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writes:So what do I do? For the past 3 months I have been talking to someone who is currently out in afgan through email he is a friend of a friend and although I have never met him I thought we were getting to know each other and kind of asumed we were friends... He suggested meeting up etc once he got back and I told him he didn't have to keep replying he told me not to be so daft and said he liked messaging me etc now all of a sudden he hasn't replied to my message and its been over a week, nothing out of the ordinary was said? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 September 2013):
 Someone who is currently in a war zone did not contact you for a week.... oh well.. maybe he can't contact you.
you could send a message saying "hi haven't heard from you hope everything is ok" but that's it...
then you sit and wait... and by wait I mean CARRY ON WITH YOUR LIFE....
it's only 3 months, it's a friend of a friend not a boyfriend... no reason to put your life on hold for something that might turn into something but currently is nothing.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (7 September 2013):
 Just wait for him to contact you. You can send him messages once in a while asking if everything is OK with him. You can also ask your friend if everything is OK with him. There could be several reasons why he's not contacting you:
1. He met someone else
2. He is so busy he hasn't had time to go online
3. Lost internet connection
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