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*ikandme
writes:Alright, so i like this girl alot. she's the same age as me and we have a damn near every thing there is in common. but idk if she likes me. ive got a hint i think, i said somthing to her on myspace about how a one of my girlfriends dumped me cus i got drunk a few tinmes. and she said "I would go drink with you if i was your girl!" is that sending any kind of mesage at all? or is she just sayin that? and my problem is that i have had so many girls cheat on me and dump me in the past. EVERY ONE OF THEM!. so im a litle scared of even asking somone out now. because all i do is protect them, and treat them like queens. and they turn around and treat me like shit! and dump me like a load of garbage. and i just dont get it. help me out a lil would ya? what message is she sending in that message? and what is my problem with dating?
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reader, nikandme +, writes (31 December 2008):
nikandme is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank everyone
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reader, xxbecksyxx  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 I know it's not smart to drink at 16, but everyone does it so I can't blame you.
Well to find out, try flirting back. Ask her out in a flirty way. I'm not going to suggest anything, because girls like different flirting techniques, plus, I'm rubbish at flirting myself x]
anyway.
Good luck x
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reader, PrettyLady17 +, writes (31 December 2008):
 even if your 16 it isn't smart to drink( sorry had to add that)
now to your problem.
she definitly likes you or is a huge flirt. either way it's a sign sweetie :D
and the whole dumping thin. some girls don't know how good they have it and some girls are just bitches. it's life. but you can't not try because this one might just be the girl that treats ya right :)
good luck and God Bless
if you need anything else . message me . k ?
I wish you the very best
p.s
not all girls are heartbreakers :D
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reader, nikandme +, writes (31 December 2008):
nikandme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere is a mistake with my age deal. Im actualy 16 but anyway ya thanks, any more advise?
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reader, katatonik +, writes (31 December 2008):
 13-15 eh? Please be careful with the drinking, not to preach but I have to say it.
Some girls seem to enjoy guys who treat them like shit. It's a "thrill of the chase" type thing, I guess. If you feel that you possess someone's affection and devotion completely, it becomes easy (though not right) to take this for granted. "Bad boys" on the other hand are very hard to pin down and "own" and girls who pine for them are rarely able to feel secure that these boys love them and them only. I think this jealousy makes them desire the guy all the more; it is easy indeed to want what you can't have.
I'm not saying you should turn around and become a jerk to attract girls. You shouldn't. Nor do you need to; it sounds as if the girl who messaged you is interested in you just as you are. Ask her to hang out, just the two of you or in a group if you think she would be more comfortable, and see what she says and where things go. Good luck =]
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