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writes:I am 53 years old, very active and vibrant 53 year old, have been divorced for 4 years, have not had a sexual relationship since then. I have met a very nice man and we have only had one date. We hit it off so great! and we did kiss passionately. I am going to his home tonight and he is making me dinner. I don't know how to be in a romantic setting with someone I don't really know. Of course sex would be great, but I'm not ready for that yet but I don't want to loose this opportunity. Rules seem to be different for people my age. What do I do? I just don't know anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Well done you,Look the rules are the same only do what you are comfortable with. The right person will not force you to do anything that you dont want to do. And you wont lose the right person by waiting until your comfortable. Be honest and enjoy it, I am consumed with envy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): I don't think the rules are so different...I think you are just a bit nervous! I understand that, I am about to meet a man for the first time...perhaps this weekend. I am a nervous wreck about it...but I also know, I have to take this first step!
I am going to give you the same advice I have been giving myself for 2 weeks now. Relax...he is just a man...think of him as a friend...and see where it goes! Don't project or place expectations on the situation. Take it slow...and just enjoy it!
I wish you luck and a fabulous dinner with your new friend!
Britt
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 You're probably just nervous and you seem to be thinking of it too much. When you get there just try to relax, if the evening is meant to be then it should just flow! I'm sure that you won't get stuck for conversation, if you do then you can just tell him of how nervous you was before and I'm sure he will be relieved! Its a great way to bring someone closer, confide in him how you were feeling! A romantic atmosphere isn't the be all and end all of the evening, just enjoy the meal and each others company. If you drink then have a glass of wine to loosen you up a tiny bit, I'm not saying get drunk, x I hope it goes well for you! X
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