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writes: Hi! im new to this so sorry if it sounds wired. Iv a small problem.I really love my boyfriend of 7 months now and more than anything in the world I would so love to sleep with him for one night and wake up with him their. Not even for us to do anything just be with each other. I know it sounds really sopy but its something i really want.The problem is he is not aloud stay in my house(his parents wouldnt let him,my mam wouldnt mind)So i was wondering has anyone any sugestions to how i could spend one night with him?!!! xxx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, alanna_HD +, writes (31 December 2008):
Awh I have been through this EXACT thing..you just want him there when you wake up and the comfort of being curled up together!! I think it was about a year after I was going out with my current b/f that we both tried to spend the night together..but the problem was that his parents were EXTREMELY strict and 'old fashioned' and I lived too far away, and anoyingly in the middle of no where, so the only way he could get up to mine was if either my parents or his parents give him a lift! Also, as already mentioned, getting a hotel room is near impossible! And I know you don't wana hear this..but it was impossible to spend the night together..and even after being together now a year and 8months, we still can't spend the night. Butone thing did work =D if it's just the comfort of being together that way, then you could try what works for us. There's a field close to where he lives thats out of site and over grow, we just tell our parents were shopping,or going to the cinema to buy us a few hours, and we go up there together with a picnic rug and just lye there for hours together..talking, taking pictures and listening to music..we love it and because no one knows were we are and were not seen,it does open up the option of 'fooling around'!lol
Or if you have a close friend who's family are going away on holiday, and there 100% cool with it, you could ask them if they'd lend you a key and let you spend one night??
I hope something works out for you..or if you find another option, let me know!!lol were still struggling at times!!
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