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writes:I haven't heard from my boyfriend in a week. We've been in a long distance for almost two years. Every now and then, he'll just disappear until I confront him and he'll tell me something about how he's stressed out and can't handle being a bf right now and blah blah. Whenever he does, he disappears from social networks too. Until now, anyway. He's been updating his FB and talking to his friends all week yet hasn't bothered to text or call me. The last time we talked, I was feeling kinda down because of PMS and he figured it out. He's never really dealt with it before so I'm wondering if he ran off because he didn't want to deal with it, in which case-talk about crappy!Anyway, I'm really angry with him and haven't contacted him because I want to see how long he's going to drag this out but it's starting to drive me crazy. Should I call him or let him be?
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 I was in this sort of situation when I started uni this year. Me and my boyfriend (now ex) of a year attempted long distance and it didn't work out. He never contacted me unless I made the first move (but this had happened a lot in the past too), so i seriously doubted our relationship and i emailed him asking him straightforwardly if he was still interested in it. A couple of days later he called me and we both talked it through and agreed it wasn't working out.
Maybe you could just directly ask him whether he actually wants to be in this relationship?
Good Luck ^_^
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 November 2011):
 sounds like he's not rowing the boat for this relationship which means to me that he's NOT interested in making it work.
LDRs are hard. at your age even harder.
I'd really consider since this is not the first time he's done this... leaving him be and moving on... I know that sucks but it's what makes sense to me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 November 2011):
 It sounds to me like he is just giving up on this relationship. He doesn't make an effort because he does not want to. He goes away and comes back again and he doesn't care about how you feel. Am sorry honey but it doesn't look like he is serious about you, I think you should let this go and find someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. Good luck.
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