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writes:I am 19 year old, I am married and have no children. My husband and I have been planning to have a child for about 2 years now. I checked myself with the Dr. and said I was fine, also my husband. I am not taking care of myself against pregnancy, nor my husband is using condoms. I don't know what to do any more to get pregnant. Can someone help me?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Have the hubby switch to wearing boxers instead of tidy whiteys. And have him get a sperm count done. If he checks out, then make plans for a special vacation nine months from now with unrefundable tickets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Me and my husband had the same problems. Get your husband to start taking Selinium with Zinc(vitamins)and when showering use cooler water when washing his testicals, thats what the top gynecologist and urologist in my city advised us whilst we where under the hospital for not conceiving. Having lots of sex is also not the answer I believe someone has already mentioned healthy sperm, smoking and drinking can also cause infertility (im not saying any of you do). The other thing to bear in mind is that it can take weeks or months for some and years for others, I have known of couples giving up trying after 10 years and then falling pregnant out of the blue.If you are really concerned after you have been trying for 2 years go see your Dr again and inform him that you would like to be refered to a gynecologist to be tested to see if you are ovualting. It has been many years since I went through this but im sure the process has not changed that much.As for your age I am in my late 30's and I would much rather go through pregnancy and child birth at 19 than the age I am.Good Luck
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reader, justadvise +, writes (20 April 2009):
You're a little young to be having kids but as long as you want some. i think you're trying too hard...sperms need time to be "healthy." They say sperms need at least a week to be an ok swimmer. What that means is if you keep on having sex everyday the sperms aren't mature enough to be finding any eggs anytime soon. Give it time to mature, tell him to stop beating off and try again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): I know you said you were fine but is your husbands sperm count fine? what about mobility? Also another factor could be drugs, stress these are all factors.. you could also try an ovulation kit.. tells you when you are most likely to get pregnant.. there are also (don't know how true this is but worth a shot) rumors of diet change and that can help you to atain pregnancy.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): wow, you are young to have a kid, but i guess it happens all the time now, and it's good that you're married.
i think if you are so desperate to have a child, then either keep trying through sex or visit a fertilization doctor. the doctor could help you, but it might be very expensive. and look what happened with Octomom. it is common for people who use fertilization treatments to have twins, triplets or more because of the treatment method. so if you just want one child, it' probably best to keep trying the old fashioned way.
if both of you are healthy and everything is 'working', then it will happen!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Just keep trying! Sometimes it takes some time. Don't give up! Maybe you are trying too hard. Maybe if you just relax, enjoy those intimate times together...it will happen.
Good Luck!
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