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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

Like, lust or love? What really demonstrates and defines it as love between two people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I was thinking and want to know, what exactly is love?...

Share relationships that have gone right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - So I enjoy answering questions here on dearcupid when I have spare time. The thing is they are mostly about relationships gone wrong/problems/etc. I was wondering if people would post about relationships they are in or have been in where things have ...

My girlfriend's mother still won't accept our lesbian relationship after five years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now (on and off). She is from a very close family and her mother wont accept us. This means at christmas time for example (when we are both home from uni), that ...

I fall in love with a guy I met online. We are not compatible physically except emotionally. Should I follow my feelings or follow my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 32 and I've been on dating websites for a year now since my last break up. The guy i was with was very different to me, and i vowed not to get involved with somebody similar. he was a nice guy, but we disagreed strongly on a few things,...

We are from different backgrounds, but we love each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - i love my boyfriend truely. N i wish 2 spnt the rest f my lif with him. The only problem is we are of different tribes n my parents dont like the people of his tribe. What shall i do. And my family doesnt know about him yet. M afraid to tell my ...

Should I tell him I love him? He is with someone else.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - ok... there is a super long backstory to me and my best friends relationship but I won't bore you with it. I'll just lay it out plain and simple. I met my best friend 5 years ago... have a connection with him that I have never found with anyone else ...

Depressed and Panicked... 32 yr old single female.. is there any chance for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I feel so truly depressed.. after making some bad decisions over the last 3 years, in terms of relationships. I've ended up single... i will turn 32 in 2011 and its causing me serious stress and depression. People keep telling me i'll meet someon...

Ideas for a special day out with someone you love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I've got a date with someone I've been seeing next week and we haven't had any alone time for a month or so. So basically I was wondering if anything had any ideas for a night in? And how to make it extra special as we haven't been together in...

Am I crazy for wanting intimacy NOT leading to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for seven months now and although we live 70 odd miles apart we see each other very frequently. He is 14 years my senior. He is a decent guy, we go out, he helps me with things, he cooks for me (if he's not taking me out). ...

Why is it wrong for the woman to make a decision about marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2.5 years. We have a house together that we bought about a year ago. I have been ready for marriage since about our 2 year mark. I started discussing this with him a couple months ago. I know many people s...

Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them? As in, like I care for you enough to the point where I love you but I'm not in love with you. I don't know if that made any sense. sorry! haha...

Am I too young for love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Am i too young to be in love ? I'm 15 years old. The guy i'm in love with is 2 months younger than me. We never officially dated, but we act like a couple. I have never fallen for anyone before, so i cant be sure if this is really love. I really ...

Disappointed my boyfriend bought me t-shirts instead of a promise ring for Christmas!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Its coming up to xmas and for a month my bf of 4 months has been asking me what I want for xmas. He suggested a budget of £50 and I agreed. I hinted I wanted him to get me a promise ring, he soon seemed to forget within a week and would say ahh ...

My girlfriend is in love with our best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Okay.. I am in a bit of a Relationship problem of sorts with love. I know I'm only 17.. and most people would thin k it be impossible to fall in love.. or to have feelings of love.. but I have fallin in love with my girlfriend.. and she has fallin ...

love her, she loves me, but she likes someone else too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - My best friend of two years told me she was in love with me, and I told her I was in love with her too. Things started off fine, we were never dating, but we wanted to. (At the time she had a boyfriend that she had already loved too) Now she tells ...

I've only just come to realize what my long-distance friend means to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - hey, I have met a girl through the internet 8 years ago, and we always felt a connection but the problem is we completly live from each others. I live in Belgium and she lives all the way in the USA. we have neglected our feelings for one ano...

Does "love at first sight" really exist?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Is there really such a thing as "love at first sight" or should it be "attraction at first sight" - I think the first has happened to me. ...

Your happiest marriage memory?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Hey Cupiders. This isn't really a relationship quiestion as of such. It's just, i'm on this site regularly to help out with people problems, giving advice and such like. I was just wondering if there is anyone on here who is in a happy marriage o...

We fight, argue and I nag. But now I'm questioning if he's a good guy. Is he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and like we have been arguing a lot lately and i want to strengthen the relationship and so does he. He brought up the idea of marriage and a bright future. But we want to manage a way to stop arguing ...

Really need a male perspective...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I've recently got back together with an ex. We dated for a year, 7 years ago. (I was 25 and had ended it because I'd felt it was too intense - he was very much in love with me, proposed etc., and I wasn't ready, then.) He still feels the same w...

Anybody else believe in soulmates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - So, I want to know if this could be real? Ive never believed in that "one person" that was made for us. It just seemed to far-fetched to be realistic. But here goes... I had a great friend in the 9th grade (28 years ago) She and I could talk abo...

I might have lost out to another since I didn't ask her out when I had the chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Should I tell a girl that all my problem is because of my love to her. I fancied a girl who everyone believe she used to fancied me but I did not take it at that time due to I was not ready to go on to a new relationship since my last one ended u...

Does spiritual love exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - ~SPIRITUAL LOVE-PAST, PRESENT and FUTURE~ Does anyone here believe spiritual love exists? If so, what is your definition of spiritual love? Have you experienced it or are you currently experiencing it? If yes, specify and qualify ins...

All I want is answers... why???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

11 December 2010 (M) - ~Listening to Bruno Mars- Talking to the moon~ Hello everyone and anyone. i have a story of well my real life heartbreak. Im 25 years old, goodlooking guy. Never really dated seriously too much. Was always the "player". Until one day i met a guy ...

Thinking of marriage but want to experience other men first!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Im 16 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I'm completely in love and my mom has given him her permission to marry me when we graduate. The thing is, is that ive been wanting to experience sex with someone ...

Are my wife's actions cause for concern?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - My wife works in a small office - there used to be seven women in one room with the other room occupied by her, the boss and another woman. After recent redundancies there are three women left in one room with just the boss and my wife in the other. ...

Does he like me or not? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - I like this guy. And he's real sweet and generally nice to everyone. During class, he usually minds his own business, we have choir (singing). Last Tuesday was my birthday. I didn't really tell anyone but my friends found out and they sang to me ...

Guys, how do you feel when a woman encourages you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Guys, when a women tells you "you are strong", "you are smart", to encourage you. How does this feel? -Does it make you love her more, because she is loving you? -Does it give you strength?...

Should I put a 6 month plan in place to be with her? Or leave her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

6 December 2010 (M) - Hi guys, some advice please, thankyou. Iam 27 (maybe a little old for writing on here) and started dating a girl 4 months ago. We new each other briefly from college years ago and met up randomly in a different town. We dated and quickly like...

WIth our history and families being friends, we might be together forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

6 December 2010 (F) - ok 1st of all im sorry this is kinda long but thanks for the answers that yall give me! me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months! we have MAJOR history with each other for example we have known each other since we were 4 years old! we've ...

Having it out with my son's taxi driver!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I had to have it out with my son's taxi driver today after he didn't do his job properly but I ended up loosing the battle of making my point. Just before he was about to drive off he told me that my son had said from the back of the car that I l...

Would you consider this to be fate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I was asked by a guy I like (who I met on the last night of my visit in Veags) if I believe in fate. I said yes. And then he asked me if I think we met because of it, and I said yes and that I believe everything happens for a reason. Then I asked ...

My fiance has an incurable form of cancer, how can I make his remaining time the happiest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Okay so im only 19. I have been with my 32 year old fiance, matthew now for 4 years. We have always had the most amazing, honest, loving relationship you could imagine, we were planning to get married in 2013. We have the most beautiful little girl ...

Do you love your man because he has money or educated or do you just love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I just wana ask the girls,do you love your bf beacause he has money or educated or do you love him from the bottom of your heart? I have a bf, his not educated he only have matric(grade 12) and he doesn't want to go to school forever, ...

I'm in a Belle, Edward and Jacob situation! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - August 2nd 2008, I met a 24 year old man at my church as he came to preach/sing. (my EDWARD) NOTHING HAPPENED, just began to speak as friends over myspace and such. (he lives in FL and me In MD) Then he came a second time in November 24th or ...