriage a couple long term relationships. his wifes left him ...

Girlfriend spends much time with her married guy friend and it bothers me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has a married guy friend that she spends time with, including having him over to her house for dinner and drinks and occationally going out to dinner with drinks. The mans wife is also her dear friend and supports the friendship that ...

I was told my BF of 3 years lives with his wife and kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - [Mod note - two questions merged] If I was told my bf of 3 year lives with his wife ands kids and he says its not true. What do i do? How do I deal with my issues from my passed relationship its harming my new relationship... ...

She's still friends with the man she had an affair with during her first marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - So I never saw myself on one of these things, ever, but I find myself really confused, so here we go... I'm in love!, she was once married. She had an affair. She has been very honest with me with everything, including the details of how t...

I ruined it, can it be saved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - I've been dating an awesome girl for almost 4 years and she told me she wants a break as my actions at times pushed her away..she loves me most of the time, she says i'm such a great person, all the things she loves about me, etc., but the sway i ...

I cant help bringing my trust issues into my new relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I just recently "got over" a long-term ex who cheated on and me and then broke up with me. I've moved on and am now with someone else, but I still have residual trust issues and they are making me feel very clingy. I don't have a large group of f...

Jealous, Emotionally unstable, controlling GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

12 August 2009 (M) - Hi... How should I say this. I meet the most wonderful women in my life a while ago, shes very interesting, fun, quirky, funny, cute and a very wonderful person overall and I love her dearly and she means the world to me. Except she has ...

I just want a chance to tell him how I feel...what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Hey there, about two years ago I met the love of my life, my true love and at the time I didn’t realize how I felt until I let him go. Long story short I had a boyfriend for fours that treated me like crap. I broke up with my BF of 4 years to be ...

He's cheating with a woman he knew 25 years ago! How can I cope with all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I've been married to my husband for 20 years now. We've built a dream together; a life together. We have five beautiful children; our youngest is 12. I simply can not imagine life without my family. I love them all so dearly. So why is it that m...

How do you stop a married guy from hitting on you??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - I am single and was on a business trip abroad. My business partner is a very kind helpful person and good fun to be with. He is happily married with a beautiful wife. Suddenly he is sending me very wrong signals. He came to the airport to drop me - ...