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writes:My question is about female orgasms. :pI've been masturbating since I was about 16, and it's always felt really good. But most women seen to describe it differently (on the net, in books/writing).. I simply don't feel the same way. They describe it as heavenly, like an explosion of pleasure; they feel it throughout their body in waves and even their vaginal walls spasm. I've never experienced any of this, even during sex. Whenever I masturbate (only through clitoral stimulation) I only feel anything right at that spot and no where else through my body. Are orgasms really like many describe or is it exaggeration? If not, I want to experience that. hahaMakes me wonder what I'm doing wrong...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): It can be amazing with the right stimulation...whether it is with that special person, a memory, a fantasy....whatever!
Keep experimenting...explore your body and your mind! You will eventually get to that very special feeling!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): hi there, it sounds like you're on the right track if you're feeling some pleasure. i would suggest getting a sex toy as well. or if you're not comfortable with that, just use your finger. you'd be surprised how it makes a difference to have some variety down there. it also helps me to get some visual stimulation before i start, it just makes it more exciting. i for one am able to get myself to that explosion point when i'm masturbating, i've just learned what my body likes and what excites me that most. don't be afraid to experiment!good luck!
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reader, XxMishxX  +, writes (17 April 2009):
hey thereeveryone has different orgasms, nobody is the same, some people are really sensitive, others arent.some people orgasms are explosive and others only feel slight pleasurefor me, i have to hold my breath and grip something to take the pleasure and to orgasm, after i cant touch my clit for several minutes after orgasm, this isnt how it explains it in books, it doesnt feel "heavenly" but it does feel good.i think wht you need to do is many use sex toys? find out what does it for you so to speakexperiment and see what happens, but remember everyone is differentgood luck x
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (17 April 2009):
 I'm sure everyone feels it differently, a lot of things are exagerated so as long as you feel good when you have an orgasm then you're probably doing it right! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): ya, youre not really fulfulling your sexual potential if that s is all youre feeling. There is no exageration in what is written and described (well there can be, everyone is different!) maybe you should try a dildo, vibrator, or more foreplay, as well as getting yourself more mentally horny before you start, to help you achieve fuller orgasm! :)
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