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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

So men, does it have to be one or the other? Do you think he just doesn't want me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - I am a good person, devoted and loyal to my boyfriend. Problem is his porn addiction and total obsession with woman, his rude comments hurt and he knows I don't like it, but hasn't stopped. Sex is very rare and mostly he wants oral sex. I'm lonely ...

What am I doing wrong? I am homeless, pregnant and I think the other women in the shelter do not like me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Am a new immigrant. Came to live in the u.s with my sister 3 months ago but she kicked me out onto the street after facing the realities of a pregnant woman..i.e throwing up and bring generally slow and demotivated. She knew I was pregnant bef...

He's a drama queen and blows everything out of proportion. But how can I give him support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years. I have known him for almost 10. when we first got together, it was the beginning, that joy, we couldn't be stopped. Fast forward to now and I feel like I am going crazy. Needless t...

My ex and I talk/text sexual things but he's got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My son's father and I are not together anymore. We haven't been for over a year. He's had another gf for about a year. I've been single since we ended things. About 6 months ago, he and I were talking and things started to go in a sexual ...

My boyfriend never wants to go anywhere or do anything with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Hey everyone I be been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years we used to every thing together and we always found something to do together. But now we do nothing at all. I always have to do things by myself because he never wants to leave this house ...

Why are women turned off by inexperienced men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Why does inexperience turn women off ? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, and sadly ...

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last...

Why does my boyfriend barely keep in touch while he is out of town? is it suspicious? It's upsetting.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is away for four days visiting his mother in California. We were together for the whole week before he left. We really bonded and had an amazing time together. Fast forward to the day after he gets to California. He emails to l...

He refuses to commit. what needs to change to make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I’ve been seeing a guy for around 7 months. We get on really well and we really like each other, but he refuses to commit. Things have been rocky from the start. When we first met he was still kind of involved with someone else. Even though sh...

Why is this happening? Anything I've said has sparked an argument this week.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been arguing since Monday and its now Saturday. I booked a week off from work to redecorate my room back home where I'll be moving back to in September. Early Monday when it came to me getting ready to leave, my boyfri...

He has blocked me and is ignoring me now. So how do I get back the money he owes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I am having on and off relationship with my best friend. We are very close year back, for last 1 year its all going downhill. He is avoiding me, not picking up my calls, telling me lies all the time He blocked me in phone, everywher...

Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating? ok so I need some advice , so me and this guy have been talking for about eight months now but we are not officially together he and I both decided that until I moved then we ...

My boyfriend is tiring me out by following a routine that does not suit a young mother. What can I do to get him to realise this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone my problem is my boyfriend we have been together for nearly 3 year we have a 5 month old son together. He goes to work, finishes at 4 comes to mine at 6 for tea, goes home, and comes back when our son is asleep. By then I'm tired and go...

What could be the reason I am so consistently declined for jobs I apply for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

29 May 2015 (?) - Hi there I started to feel sad and upset with my situation. I have a degree in event management and also worked for 2 years for a well known company with good money too. Since I had the baby I left the job because I was commuting long distance. ...

How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm s...

Is our relationship over? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I have been married for 15 years and with my hubby for 20years but he just doesn't do anything in our relationship anymore. we don't have sex unless it is a quick handjob (sorry for been rude) he doesn't take me anywhere he doesn't spend time wit...

Why do I continue to have drama in my life with friends? How can I be better, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I continue to have drama in my life with friends. No matter what I do, drama follows. Nothing seems to work. I still end up losing friends. I partly think it's because I expect so much from them. Whenever I have a friend, I expect them to treat me...

I feel vulnerable, does that make me selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - OK, I've been in a relationship for 6 months with my other half. I know it's not long but I do really care about him. Everything seems OK when we are together but I'm beginning to have cold feet. He is so blunt in his messages to me ( which he...

Big decisions. Do I stay in my comfort zone? Or should I take a chance with this job offer, despite my Bf's objections?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for seven years now (lived together for five years with his grandparents). I've been on a temporary contract with work for the past year, but I've just been offered a full time permanent position at a new company ...

How do I get past this betrayal so that we emerge stronger as a couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - Hi all My boyfriend of 5 years was addicted to porn and because he was desensitized to average porn he signed up to ^^^ buddy websites for a different kind of thrill (real women) He didn't contact anyone on these sites or even fill in his ...

My boyfriend was acting grumpy/irritable towards me so I went home. Now he's even more upset! Ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I feel so aggravated right now. I hope someone can give me some advice.My boyfriend and I have been dating a year. We have our fun times but he can be quite a bear to deal with at times. Very moody. I chalk it up too him working a swing shift. I am ...

I just want my own identity. What needs to change in our marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been having so many problems lately. Financially, sexually, and emotionally and I really don't know what to do. We've have 3 kids and I'm a stay at home mom. Whenever I'm upset, I like to vent to him so I don't explode ...

He lied about having a baby and a wife, I can't trust him anymore but I'm still with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I lived with my bf for a year.. He's from Iraq and I am from South America but we both live in United States. I discovered some pics on Facebook about him and a baby which I asked and he said it is his nephew..after that like 3 months after a woman ...

Is my BF jealous of this other guy who is also a dance instructor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - MY BF is a dance instructor. I used to dance in his class as a student. Now this other dance teacher took over his class who is male. My BF puts this guy down at every turn in front of me. Not sure why. Says the guy thinks he's all that but he ...

Am I right in thinking that maybe he doesn't have time for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - I'm a 26 year old woman in a relationship with a 30 year old man, who I've been with for almost a year. We are kinda long distance, we live two hours away from each other so only get to meet once, maybe twice a week. I was happy with this at first ...

Man 1 fathered my son aged 2. Man 2 fathered my unborn child. Just broke up with Man 2. Should I accept offer from Man 2 to still see my 2 year old son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - So trying to cut it short. Pregnant with second child different man to first and first childs dad is not around. Been friends with this man 2 years together for 10 months .. My son is 2 and they get on well however since getting pregnant (un...

He said he can't love me because of my past, but I still love him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - i am unable to get over my ex. we started dating four months ago and it was perfect.by the end of the first week itself i told him about my past, that i had lost my virginity to my ex. all he asked me was, if it was a one time mistake or more than ...

Do I ditch this good time friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 May 2015 (M) - I have this friend, she reappeared out of nowhere, after I lived abroad for 4 years. She has lots and lots of problems, her girlfriend had gone travelling and she had an uncle pass away. It was strange she kept reaching out to me, it made me feel ...

I met a man online, it started out great, then went south. Advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I met this guy online (long distance) about a month ago. We clicked instantly and have been in contact everyday. We're friends on social media, talk on the phone every other day, text on and off all day and have this thing where we text each other ...

Boyfriend accuses me of being jealous of his niece and blows up at me. Am I wrong to be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years with a really nice guy. It just seems that I am in limbo. When I ask if we have a future together his response is yes, nothing else. I’ve even asked if I have been wasting his and my time for these ye...

My boyfriend had time to shoot some golf balls but no time to see me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I am very upset at my boyfriend of 2 years. I am hoping you can tell me if you think I am justified or being unreasonable. He thinks I am being unreasonable. We see each other certain days every week due to different schedules. On one...

Should I be allowed a lock on my door?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hello, opinions on my situation please. I currently live with my step mum dad and little sister. My little sister is my half sister my step mum is her mum. Ive only lived with them for a few months. I used to live with my mum other sister, I was ve...

He has disappeared with only a note 'I love you and want to be with you'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Please help, I'm going through a really tough time. My boyfriend and I have been together only four months or so, and it has been a bit of a roller coaster. It's the first time both of us have opened ourselves up to ...

He likes to show me affection but shuts me off when I do the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I have been friends with this man for 3 years. We met online and gradually become really close friends. When we become friends, he was living a 1000 miles away from my city, now, he moved to my city, living only a mile away from my home. We meet ...

We never have sex and fight all the time, why am I with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear readers, I really don't know where to start from because the situation is quite complicated. Let me say in end of 2013 after a nasty break up, I met a guy 2 years older than me ( he is 27years now) and completely feel in love. We spent time ...

I feel like there are 4 in this relationship..me, him and his parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hi I''d like some impartial advice on whether I'm over-reacting and getting ahead of myself and secondly how I deal with the situation. My partner and I have been together a year and a half, he's nearly 10 years older than I am so we've moved fa...

I am being incredibly unreasonable - How Do I FIX THIS??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Been dating for 2 months. In this time we've most probably seen each other over 20 times - it is moving fast but only due to a time limit we have. Anyway, things having been so great! Until on the weekend. I messaged him on how his day (it was ...

Do we have a chance of making this relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are both introverts and both don't find it easy opening up to other people. A few days ago, we woke up one morning and unexpectedly from nowhere he said he wanted to talk about our rela...

Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...

I need to learn to say no and I can't seem to do it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I need to learn how to say no. I generally end up saying "yes" to everybody and stretching myself thin to keep my promises. I'm working on my dissertation at the moment and there's a company that really wants me to translate and write content fo...

How do I deal with my inlaws who show up unannounced every day and won't call first?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I'd love some advice/opinions from anyone that has a tension-filled relationship with their inlaws. I really don't know whether I'm overreacting and over sensitive as I've been made to feel I am. My inlaws are eccentric types. They're the typ...

Dad hasn't changed at all and won't let me live my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - Hello. I am highly stressed out because my dad doesn't want me to have a boyfriend or move out of the house. EVER. Although, he HAS MET my boyfriend last year and I have been with this guy for three years. I am 18. My dad thinks my grades would go ...

My sister slept with the guy I liked and she knew I liked him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - Hi hope you can help me out , I've liked this lad for a few years he used to come into where I worked and I used to see him on the weekends at the pub he's slept over mine a few times and we've kissed but I'd just split up with my boyfrien...

Should I allow my boyfriend to keep his ex in his life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years but I don't think we should be together anymore. I've tried to end things on a few occasions lately but I can never just stick to my guns and cut all ties with him. I did love him a lot at one...

A man I chatted with online showed up unexpectedly at my home and now I am creeped out. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Hey all. So a year ago I met a guy online on an Expat blog through travel groups. Groups that travel together and have lots in common. In the group we had all planned to go to spain but i cancelled it because the booked date was my mum's birthd...

I feel like I don't deserve my family, my friends or my man. Do I need to see someone about these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I am struggling for about a month now with extreme guiltiness. I am a nervy wreck most of the time. I feel like such a terrible partner/daughter\sister/friend. I have so many great people in my life and i feel like i dont deserve them. Ive hurt them ...

The woman I love shows verbal abuse and tells me to leave her but I love her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I am in a relationship with this woman for over 2 years but the past few months she has been an emotional wreck she lost a loved one and her job nothing really worked out her..because of which I have been subjected to verbal abuse like "asshole" ...

How do I be there for my girlfriend when she doesn't like to lean on others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - Thanks for those who are reading this. I just need some advice in a difficult situation. My girlfriend of 6 months had her cousin die in heart surgery a week ago and now her grandmother is paralyzed from the waist down which just happened two days...

Why do I never get to meet or spend time with my boyfriends family/friends? He always has excuses!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We have two issues in our relationship. One being hes not affectionate, romantic, and plays videos games non stop when hes off work. The second being ive only met his mom once and that was two years ago, ...

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3505 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a rela...