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We've split and she won't give me back my things, including sentimenal items that belonged to my deceased grandfather!

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Question - (26 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, *061sarahs writes:

dear all. my girl and i split 8 weeks ago. i ended up having a nervous breakdown, ended up on anti depressants. she has my things still. i've asked for them in every shape or form: letter, text, e mail etc. Nothing. Left it for fw weeks, nothing.

These are sentimental items that my grandad bought, we were close he passed away 3 years ago. She says it's just an excuse to contact her, but it's not. I have explained that I don't want us, her, no second chances and despise having to get in touch with her.

I've heard off one of her mates that she regrets what she has done and wants us back. Who said all fair in love and war!

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (27 September 2007):

rcn agony auntTell her you need to arrange a time to set up to pick up your things, if you don't hear from her to arrange that time, you'll be filing and using the police to assist you in picking them up.

Let her know these things are your, she has no right of ownership over your property. She is holding it against your will, which is violation of law, and if she refuses you plan on taking this further.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007):

ur two main options is file a complaint and go with a police escort to retrieve the items. or u can go to small claims court to get the items back and that may also mean u may have to put a price tag on the items.

or worst comes to worst, and i know everyone is thinking of it too. take her back, take the items, call her a nut job and leave her.

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