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writes:Hey everyone,I don't know if my boyfriend thinks its funny or is just like that,he keeps making fun of me..we are in a LDR so I'm not really comfortable with him 'mocking' me all the time..Sometimes he says things like what was that u sound like robot,or he just mocks 'the way I talk' and makes me sound like I'm a heiress(like paris hilton) this happens all the time and its not fun anymore..$I mean u do it sometimes its alright but all the time,I mean my other guy friends do it but coming from my boyfriend I don't like it at all..its a little immature!Am I wrong?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 September 2013):
 if you are not happy and he mocks you, then you have every right to tell him it bothers you.
if you tell him it bothers you and he continues to do it, then he is not going to stop.
this could be for several reasons.
1. HE could stop but he does not want to stop (worth ending the relationship over)
2. He can't stop due to say an impulse control disorder in which case you have to decided if you want to stay with a guy who can't control his own mouth...
have you always been LDR? if so have you met in person?
IF not... no biggie to end it... as you are clearly not compatible.
if you have not always been LDR and it was not an issue before you were LDR perhaps this is how he's handling LDR?
or maybe he wants out and does not know how to do it?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (6 September 2013):
 No, you're NOT wrong. You know how you want to, and expect to, be treated.. and this character isn't measuring up.
IF you've pointed this out to him... and IF he continues... THEN you have your "answer".... i.e. He's not the guy for you. Dump him.
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2013):
Some people think that what there doing is some sort of ' teasing' that its funny but unless your on the receiving end and its relentless teasing then the joke tend to become more of a pain than anything else ..
You are going to have to start thinking about clever retorts you can give back .. So think very careful of how they talk and their mannerisms .or look like .. And say something like. Laughingly , ' yes I may talk like Paris Hilton, but my your more like Danny devito haha ' make it light .. But don't be a push over ..
I like banter I must say ..but when it becomes all the time and is personal directed at someone and how they talk or walk etc then it needs to stop.
Hope this helps .. Go get them tiger don't let walk all over you .. :)
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