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writes:Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm in an intimate relationship with a 17 year old guy. We aren't going out, we just have a mutual agreement to be what you would call "friends with benefits". It's an exclusive agreement, meaning we only sleep with each other and I know he's honest with me when he tells me he sleeps with no one but me. Lately though, I've been sort of unsatisfied with our sex and I've been having thoughts about asking for oral. I told him in the beginning I disliked receiving oral because the first 2 years I was sexually active, the oral was horrible so I thought to do away with it. I'm insecure about it I guess you could say, since all I have are bad memories of it. How do I approach him with this? I'm very nervous about what will happen if he agrees to try it on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah it's no use trying to tell me not to have sex buddy. I know the consequences and am willing to take the risk. I only want advice on this question please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah it's no use trying to tell me not to have sex buddy. I know the consequences and am willing to take the risk. I only want advice on this question please.
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reader, just wondering +, writes (17 April 2009):
What if you get preganent. What responsibities does he have what do you have. Sex is such a small pleasure why not move on to real life and prepare for when you are on your own. IF it is not wrong would you tell your dad, mom etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Hi. You could get one of those honey feather dusters they sell and maybe you could start by asking him to feather dust the powder on your tummy, your legs, etc. and I think naturally he would gravitate in that direction.Just a thought :) Good luck
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reader, PcAhMr3iLsA +, writes (17 April 2009):
 First.. tell him about how u feel about the sex you guys have, and once you are involved in the whole sex conversation ask him about doing it oral but first dont foget to tell him about your experiences with (i know you may feel uncomfortable talking about it though) but theres no other way you'll get away with it or get what you want, im sure he will understand, but dont go on it right off the bath like i said star talking about your actual relationship and then everything else will come together..I hope this helps youGood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): I know where your coming from im 17 too and althought i did have lets say an un-sucessful history with my new boyfriend it has improved maybe you could bring it up in convo or when ye are kissin gently push his head down a bit so he gets the hint...
hope this is a bit helpful:D
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