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What sort of physique do girls like in a boyfriend?

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Question - (31 December 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2009)
A male Bangladesh age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, happy new year. I want to know this from girls. Girls, what sort of physique u like in ur bf? Tall, short, fat, skinny, muscular, anything. Feel free to give me ideas on wot u actually look for. Thanks. Pls.

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A female reader, Lizzabeth United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

To be honest my preferences change frequently and it all comes down to the person in the end...

My old type was stylish dark brown hair (this was my 'thing'), tanned, slight bit of stubble, athletic body and taller than me.

But then I kind of grew up and began knowing the person, so recently I've been attracted to a blonde, pale and skinny lad and then a short brown haired, tanned and muscley guy so I cant say I have any particular body preferences.

As long as they are healthy, right?!

Though I must admit I do have a thing for a nice mouth and a good pair of arms!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

Can't stop smiling!

Toned.

Not wimpish, not hardcore muscle, just toned. Healthy and fit without being addicted.

Healthy.

Not calorie counting but not craving their 4th sugar intake of Pepsie either.

Knowledge.

Makes conversation more interesting!

Humour.

Very, very important. It shows your happy and content in their company.

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Just think of Jude law or George Clooney!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009):

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thanx , thanks , and thanx 2 all

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A female reader, searbear United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2009):

searbear agony auntWell i like thin guys, who don't have to have big muscles but quite strong, tall guys are nice but not really tall as im only 5'5. Sometimes, depending on what the guys attitude is like and acts like..its nice if theyre not completely thin (they need a bit of a tummy to fit their character) not huge tho, like barely noticeable :) It makes them seem cuddly hehe. A sixpack is all well and nice also but not really muscular, bit of a turnoff as it makes their torso look plastic.

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (1 January 2009):

Stayc63088 agony auntWell every girl likes something different. I'm into guys who are taller than me, but not too tall, I kind of like short guys. Also I like skinny, not sickly skinny, but I'm not into muscles or any of that. More like average but the thinner side of average if that makes sense. I mostly look at the face and stomach. I do like nice abs. Really though every girl likes something different. My friend likes tall muscular hairy guys where I don't like chest hair and I like short little guys. It's funny but it is how it is. Just like there is not a certain type of girl for every guy. I used to struggle thinking all guys were into huge DD boobs and blonde hair but it isn't the case. You are the perfect type for many girls. All of my friends LOVE muscles, they call me the weird one. So don't feel down. I don't think you should have any problem finding someone. Good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009):

What the heck, fun questions like this are always a good way to poke some humour around :)

I prefer the guy to be taller than me, clean shaven and in good health. Let's be honest, six packs and ultimate fit machines are all well and dandy, but if they are reasonably fit and have good hygiene I'd rather take that over a six-pack and horrible hygiene any day.

That being said, preferences are preferences, and ultimately I think most women prefer guys who are fit to guys who are not.

So to the poster, if you're feeling down about being a body builder, don't be! There are plenty of girls that like the extra muscles. And although my SO isn't one, I know enough about body building to know that it takes alot of dedication and heart to do it- and girls generally find dedication and heart attractive.

Cheers

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008):

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Thats what i wanted to know. Gals actually dont like extra muscels. Um a body builder. :(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008):

i like guys taller than me medium built medium to long hair preferbly brown bt im not botherd

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A female reader, emo_rock_rebel United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2008):

Well in a guy i look for:

Straight hair

same height or taller than me

Not majorly skinny but not overweight

A bit of a six pack but not a huge one

Strong but not really muscelly, i think big muscells are unatractive.

:)

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A female reader, Lib1 United States +, writes (31 December 2008):

Lib1 agony auntI used to like tall slim guys. I still like tall but since my last boyfriend was such a great guy and so muscular (body builder)I now have a preference for very fit men (not necessarily as built as he was). All other guys just look so helpless to me. lol I hope that helps your answer.

PS I still like tall guys though

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