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female
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30-35,
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writes:In senior year, I began to be friends with one of my friends girlfriends. She was really nice and very outgoing. However, one day when we were hanging out -just the two of us- she says, "Want to go to the movies later? Bring your boyfriend." I thought it would just be the two of us, and why would I want to bring my boyfriend where the possibility may be that she'll be alone? At the time, her boyfriend and her were having big problems so it wouldn't even been a double date. Should I suspect something from that? Either way, I said no. I thought it was weird, wouldn't she have felt like a third wheeler? And I really thought it would just be a girl hang out. Anyways, later on the year, she came up to me, telling me how she was bored and decided to text my boyfriend in class. She said all they did was talk about me, yet why does she have to text him if she's bored? Couldn't she have texted one of her other friends? Or even me? I haven't heard from her since we graduated still I can't say the same for my boyfriend. But somehow, I doubt they talked until last night. She sent me a text with her new number, and I'm wondering if she sent my boyfriend a text as well. Should I be concern about this or is this all in my head?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): It may be nothing, so don't assume anything yet. Why don't you just casually ask your B/F if he has been hearing from her? Let him tell it from his side first. She may just be trying to keep a friendship network. Sometimes graduation can be a bit of a letdown when you no longer see people you knew often.
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