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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Kind of in a LDR with a difficult guy, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3375 days ago

31 August 2015 (?) - So, I really need some advice on a new relationship in my life (sorry if it's kind of a long story.) I went to my hometown for the summer while I waited to start a new temporary job opportunity in another state more than 1000 miles away. While I was ...

No one will take me serious when I say I don't want sex or partying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My siblings and I grew up in a house where my parents made it their goal to make sure that we a) graduate HS b) while not experimenting with drugs, alcohol, or sex. They let us listen to most the music we wanted to and read most the books we wanted ...

My LDR boyfriend is letting a girl interfere in our relationship and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - So, my LDR boyfriend just started attending a new college and immediately made acquaintances with this girl. She's in a few of his classes and is working at the campus radio station. She's pretty annoying and not so bright, which we've both ...

M in-laws have always been unhelpful and unwelcoming and its really starting to bother me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My-laws have always been unhelpful and unwelcoming. I am married 25+ yrs. Have 2 sons in their 20's. Moved to my husbands hometown after marriage. My hometown is almost 100 miles away. My mother died within 3yrs after we married. There...

Do possessive relationships last? Should I mention my concerns to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Hi - a female friend of mine has just got into a relationship with a man who pays her a lot of attention, says he loves her and makes her feel good. Sounds great doesn't it?!!! However, I have found out from her that before they got together off...

I told him had nothing to do with the prank, but he now won't speak to me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3353 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Dear all I have posted before asking for advice on a Fwb that got back in touch, I'm slightly heartbroken because although he wasn't getting in touch as much (not for Fwb) a mutual friend sent his friend a message (little bit childish) askin...

I still want my ex-Bf back.Do you any suggestions on how I can convince him to date me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I recently rekindled with my ex boyfriend, and after two months he tells me. He is "not interested in a relationship with me. Just fall back." I asked him twice what made him change his mind, and he has not responded. Here is what happened ...

My husband is obese and has health issues. Should I leave him or continue to try and support him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My marriage is suffering due to my husbands excessive weight gain, should I leave him or continue to try and support him and hope that things will get better? We've been together for 11 years and have two young children. I love him dearly but ...

My daughter cut ties with us. How can I make things right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - My 20 year old daughter moved and cut ties with her step father and I - How can I make things right? I know most of this is my fault. There has been a lot of drama in our household. My husband and I fight often and have not made good decisions ...

Paying on a date. Am I making this too big of a deal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Am I making this too big of a deal? I have been seeing one guy for about 3 weeks now. Everything is good and I really love to be with him, he wants to be with me, we have fun together and everything is easy and we just click. He is very caring...

Online dating. Is me asking her when we will get together a bad thing? She will not give me a solid answer

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

30 August 2015 (M) - I have been in a online relationship for quite sometime now and I wont say it has been easy, I have made a few mistakes and put our trust on thin ice so she has a hard time trusting me. We have been working on this together very diligently and duri...

He's been verbally abusive. My parents call him psycho. Should I move on or try harder in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I don't whether I'm still in relationship with him or not but i will say: I am in a relationship with south indian conservative man,though my roots are from south as well but my birth and education is done in different state due to work reason i...

I feel some friends are distancing themselves from me. How do I respond or deal with this to minimise the hurt I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I've been having some friendship insecurities lately. Although I tell myself it's silly and to just let it go, it seems to be hard to do so... So a few years ago I had a wonderful group of friends, and we all spoke pretty much daily. Granted,...

Are there any good guys in the world? If so, where are they?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Am i going crazy? Ive recently deleted all my male list on my messenger app. I find it hard to make male friends. Every male i saw as a potential friend eventually ends up telling me that he is interested in me and wants a relationship. I just went ...

Boyfriend's phone rang, I went through his messages and now I feel sick

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I did something really horrible, my boyfriend left his phone at home, it rang and I saw the call from a woman he had done work for.but recently I saw a text, not sure if it was to her or from her saying "I am on my way see you soon." I went through ...

After 8 months together does my LDR really know me or care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Hello. I have been seeing a guy in a LDR for eight months. We see each other every other fortnight and talk about three times a week too. Although we have good times together, and he tells my he loves me, I often feel something is mis...

Is working on these two commercials together ruining our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. He is a film major and I am in art school. This year, my uncle offered us a job doing 2 commercials for a product. its been going poorly and ruining our relationship. My boyfriend feels as if he i...

Can anyone tell me why my mother is behaving this way? I'm 22 but she acts like she does not trust me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Hello all, I am a 22 year old female college student living at home with my mom. As much as I would love to move out, I can't because my tuition is where almost all of my paychecks are going. My mom and I have always been close, and we've never ...

My Mother's said she's a married man's mistress. How can I respond and preserve our mother-daughter relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, My mother told me recently she has been a mistress to a married man for the last 5 years. She got involved with him when my dad was terminally ill and told me about it after he passed away. She is still seeing him and wants to ...

When will all this hurt, angst and anger ease off or go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - I was treated badly by my ex and his new girlfriend. I thought I was over him as he wasn't the most loyal guy and was kind of seeing this other girl casually just before we split up - so we decided to go our separate ways and I have no wish to get b...

I made a comment to him that has come back to bite me in the butt and now I'm confused about everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Hi all, Here is my situation. I was starting to see this guy, who was chasing me for about a month before I gave in to hanging out, which is unlike me because when I feel as though I have chemistry with someone, I tend to jump right in. Hones...

I know I shouldn't be involved with this married man but I don't know what to do about things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - I'm a 20 year old college junior. I've had many problems that started in late childhood. Starting with body dysmorphia, and lead into anorexia, binge eating, self harm, suicidal tendencies, and depression. I've been diagnosed with borderline ...

How am I supposed to react to this? My girlfriend does hand jobs for a living

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

28 August 2015 (M) - I recently found out my girlfriend does handjobs for a living. She's a student and is allowed to work limited hours. The money is used to support herself and family. Should i accept it? Should I react to this....

She used me when she was bi-curious. I want her, she doesn't want me. What can I do? I feel so lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Could be long. This has been ongoing for 3 months now and it's getting worse, not better. This girl used me as she was bi-curious and I fell for her. She doesn't want me, I want her. I can't just be friends with her but I don't wanna stop talking ...

Strained relationship with my fiance's sister. I want a better relationship with his family. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3379 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Well where do I begin. I am 23. I have been with my fiancée 4 years and engaged for 3 years. Since from the very beginning I have had a lot trouble from his side of the family, especially from his older sister. We have never really seen eye ...

Can I still trust my partner? I'm in turmoil and have doubts since I saw a message on his phone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I saw a message on my finance phone whom I have been in a relationship with for the last 4 years which as really upset me. The message were between him and his friend and said along the line of shall we have a threesom...

Should I trust my G/f and continue with our relationship or make both of our lives easier and just break it off now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

27 August 2015 (M) - I'd like to ask for some opinions, any opinions at all, from an outside point of view. I just can't think straight without determining whether I'm too emotional or just plain paranoid at this point. I'm 24, and have been with my girlfriend (same...

I can't shake the dream I had about arguing with my girlfriend's father and then hitting her in the face

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

27 August 2015 (M) - Last night I had a horrible dream that I was arguing with my girlfriend's father, and at the end of the argument I seem to remember hitting my girlfriend in the face (I don't know if it was intentional or accidental, but frightening nonetheless!). ...

I won't take crap off of people and he'll never admit that he's wrong. Are we done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3380 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - A few months ago I (38yrs old) met a man named "Jason" who is 34. Recently, we started spending A LOT of time together and although each of us intended on just being bed buddies, feelings have developed. He told me I'm his best friend. I feel the...

Why does he walk out without listen to my explanation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I always wondering why my boyfriend walk out when we're having an arguement.Most of the time he will leave me when i accidently say something that i shouldnt say it at first but it was only a joke, and also sometimes he leave me when he got jealous. ...

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly m...

Trouble with Boyfriend, Should I stay? He's jealous and controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 2 and a half years. About a year into our relationship, we had a lot of problems with him being jealous and controlling, and I broke up with him for about a month. He begged for me back, showed up at my parent’s...

I feel lost. I do love him. But why even be with someone if they are never there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I feel like I'm not being treated properly in my relationship but I love the guy I'm with and it's so hard to figure out what to do. I feel lost, I'd don't know what's right or wrong. Me and him had a fight at the weekend gone, we spent a few d...

I don't think she'd ever admit to having feelings for me but I'm crazy about her and we live together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - So, I'm in love with a girl I live with. We are close friends, however we act in a way that is very "coupley". every evening she wants to lay on the sofa cuddling which usually leads to us messing around. I'll move away and she'll come to me usually ...

Why would he come to be with me and then give up so easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I am 34yr old, I have 2 kids (11yr old boy and 4 yr old boy). For the first 9 years, I lived alone with the kids, at my parents for 5 and 4 in my own apt. At no time, did I request child support through the courts. My bf never had to watch our first ...

Think online date is fake how do I tell him I know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - im on a dating site and have been talking to a guy for a while but he keeps making lame excuses as and when to meet. he claimed he was coming bk from a sea side as his holiday was ending last saturday he picked the date but kept saying he was stuck ...

Should I ask my boyfriend if he is uncomfortable with my male friend being around so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I have a question for Males out there. I have been dating this guy for 5 months, and I completely felt in love with him over the past few months. I recently bought a house and a Male friend is helping with the renovation. My current boyfriend has ...

I really like this girl but she won't respond back to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - Hi! A friend recently gave me the number of the girl i liked an i explained to her who i was but after that every time i said something to her she would say don't text me and don't talk to me. I really truly love her. What are my options?...

My B/f said, "'not to sound rude but you have a lot of stretch marks baby maybe you should do something about them"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I've been with a man for almost a year and only recently been sexually active with him. He recently made a comment 'not to sound rude but you have a lot of stretch marks baby maybe you should do something about them' I told them they are all ...

Girlfriend and I went on a break decided to get back together but now she's acting badly and I don't want to get back with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - Hi, About six weeks ago, me and my fiancee (although now I feel reluctant to call her that) decided to go on a break as we began to experience some troubles in our relationship due to various stresses. We agreed to speak two weeks after ...

Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I feel incredibly guilty. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years.I am 27 and he is 29. I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. Like many relationships we have had our ups and ...

Boyfriend and I fought. He wants space but its making me angry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had a fight at the weekend. It involved being drunk and I've apologised since then. He said to me he wants to take a few days to himself but he still wants to talk. He isn't chatty at all though. I don't like this because ...

How can my boyfriend be so unreasonable? He has the nerve to be angry because I slept with someone before him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - I'm having a huge argument with my boyfriend and I'd like some advice on how to handle it. About a month before I ever met him I was dating quite a bit, we met each other on a dating site so he was quite aware that I was dating people before I ...

Why did my girlfriend suddenly decide she won't have sex till we get married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

24 August 2015 (M) - We have been dating for over a year now, things have been going on well between the both of us. As usual she is ready to have sex anytime I ask for it Suddenly things changed! My gentle and caring girlfriend suddenly changed to someo...

How to deal with an unfriendly co-worker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - Hey guys just a quick one Ok I recently started a new job Everyone seems really nice but there's a guy and I've detected it after just 3 weeks there I've tried to be friendly and chat but he always a bit sharp I know he's busy in the morning b...

Is it ok to get married thinking it might not work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - I love my fiance to the end of the world and back. I am as sure as one can be that in the depths of his soul lies a a volcanic love for me too. I couldn't be happier and I wouldn't change a hair on his head; neither would he on mine I believe. ...

An old family friend coming to our house makes me uncomfortable but my mom doesn't listen to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - Hi. I am 21 yr old girl from north india. My mother has a old friend who often comes to my home just for chatting. He is like family to us. But now a days its being annoying that he comes frequently and interfering in all matters. I tried talking ...

I was really messed up the other night and did some stupid things. Did I ruin things between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

24 August 2015 (M) - Hi everyone, I got myself in a real predicament this weekend and would like to know if people think there's anyway I could salvage what I have with a girl at the moment. Basically what happened, Saturday night I was in a really bad way (drink/d...

I want to confront my ex friend about her lack of respect in our relationship but wonder if I should just let things go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - I was friends with a girl for many years, even when we went apart to go to different colleges across the country. During this time, she got a boyfriend who lived in our home-town, she returned from college and they became very close. During t...

Am I just too jaded and expecting too much of a my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - So is it me and my large amount of bitterness and cynicism? Here are the facts, and please lemme know your ace value opinion. My bf and i have been dating for 2.5 years. As of last month I told him I didn't wanna be w/ him anymore in an em...