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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Am I overthinking this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I really need some prespective on my situation...I'm at a total loss here and I feel like if I don't get this off my chest I'm going to end up causing a fight with my BF He is in Japan for work and I am in the US, so today I called him to chat at ...

It's been a year, I still love him, but now he's with my so-called friend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i went out with this one boy for about year and we deeply fell for each other i loved him alot and he "said" he loved me in which i belived so after a while of getting to know each other very well he decided the relationship was getting old so ...

There's no chance of us getting back together, but I can't get her out of my head? How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Me and my ex have been seperated for almost a year now..... and she has made it crystal clear that the chace of us ever been together is nil...She has moved on with her life and I play no part in it. But I just cant get her outta my head. She is ...

I want him back, but I don't know how to approach him. What should I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - IVe got a bf and i still have feeling 4 my ex very large 1s i split up wid him 2months because of my family and friends because they made a rumour abouthim nd now i want him back but i dont no what to say to him and how to tell him x what shou...

I miss him so much and I'm afraid he will meet someone else please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and when I asked him back he said no he had enough of the fighting and he loves me, I'm his soulmate and hopefully things will be different someday. I didn't trust him and it wasn't his fault, I had some ...

How do I get her out of this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months now and we are really really happy together. The problem is that his ex won't leave him alone. They had a very short relationship last December where she only met him three times, ignored ...

He said the girl beside him in the picture was his cousin, but his step sister told me it's his ex! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend and we've been almost a year. I saw his pic. and a girl that makes me confused if who is the girl beside him. He tell me it's his cousin but when i talk with his step sister. She tell me it was his xgf. i confront my boyfriend if ...

My ex has a new girlfriend - how he's ignoring me! I'm deeply hurt - what should I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My ex is ignoring me! We broke up several years ago but have always remained friends, but for the past year or so, I know he's been seeing another woman. I've never met her but I hear she's beautiful and he's very much in love. The problem ...

I want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day because he started being friends with this other girl and they went out about three to four times and he said its my fault because we are always fighting so please let ...

I'm fighting a battle that is long since lost. What can I do?? I love her so much, and I can't have her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - I recently posted a question regarding my feelings after my girlfriend broke up with me, due to her going away to study at University, and didn't think she'd have time for 'us'. She is studying far away, and our realtionship was long distance in...

Does he want me, the new girl, or the rebound? How do you know when someone is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I need advice. I am still in love with my ex, and I know this, I tried to deny this but it's true. I think of him every minute of the day, and have for the past few years. We are on again off again...And He says he really loves me, but I ...

Women: When I split w/ her, she said she hated me and never loved me! What should I do? Should I try to talk to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Ok well. I guess this is an update from my previous question. But I did break up with my girlfriend and it didn't go very well.. She basically says she hates me, she never loved me, she was desperate, and basically everything she says to me is ...

We've split and she won't give me back my things, including sentimenal items that belonged to my deceased grandfather!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - dear all. my girl and i split 8 weeks ago. i ended up having a nervous breakdown, ended up on anti depressants. she has my things still. i've asked for them in every shape or form: letter, text, e mail etc. Nothing. Left it for fw weeks, nothing. T...

I expected to be comforted after my grandmother's passing, but instead my gf broke up with me! I want her back - what's my next move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I have just recently split up with my girlfriend. We have had an amazing year and a bit with each other but she has just suddenly told me she wants to split up. I have taken this very hard. Recently my Grandma has passed away and returnin...

This guy swears he was my first, but I remember my kids' dad being my first! I feel as if I'm going insane!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Iam in touch with a guy i used to date when i was 15 yrs old. Recently, he told me he was my first. I have no memory of this he tells me he started to enter and I stopped him as I was bleeding. But the thing is, I remember my first true experience ...

He turned 40, became obsessed with going to the gym then left me for another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i was with my partner of 15 years,for ten years of the relationship we spent most of our time together and went everywhere together.then when he hit 40 he changed and started looking in the mirror all the time going to the gym and it all became a ...

My ex and I are friends - and it was really weird hearing him talk about his new girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi There! I have a dilema, my ex and I broke up 15months ago as he had a gambling habit and we were losing intimacy. We never sought counselling. We have however remained good friends and speak at least every few weeks, just general chit cha...

The day after we argued, he got a text from his ex asking "how'd it go?" Was he discussing our problems with her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I found a text message from his ex girlfriend. I've never been the suspicious type but lately my boyfriend and I have been going through a rocky patch. We had a really big arguement early on in September, which nearly caused us to break up, but we ...

Since he was abusive with me, does that mean he'll be abusive to his next girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - If my ex boyfriend was kind of abusive with me and emotionaly unavailable Will he be the same way with his next girlfriend or should I blame it on me? Sometimes I feel I taught him things he didn't know before I was his girl, and now those things ...

My ex's brother won't be in a relationship w/ me even though the break-up was a year ago! I don't want to give up on him - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Please help me! I was in a bad relationship for 3 years and even lived with my ex's family for about a year and in that time I fell for my ex's younger brother. Since my ex was hardly ever around and his brother was, we found out we had more in ...

He called his ex twice behind my back - how can I trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 8 1/2 months and i been having trouble trusting him because he called his ex-girlfriend twice behind my back and i found out about it what can i do to trust him again???...