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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I love him, but he hardly pays any attention to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with someone who I've known for years. And for about a year he'd been begging to get to know me more and often told me how much he admired me. I've been hesitant because he lives in a totally different country but ...

How can I contact again my ex-friend and crush and should I? I regret losing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - It's a bit long but that's because i'm gonna try to explain things well so that hopefully you can answer accuraletly... if you could give me your opinion on it i'd be VERY grateful ! So here is the story This guy got interested in me right a...

How to gracefully deal with boyfriend's best female friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I have a problem with my boyfriend's best female friend. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and known him for two years. He met her about a year before he met me. They lived in the same college hall the year before he met me, ...

My girlfriend is letting me go, while keeping her blood results secret. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 September 2013 (M) - So, I'm 30 and my girlfriend is 23, we live in different far countries, we've had plans of her coming over to stay with me on December, and getting married around next February, we've even managed her a job over here, and everything was working out ...

Am I attracted just because he's a nice guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Need help decoding mixed signals. There is a guy I'm interested in, and I know he's interested in my too (at least to an extent). He bought tickets to fly out to visit me. I know him from a long time ago-but we were only acquaintances. ...

How can we become closer while not being physically together ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for a year before I moved to another city a month ago. I have never been in a long distance relationship before but he has. He and his ex use to watch tv / movies on skype multiple times a week when they were dating, ...

What should I do with this guy when I move to university which is 4 hours away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - recently I've started talking to a guy who I have a bit of history with - we've both admitted that we still have feelings for eachother but I've just moved to uni and he's about 4 hours away from me.. we've been trying to discuss what we're gonna do ...

Could he be serious or is he a catfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - I've signed up to a dating site, had some replies - actually 4, and one looked interesting. How do I know it's not a "catfish" though? The profile looked very natural, and had a [state].gov email address mentioned in his profile, along with photo...

Do I pursue this girl who has a boyfriend living faraway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - So there's this girl... She's 17 about to turn 18 and I'm 21...not that this is an age related question, I just thought I'd throw that info in. We went to school together but we never really talked, she was shy then. We started talking like two week...

I am scared to leave him after he said that he would kill himself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - im in need of advice. i been with a guy for over 6 years and is been a roller coaster, i sometimes was happy sometimes wasnt, we dont live together but that was the plan to move in together, we met in new york but his choice of living was florida ...

Why did my ex stop talking to me? Did he go back to the other girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a year ago because he felt the long distance was not working. We were good friends for more than a year before getting together, so I still text / facebook him once in a while, but he doesn't really respond. He has ...

In a Long term relationship but tempted by others. How do I cope with my curiosity over this temptation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Dear aunts/uncles I have just started college in a different city and I moved from my rented apartment which I share with my bf of six years. I love him dearly and taking on my new course was a challenge, as I had to leave everthing I knew...

Did I make the right decision? Long distance relationship - decided to cut contact temporarily

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - For the last almost 2 months, my boyfriend was on a different continent for a work commitment, so there was an 8hour time difference between us. The first month or so was ok, but he was very busy, both with work and he never seemed to miss out on p...

Will he be hurt if I don't see him on his birthday?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now,we work in 2 different cities and we are both doctors!so for us its a task meeting,whenever we find time we try to meet.. Its my boyfriends birthday in 2 weeks and I just found out I have to be on du...

I think this guy I've been talking to is cheating on me! How do I handle this? Should I be mad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - I'm talking to this guy and I'm in college. He lives an Hour away but he went back to his original home because he's on vacation. we usually talk everyday, but when I told him I was going home he told me he wont contact me this weekend, so I can sp...

What went wrong? She's been distant since I told her I stop flirting with different girls on twitter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

16 September 2013 (M) - Hello, i am a bit confused and i would like some advice. I have noticed a change in a female i recently met at a party about 8 months ago. because she lives quite a bit from me, we have been communicating more on the phone and on line. Ho...

Everytime his parents come to visit, he goes MIA!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I am dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now! Everytime his parents come to visit or stay at his place he goes MIA(missing in action)..first off we are in a long distane relationship so the only thing that keeps us together is the p...

How can I help my girlfriend sexually without pressuring her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

15 September 2013 (M) - Hello! I have a beautiful girlfriend who lives 200 odd miles away, and, with that said, we only get to see each other every 2-3 months. While I feel incredibly lucky to have her, she has some rather serious intimacy and self esteem issues. S...

Did she cheat on me?......Can I trust her?......please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

14 September 2013 (M) - Ok, about 6 months ago I started talking to this girl, she's an international student from China, and after around two weeks of talking we decided to meet each other. Now I did find it strange that she let me sleep in her bed the first night. And we ...

I don't want to be single my whole life! Is there hope for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I was with my ex for 4 years, the last 2 years was LD. He was my first. He cheated me twice the first two years and I caught him kissing someone else while he studied abroad. I forgave him and gave him chances even though he hurt me so much. We were ...

My LDR friend said he loved me then blocked me! Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I'm feeling very confused and even more so after asking for the help of my friends as all of them have very conflicting opinions! So I was hoping you could offer some help and advice. I will try not to make this too long whilst not missing out ...

Is it just the distance or are my instincts right that he's two-timing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago while on vacation, he lives 6 hours away, but we exchanged numbers, and agreed on being friends, which obviously didn't last long. I feel very drawn to him, which doesn't happen very often, and never so quickly. I can ...

My LDR boyfriend doesn't like that I had lunch with male colleague and accepted chocolate from him. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of 4.5 months..at the place I work I have been friends with this guy..we have been given the same assignement so we work together! We go out for lunch together as a group but today everyone was bus...

I haven't heard from my LD friend in over a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

6 September 2013 (F) - So what do I do? For the past 3 months I have been talking to someone who is currently out in afgan through email he is a friend of a friend and although I have never met him I thought we were getting to know each other and kind of asumed we were ...

Going to spend two weeks with my LDR -- what will we talk about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

6 September 2013 (M) - Hi there I have been in a long distance relationship with a wonderful woman for two years now. We've only managed to spend three individual weeks together within that time period, although each and every single one of those weeks were like magic....

My LDR makes fun of me all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

6 September 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I don't know if my boyfriend thinks its funny or is just like that,he keeps making fun of me..we are in a LDR so I'm not really comfortable with him 'mocking' me all the time.. Sometimes he says things like what was that u sound lik...

I don't like him teasing me about private stuff

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

5 September 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm a very shy person and this is my first real relationship.. My boyfriend and I are in LDR now,sometimes actually most of the times my boyfriend talks abt what I did,or how I moan or what I say when he does things to me! And then ...

I love my girlfriend but I don't trust her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

5 September 2013 (M) - Please help me friends I am very depressed and stressed nowadays! I have this girlfriend of mine from past 5 months. We are in a long distance relationship. We have just met 4-5 times since our relationship started. I want you guys to know she is a...

Torn between the girl leaving for university, and the local one.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

2 September 2013 (M) - I'm not sure what to do, I'm in a boat I've never been before. I've been getting close to a friend of mine all summer, we both knew she was moving away to university 200 miles away and I gave her the option of either making things a proper relatio...