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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I have a boyfriend of 7 years but have fallen for another man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Dear cupid,my heart is torn in two and I sincerely don't know what to do.I'm 28 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7years now(I've been totally faithful to him) along the line he cheated twice but I forgave him, and ...

Has my GF moved on, or can I restart and save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - Hey friends..my gf has been annoying me for the last few weeks. she has also been spending time with a new male friend, because i refused to have sex with her last time as i was not feeling well. Is she teasing me or something else?please do sugge...

Why does she keep sending mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

28 September 2014 (M) - I have fallen in love with a women 6 hours from me. She has told me how much she loves me and when I asked her to move here with me in my home, she said she cannot due to her girls. She said she cannot have what she wants right now. Then she goes...

My LDR has admitted to ongoing cheating. Do I fight for us or sit back while he leaves me for the other girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years just told me he cheated on me...by text message. He met this girl, got her number, has been hanging out with her, going out in groups, hanging at her house, and having sex with her. He told me and seemed to think that since ...

How can I possibly introduce my husband to a man who tried it on with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - So I am in a predicament and I don't know what to do. About six months ago, I had a row with my husband and went out to my friends party and got really drunk. My friend's husbands rather ugly best friend was at the party, he was really drunk too and ...

Old flame returns! What to say or do? He wants to be friends but he doesn't want his wife to get hurt??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - I was contacted by my first love on facebook. He said he was happily married on facebook as am I; Our relationship was 33 years ago. We dated as teens and were in love till he went away to school he said we should date others and didn't want t...

I feel like I can't compete with my boyfriend's threesome! Should I tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

25 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I have gotten myself into a really, really stupid situation here. My boyfriend and I have been in a very passionate and loving relationship for about two months and I'll just skip the part where I tell you all how perfect everythi...

"Just friends" became more, which is a problem since I have a gf

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - I have so many questions: am I having an affair? Am I doing the right thing? Does she think I'm using her? I should probably start with a bit of background. I've known this girl for years, always fancied her, had a mess about when we were younger ...

How do I tell my fiance and my friend that I've fallen for his girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - I have been feeling ill with a current situation I have got myself into. I have been previously married which ended after she had an affair and got pregnant. I eventually found my current partner. I have a close friend whom I have known all my life. ...

She spends a lot of time with her ex boyfriend but tells me I'm still her 'one and only'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I've been dating this girl for 6 months now. It all started when I needed help with getting the size for my suit from the girl I like, because I was ordering for Valentine's Day because I promised my friend, Adele, (who is straight but I w...

Marriage and threesomes..need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

22 September 2014 (M) - I need your opinion. My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years. I have always wanted to try anal and never have with any woman. I have always had this fantasy and had played with her asshole before which she loved, but the last time we ...

My best friend treats me differently now that he's in a serious relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi , I've been friends with this guy forever and now we're bestfriends.he always wanted a relationship with me but I refused cause I didn't want to ruin our friendship, now he hav found this girl who is serious about him, he starts treating me ...

I'm suspicious of my LDR and his ex-girlfriend, and we've been fighting about it. Is there any chance this relationship can be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I was in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy who I thought I could really see myself with in the future. However, we recently broke up due to fighting a lot mostly from trust issues and my insecurity. We agreed to tak...

Boyfriend has overly attached bromance...what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - Hello everyone hope someone out there can give me some help on this issue i have. I recently started dating a guy who is wonderful andi really do like him. We only see each other about once a week because i work and he lives about half an hour away ...

Why does he get angry when I question him about a girl I know has a thing for him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! I would like some opinions on this! Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years, we did take a 7 week break over the Christmas period due to personal issues. In that 7 week period I was introduced to a friend of a friend,...

I'd like to discover more about this guy at work and have some fun. Can I consider that, and yet not hurt my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 1/2 years. I love him and that I could possibly have a life with him. But over this past year those feelings haven't been as strong and I've thought about leaving him at times. I have now found out th...

How to be a friend to someone you still love (or like) but have to forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

12 September 2014 (F) - I have this whirlwind "romance" with a co-worker I've only known for two months. It started out as being polite. He's a new staff, I'm old and so I started to show him the ropes. He would say how smart I was etc. After seeing how I work. I would ...

My boyfriend's roommate is coming between us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriends roommate is coming between us! His roommate is nothing but a mooch. He eats my boyfriends food, takes his laundry supplies, doesn't help pay for heating in the winter time, and is the rudest human being I've ever met. Last winter his ...

He wants to meet me but he is still married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - the answer to the question why stay is because , part of me believed in him. Part is sooo scared to find out the truth. he is in the military and he lives separately from his wife because of the constant arguments. He left the city where he used to ...

Could he really be in love with both of us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - I had to meet my ex recently (broke up couple months ago - he fell in love with someone else at work). He had something of mine that I needed back. Think I was ready to meet him and glad I did, we chatted for about an hour and he left. During our ...

My ex's friend is interested, but I've fallen for my tenant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3721 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - Hi all. Ive lost my boyfriend of 7 years through suicide last year october 2013. Since then never dated. His best friend has shown sme signs that he wants to be with me cause recently he has broken up with his girlfriend and always tells me that we ...

My LDR can't get past the fact that my best friend is an ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - Hey everyone well I have this question that has been bugging my mind ! I've been speaking to someone for well over a year now and I'm glad he has stuck around. Honestly this is a long distance relationship and I have heard everything about LDRs but ...

Why is his friend's ex so perfect to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

4 September 2014 (F) - love my boyfriend .All i wish is his happiness but i wonder if he is happy with me.He tells me that he love me and he also does everything for my happiness but whenever we fight why he compare me with his friend's ex.He told me that she is ...

Should I warn my assistant that the man she's chatty with almost had an affair with me and is married? Or is it best for me to stay away and let this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - A while ago I got chatting to a guy I work with and we got close very quickly. We both had a crush on each other and both wanted more, well I did anyway. He made me send him photos, chatted about sex a lot and I did really like him. He knew I liked ...

His first weekend out in America and my B/f got a lapdance and kissed a stripper! The trust is completely gone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 3yrs. He is younger than me. He had the opportunity to go to Florida to study for a year, which I have supported and encouraged. I was, however, aware of all the temptations that would be there in Miami etc for...

I had an affair with a younger man and I wanted to hurt his girlfriend so I told her about what we did. I thought this would break them but they're back together. What do I do now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - I've been very stupid. 6 weeks ago I started to talk to a man 11 years younger than myself, he was at work when I met him and I asked for his number for a job that I needed doing in my home. I text him and it started off innocently, I ne...

Am I a fool to wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

1 September 2014 (F) - Hi I need help on whether I should wait for a guy or just move on. here is the story: I recently met a man at a summer job who I began to have strong feeling for. When i chose to voice these, he reciprocated them, saying he felt a strong co...