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writes:How do you give a lap dance? What makes it feel really awesome and what is the best way to end it before the sex? Should the sex come after oral sex or no oral at all? and I need details please I have no clue what I'm doing?!?!
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reader, Daveeeeeee  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 A sensual , exotic lap dance is an art and a skill , but you sound like you are just dancing for your boyfriend ? the way your question is structured , I will talk about the dancing , so many girls get it wrong . The setting is very important , the rythum of your movement , your choice of lingerie , bikini ( but remember when selecting this is slowing going to be removed ), keep it very sexy , very sensual ..No words should be spoken , even if it is a boyfriend approach all this in the same way .
Some girls think its some kind of a Gym work out , or " bucks night " strip , Its not ..Its all about sensual , moves , rubbing , and tease ..tease ..tease . The key tease ..then tease some more . You should maintain the feeling of your own sexual power , and if done properly you should be excited by the dance yourself .
Detail is your costume is vital , also your choice of perfume , and footwear , pay extreme attention to detail , Its most important .
Remember anyone can give a lap dance , BUT a trully great Sensual experience is really difficult to find , make sure all of your personal grooming is done to perfection . I would also reccomend abstaining from sex 3 days prior , to enhance the moment even more .
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): Lapdances are quite easy to give, firstly the setting is important somewhere private, with soft lighting and music with the right tempo, not to fast not too slow.
The best thing about a good lapdance for a guy is the tease, that's what it's all about. Show him what he's gonna get but keep it just out of his reach and playfully remove his hands if he tries to grope.
Best way to end it is up to you, all the rest will come naturally in the moment.
One tip though, wear something sexy yet easy to remove.
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