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writes:My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a year ago because he felt the long distance was not working. We were good friends for more than a year before getting together, so I still text / facebook him once in a while, but he doesn't really respond. He has started dating a girl in his city. This summer, we started talking more and more and we would skype daily and text as we use to, I heard that he broke up with his new girlfriend shortly after we started talking again. We flirted heavily and he came to visit me. It felt like before, we really get along. He would tell me he miss me and I am the only person that he wants to do most things with. My friends even said that I should marry him . He text / calls me every day. Then , all of the sudden, he just said that we should stop doing this. I don't understand what is going on. Is he going back to the other girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2013): He's picking you up, putting you down when you let him- he's not the greatest character, as he'll clearly lie through his teeth and say anything to warm things up between you both when he's having a dry spell... What hes likely saying to any other girls that are available there and then! Like honeypie said. He's messing with your emotions and he may seem like sweetness but he's a user. That's ALL he is. Look at the signs... He doesn't contact you... Unless he's literally having a dry spell. There's no better way to sum it up than what honeypie said, unfortunately and you just need to be really strong, and realise that you don't deserve this- you're not an object... I'm sorry but what's going on with your friends? How can all of them ignore these signs? I'm starting to realise the more losers I meet the better I'm getting at seeing through them... And you just need to face up to the fact that this guy is not good news and doesn't care for people the way he should.Take care xxx
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 September 2013):
 He got back in touch with you because his GF dumped him and he knew he could get the attention and sex from you.
Sorry, honey he just used you while his dry spell lasted.
He might not have gone back to the last GF, he might have gotten a new one.
The reason he backed off is because he knows you think there is more going on then he wants to give.
Unless you want to continue this yo-yo relationship and be his security blanket I would cut all the contact with him and work on moving on.
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