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Marriage problems: Help and advice

She cheated on me with my cousin but now wants me back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - My wife cheated with my cousin she said it was my falt i was in jail at the time she. said she didn't feel loved now I'm out she says she want me back i feel that she was lusting for him but now I'm hurt and don't no if i wanna be with her what ...

My marriage was a huge mistake but I'm too scared to get out of it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I'm too scared of what will happen after I leave my husband that I can't bring myself to do it. I got married at 21, and he was almost 24. We had been together for two years when we got married and had lived together for a year and a half. I thought ...

I'm struggling with accepting his use of porn, it breaks my heart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - So I have always struggled with accepting porn behind my back from my husband. I have come a long way and have come to terms that it is normal. I also have found that the less I stress about it, the better off I am. That I should be thankful that ...

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...

My husband went out with another girl while we were engaged and now I'm wondering if it happened more than once!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I am in despair, and don't know what to make of it. I am married for 2 years, and have a 3 months old child. A week ago i found out from a so called "friend", that during the time when we were still engaged my husband went out with a friend o...

Husband says he can't make love, but I caught him pleasuring himself! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - My husband I have been married for 28 years. Second marriage for us both. He is 71 now and I an 10 years younger. The problem is that I still have a healthy sex drive and since my husband turned 65 he has claimed he doesn't get excited anymore....

Do I preserve my family or go with the love of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - Hi all, im after some advice please , around 12 years ago i met the love of my life, we saw each other for a year and went our seperate ways due to seveveral miss understandings, weve always kept in contact losely but over the past year we got...

I want my wife to give me a break! I am NOT looking at other women!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, wherever, she will accuse me of looking at another women, even though I most certainly am not, and most of the time don't even know who she is referring to until I really do ...

My husband only sees me as a 'wife,' not as a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Me and my husband recently got married and recently I feel he has stopped seeing me as just his wife rather than wife and best friend. Whenever we do ANYTHING fun he calls up his buddies and invited them to join us. For example, the other weekend ...

Is my husband trying to get the custody of my child?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - Hi I and my husband are getting divorce a "friendly" one! we got help from a mediator,so no lawyer. My husban is a plaintiff which the mediator said it doesnt matter but I felt in some ways she has my husbans's side! close to the court day i goft my ...

Husband has many female friends. They don't want to be friends with me, just him. Am I overreacting in being upset?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - My husband got a lot of female friends that called him at least 5 times a day for advice and to talk, he told me to talked to them cause they are nice and he wants us to be friends too but when I tried to reach out for them (add them on Facebook) ...

Does my husband's odd behaviour mean he's cheating or am I being paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

16 February 2014 (?) - Is my husband cheating? I woke up this morning to him throwing on clothes in a hurry. I asked him what he was doing. He at first didn't reply and then said he was going to the grocery store and would be back in an hour. Before I could even get out ...

Husband belittles me in front of friends and family. I want to leave him, but is there any way I can correct the situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I became very resentfull toward my husband. The main reason is that he complains to people about me. He doesn't complain to everyone but certain people. Like this couple that we don't see very much often, may be every couple months. Usually ...

He has made me feel so undervalued in my role as a wife!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3965 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - Hello, I have a question that I have been having a hard time with. My husband and I have been married for 13 years together for 17. His mother recently passed away he was in Florida to be at her side for 1 week I took care of our kids. He returne...

My husband's secret porn addiction is driving us apart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for twelve years I have recently checked out the history on our co on our computer and noticed a lot of porn sites which he has been on for about a year. I have also looked at his phone which is hardly ever out of his ...

Do you think that it's best not to say about my true feelings at him because other way there is the possibility to lose him at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3966 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - Hello. It's been a lot of time that i haven't written in this column. In the meantime i have got over my ex-boyfriend for ever i think. I don't have feelings for him any more. However, i would like to be friends with him now and have only fun ...

I don't think she's given me the full story about this man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

11 February 2014 (M) - I have been married for 7 years. Everything was great for the first 5 1/2 years then in the fall of our sixth year things changed she became distant and sex which up till then was great it suddenly stopped everytime I approached her about it she ...

Can this sexless marriage be repaired?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

8 February 2014 (F) - I have been married for 15 years and most of it has been sexless. My husband works very hard and travels often. I have approached the subject often and things have not changed. It is a little ironic. Because it is usually the husband who is ...

I feel he prefers porn to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 February 2014 (F) - Been married for three years have a two year old girl just caught my husband looking at pornographers behind my back and lying to me for a year or more.he has already been caught a year ago and promised not to.he knows how bad it hurts me in the ...

For nine years I believed my lover was married but I've recently learned he isn't

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

6 February 2014 (F) - I began this relationship with my lover over 9 years ago and up until a 2 weeks ago believed that he was married because he told me so. He revealed in an online conversation that he was never legally married to the woman he claimed as his wife. N...

Getting over cheating - should I have believed him? How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

5 February 2014 (F) - Im married but almost a year into the marriage i found some naked photos on my husband's email. he had sent the photos to his email from his phone. They were of an ex girlfriend of his who he had only been on 3 dates with. When i found them i asked ...

Cheating- is it always wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - Is it ever acceptable to cheat? I'm in a marriage and very happy aside from the fact my hb and my sex drives are in completely the opposite directions mines very high and his due to medication is virtually nil, I've lived with this for ov...

He threatened that tomorrow either she's gone or he's gone. Any advice would help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F) - Hello and thanks I have been married 22 yrs. I got married young. Its been abit of a roller coaster at times but somehow I stayed. My husband can be very mean when he drinks. He calls me names points his finger in my face I tell him to stop. Whe...

Uncomfortable going on vacation with my husband's family after he told them lies about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3977 days ago

1 February 2014 (F) - Hi all, I got married six months ago and my husband and I were doing very well in the beginning ...but lately we have been arguing about many things . Currently we are living with my parents because he lost his job and had missed court dates in his ...