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writes:ok so heres the deal.. i really really like this one dude.. and i know he doesnt like me.. so my question is how do i get him to like me? and i am too nervous and scared to go up to him and talk to him.. so wat should i do?? .. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): Okay heres the thing with boys yes maybe if u tell him how u feel he will make fun of you. But thats his lost and if u never find out if he likes you you will never know! coming from me im to scared to talk to my crush and i told him i was dating now look i lost my chance with him because i didnt tell him how i feel
Trust me if he make fun of u he is feeling bad inside you can tell by his eyes. + you could say u were dared as a way out.
Please take the Chance :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): try to get confident girl, nothing is a bigger turn-off to a guy than a nervous insecure girl.
you can't make someone like you, but if you flirt and act confident, maybe even act like you aren't into him anymore, he might change his mind. men like the chase.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 You say that you're too nervous to talk to him... do you know this guy? Have you met him?
He can't like you if you've never met.
I can't guarantee that he will like you, but you have nothing to lose. Be yourself and be a friend to him. He may be harboring feelings for you, or you may just gain a friend. If you let fear hold you back, you'll regret it.
Unfortunately there's no magic potion to make someone like you. I'm sure I would have made one and used it at least once in my life, if there were. However, at least you'll have your answer if you talk to him and get to know him. Just don't be fake or clingy because guys tend to hate that.
Good luck :)
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (20 April 2009):
 you cant really make someone like you well you could but i dont think you should have to try and make a guy like you. do you? i think you should be with someone who likes you and you dont have to try to make him like you. but idk. just my advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): We can't always have the person we "really, really" like! It just doesn't happen that way, unfortunately.
Wouldn't you rather have someone the "really, really" likes you? Someone who is attainable and available and who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated? Life goes by too fast to waste time on fantasies that will only hurt you in the end!
Be patient, you are so young...it will happen for you.
There is no way to MAKE people love us...either they do or they don't!
Good Luck and Be Patient!
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Get to know him as a person. You can't make someone like you though. And your way of thinking scares me, because it shows me that you might possibly become someone you are not, and go against your own values just to please someone else. Be yourself. I know I sound like Disney, but be yourself, and if he doesn't like you, it's his loss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): I cannot tell you how to make him like you. If you asked the question "what do guys like about girls" on this site you would get too many different answers to know what to do with. They're all different. But i can tell you that at the end of the day, how do you expect to come close to getting him to like you if you can't approach him. Sitting back, doing nothing and being confused as to why he's not interested insn't entirely reasonable. You have to just overcome that fear and talk.. I know that it's hard for a shy person but you will always pawn, wonder, wish and hope if you don't do something. As for getting him to like you..Be yourself and if that's not somethng he likes, then forget him. don't start convincing yourself that you need to change in order to make someone like you. NEVER EVER do that. stay true to yourelf please. the person you are will appeal to someone who will also appeal to you one day. Goodluck!!
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