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writes:at a party around christmas time last year i hooked up with this guy who is in the group of people that go to the same parties as i do and during that summer we were together and all was well. one night he was having a boys night and my friend had a party. i got very drunk that night and drank an entire bottle of chardonnay to myself and ending up having a drunken one night stand with a guy who lives out of town and was just visiting. my boy called me about 3 nights later extremly drunk himself and asked me if id slept with him and i said no because i didnt think it was the right time to talk about it when he was in that state. a few weeks later he found out id lied to him and we unoficially ended. about a month later another girl asked him out and i mustered up the courage to tell him i still had feelings for him. there relationship only lasted 5 weeks and ended up being very troubled. about 2 or 3 weeks in both me and him were too tired to go out on that saturday night and ended up spending the night together getting stoned and although we didnt do anything rumors started to spread. 2 weeks later we ended up having sex and a week later they broke up. the day after he went overseas for a holiday. hes coming back tomorrow and im still so confused at what to do because every time we are together its clear that there is something there but whether he will take the plunge im unsure. i dont know what to do when i see him and im friends with his ex girlfrend and all of her friends and the guilt is killing me. HELPPPP!!!!!
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reader, yahora  +, writes (20 April 2009):
stay away from chardonnay this time..lol But maybe talking to your peers about what they think might shed some light on this. His ex is your friend..I think that's off limits automatically but talk to her..she may not care.
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