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Archived questions from: October, 2016 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I've never had feelings like this before, but I'm getting whiplash!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - Ok, so here it is: A couple months ago i met this guy, and it was instant attraction from both sides. Physical attraction that i have NEVER felt before, but what was strange is that there was the emotional attraction as well. We are very good ...

My boyfriend's wife says he is lying about getting a divorce

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - Hi, I am with a guy who is separated from his wife 5 years ago. He came to America as a refugee 3 years ago and she is overseas with their son. All his family and relatives knows about me and the fact that they are separated and he is waiting for ...

Guy wants me to swing with him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - Me and this guy have been, not dating, but exclusive FWB. He been wanting a threesome. I ask what his other fantasy is. Sex in public. Lesser of two evils, I agreed to try. So he's been dragging me to sex shops. 6 months into the "relationship", he ...

How do I deal with my partner spending time with his ex wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I would like some advice on how to deal with a certain situation. My partner and I have been together for nearly 18 months, we are both in our 50s and divorced. He has two daughters in their late 20s, and I have no children. We live about 35 mi...

I think my mom's cheating on my step dad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I really need some advice right now. I think my mum is cheating, or about to cheat on my stepdad. It sickens me to even think about it. Long story short, last year there was an incident where my mum found out that my stepdad was messaging and ...

Are there any strategies to deal with my reactions to the behaviour of his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Ive been with my partner 3 and a half years. Whilst i met his family quite early on, other than a handful of occasions i havent socialised with his friends. When i questioned him about this he is told me that the partners of his friends still se...

My girlfriend hooked up with my cousin years ago

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - My girlfriend and I've been dating for a few months, I'm bothered that I have sex with the same girl my cousin had. I know everyone has a past but he's my family member, it's weird! She told me she had sex with him years ago in college. My cous...

My friend found my girlfriend on a dating site

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I have been in an 18 month relationship with an extremely insecure girl who has been controlling, needy, and jealous of my past. I have often been aggressively accused of things that just dont exist. In spite of this difficulty, I have rode the ...

Amazing connection vs. mind blowing sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - So, does one choose an amazing emotional connection with good sex and potential for a long term relationship? Or does one choose the best sex he's ever had in his entire life with no emotional connection? But absolutely mind blowing sex! I've foun...

My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is c...

How do I rebuild trust with my wife when she's still going to see the man she crossed a line with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 10 years and thought things were going ok. We did go through a rocky patch in June this year but thought we had got through that. I started to get a bit suspicious of a guy that she coaches who had left his wife a ...

I feel I’m losing my “big brother" and it’s painful! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

20 October 2016 (F) - Hey guys, Rach here. I'm a 19-year-old girl and this question is about my big brother-type person. We're really not siblings, just friends, but I consider him my big brother. I'll make this as brief as possible (tho tbh the story is pretty long) -- ...

Where to now? Is my married loved a narcissist? I feel I can no longer trust him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

18 October 2016 (M) - I had a year long affair with a married man. I am his tennant in the house that he rents out. He left his wife just before Christmas and came to live with me and my kids in the house. During our affair we had a secret bank accounts, and phone nu...

He blanked me for weeks then blows up because I was with some one else?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

18 October 2016 (F) - I was texting / meeting a guy (let's call him Fred, this isn't his name) and was seeing each other for about 9weeks.. Then for some reason he stopped talking to me. He said he had family issues and personal problems and can't give me what I want, he ...

How can I end an affair with a married woman who is having an affair with another?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

16 October 2016 (M) - What steps can I take to end a affair with a married woman that is having another affair. Yes, call me stupid. I deserve it. She is a long term friend and we have known each other for years. We are very comfortable with each other. The other af...

My boyfriend always invites his friend to tag along

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - hiya ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter. the problem is whenever we are supposed to spend any time together he always invites his mate along. we were supposed to be spending bonfire night together just me him a...

My friend is accusing me of being a shitty friend because I like the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - This is a very complex situation, so please bare with me as this story might be a little long-winded. In August, my friend Leslie started hanging out with this guy, Ian, she met through Tinder. They were talking to each other off-and-on for n...

I've agreed to be friends, but he is pulling away from me.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

14 October 2016 (F) - So, there is this guy i used to deal with but now we are supposed to be friends. He has been begging me for friendship for the longest once we established that our relationship couldn't go any further due to our military rankings. Initially,, i was ...

Is it bro 'code?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

13 October 2016 (F) - I recently moved to a new area, and I've met a lot of people in the time I've been here. At the very beginning I was swept off my feet by a guy, but ultimately it was just a fling. While that "relationship" was fading, I met a man who happens to ...

My boyfriend has a very inappropriate colleague who I'm extremely uncomfortable with; he says he'll avoid her but doesn't match his words

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

13 October 2016 (F) - My fiancé works with this girl who I accepted as a friend of ours and as part of our group. He had told me that she had displayed scandalous behaviours in the past (had tried to sleep with him while he had a girlfriend and told him she would never ...

Why do older women like me so much?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

12 October 2016 (M) - It's flattering, I have no problem being with an older woman if I like her, but they are unavailable. A woman I've known for a few years now, Caucasian, 36 years old, and she has had the same boyfriend since before we even met. She's always bee...

My boyfriend cant make up his mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago. A month after we broke up he went out with one of our mutual friends and of course that bothered me but I just kept telling myself if they are happy then I'm happy. A month into that relationship they broke ...

Being strung by my best friend... who has a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Hello DearCupid :) I'm struggling with being strung by my best friend. He has a very attractive girlfriend. They have been together for almost 10 years now and I have always respected him for it. He was never an option for me until we screwe...

I love him but I hate him. Where do I go from here? Its officially over but I still have feelings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2991 days ago

10 October 2016 (F) - I don't know where to start but Ive lost so much over the past year and the losses still keep coming. I'm 38, two sons (18 and 15) and divorced for a little over a year. My sons are great...my oldest is a freshman in college out of state and my ...

Her ex' is hurting and I want to help but...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2995 days ago

7 October 2016 (M) - My girlfriend (age:30) was married for 6 years to some guy she said cheated on her 4 times in 3 years. So she divorced him, he moved out the house, and that's when she met me(age:26) Some months later, she gets a call from a random number, it's her ...

Should we move to get away from this woman? How else can the situation be resolved?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2998 days ago

6 October 2016 (F) - My husband is a very handsome man with beautiful eyes and he has many admirers. I am nearly due with my 3rd child and we are both really excited about the new addition to our young family and a little anxious while we wait for the big day. The on...

How do I respond to my wife now I know about the affair she had with my (then) best friend behind my back?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

2 October 2016 (M) - I just found out that my wife had a sexual relationship with my best friend and the best man at my wedding. This happened 26 years ago! We had been dating exclusively for 4 months at the time. Even though it was so long ago, I feel like it could've...

I still have feelings for her. Should I keep in touch? She's about to marry another girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

1 October 2016 (F) - So I need a little help. Last year around this time, I started seeing a girl. She was beautiful, smart, educated, sweet. All things I look for in a relationahip. Honestly nothing was really lacking and we were pretty great together. We dated fo...