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writes:Okay, first off, i regret everything i have done 100% and I am doing everything I can to make it up to my boyfriend.Anyway, me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months, and i have cheated on him twice according to him (i was talking to guys on msn and flirting without knowing it. :( i really didn't know i was flirting and no one else said i was but my boyfriend saw it as flirting.) so now I’m making up for it, or trying.but he's making it so hard, and I’ve actually told him to move on from me because he makes it obvious he hates me and that I’m not worth anything and that he deserves better etc but he just won't let me go. :(thing is, I’m starting college in less than a month and he has told me that i am not allowed any male mates and he has joined college and is in my class JUST to make sure i don't talk to guys, he even admitted that. :( He said that I’m not allowed outside the house without him in case i cheat.Am i in the wrong for being angry at him? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Even my psycho, jealous, controlling ex didn't see flirting as cheating!! Not that he'd let me flirt lol. He didn't like me leaving the house without him too and I wasn't allowed male friends. You can't put up with that! Seriously, you will feel so much happier once you're free of his control. You have to be strong and insist that it's over. Things will never get better with someone like that, trust me, I tried for years.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 Your boyfriend is crazy, controlling, and insane.
Please get away from him before he hurts you. Following you around and refusing to let you get out of the house is not normal behavior! You are allowed to have friends and go out and be your own person. You are allowed to have freedom. Please do not let him get you down and erase the lovely person that you are.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Of course you're justified to be angry at him (if I was dating him I would have told him to take a hike by now)! He is loving this idea of control he has over you- I suspect he is an insecure bloke. Has he had some bad past experiences where he has felt demeaned in any way? Anyhow, I would dump him and erase him from your life. Good luck!
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