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writes: love my boyfriend .All i wish is his happiness but i wonder if he is happy with me.He tells me that he love me and he also does everything for my happiness but whenever we fight why he compare me with his friend's ex.He told me that she is beautiful and i should try to be like her.And he also told me that i should be jealous of that girl because she knows him better than him.Why will that girl know him better?Does my bf love her or maybe he had not realise that he love her.When i tell him that he said he love me and always will.What should i do.I should back off and break up?Does she love that girl?Why is that girl perfect to him when he already love me?Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2014): He sounds like an idiot and you probably know deep down you can do better than him. A decent bf would never compare his gf to another girl, it's that simple. Stand up for yourself and see your own worth.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 September 2014):
 It can be twofold , either it is him using MANIPULATION. He is trying to get you jealous and trying to make you FEEL like you have to compete with this girl.
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It could be his way of telling you that he wants you to "give" something in return. If he constantly take "care" of your emotional needs, maybe he does NEED to be taken care of too.
Though I would tell him that comparing you to another girl is not a good way to show love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2014): He's just telling you those things to make you jealous.
You say he does a lot of things to make you happy. What things do you do to make him happy? You can sit around expecting your boyfriend to constantly do things to prove how much he cares about you; while you do nothing but soak it up. Like a lot of girls do. Then complain.
It's not just the boy's job to be nice to you, you have to say and do nice things for him to. Just don't let him think sex is the only way to make him happy. If you can't think of anything to do that will make him happy? That's the problem.
You can take him out and pay for the date. Make his favorite foods. Have a cookout or picnic for him. Buy him his favorite game, or remember to get him something on his birthday. Tell him he's a nice guy, and stick up for him when he needs you to watch his back. He's trying to tell you that you're not doing much of anything to make him feel like he's special to you.
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