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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My long distance girfriend wants to get back together again...should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6928 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - My ex-girlfriend has resurfaced in my life after a year and a half of being apart. We were together for 2 and a half years, but she moved to pursue her career, and couldn't handle the distance and broke it off. Now, she's been calling me, saying she ...

I'm worried about seeing my girfriend again, now that I live far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend live miles from each other and phone and email every night but I am worried I won't see her again as I live with my aunty now. What can I do?...

I broke up with him because we argued so much. Now I miss him, so do we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6935 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago, as we kept having arguments about me not going to visit him enough. i am currently at university and only come home on weekends (he lives in my town)and during this time i try to see my family friends ...

My guy is coming from overseas to see me, but he's worried things are too serious!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6936 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I am 25. I met this boy in Belgium on September 1st and we had a great time. The day after we met again and went on another date and we kissed. Then I had to come back to the US. On September 23rd we spent a 3 day weekend together in NY and ...

I don't know why I'm no good on the phone when I talk to my girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6936 days ago

24 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and I'm in a long distance relationship. I met my girlfriend on holiday and a week after we was going out. Since then we have been with each other 3 times and we are getting along great, but the problem I'm having is I can't speak to her ...

I love her and don't want to hurt her, but I can't find a way to make it work.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating a great girl for 1.5 years. The relationship has been somewhat long distance (about 2-3 hours driving one-way). She's only my second girlfriend, and the first girl I've been intimate with. Part of me wants to date other girls...

My boyfriend doesn't follow through with his promises!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend for 2 months tells me he'll do things and he doesn't do them. Is he trying to tell me he doesn't want to be in this relationship any longer?...

I think I love him but he lives so far away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I think I'm in love. It's with someone I can't have. We live on opposite ends of the country now so we don't see each other at all. He used to live nearer to me but then moved to Surrey. He knows how I feel about him, and we both like each other a ...

We live 120 miles apart so when we get together and have sex... well, it goes too fast.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months and we live 120 miles apart. When we have sex which is once or twice a week, if that, he has this problem. He can't go very long and he says it's not my fault. He's had this problem before ...

How can we make things work, when I live 3 hours away from my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6940 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I've been in the most happiest relationship ever with the lad of my dreams and everything was so well and perfect. Then the other day he started getting annoyed that he had to wait 3 hours to get home, that I live too far away, he has to pay a fiver ...

My boyfriend keeps delaying his return from the country he's working in. Does he still care about us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6944 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Dear Aunt Agony. Whats more important? Your job, or the person "that you love". would you come back for your soulmate, or stay for your employment in another country? I'm a gay 23 male involved with a man 25 years old. He went overseas to w...

He thinks the spark between us has cooled, but I know we're perfect!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6944 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my guy for 2 years now, and the relationship has just turned long distance, he says he loves me and he still finds me attractive. We have absolutely no problem in the physical department as the spark is still totally there. It's just ...

Our relationship was great. What hurt it was the distance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I've recently split with my girlfriend of about 2 months. We got together just before I went to uni and I've been making regular trips home to see her. Last time I went home she told me she doesn't like me not being with her and couldn't ...

I want to break up with my guy. The distance between us makes me dread visiting him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - This weekend, I am going to visit my long-distance boyfriend to tell him that it's not working for me and I want to end the relationship but still be friends. I love him but I'm not in love with him and I just can't deal with the distance thing. ...

How can I get my Albanian guy back into my country?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I don't know where else to find help regarding my problem. I'm very confused at the moment, I'm English, my mother lives in Greece, where I met the most wonderful Albanian guy ever and we had the most wonderful summer together and fell in lov...

My boyfriend has to move away and I'm afraid that I'll never see him again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6947 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months. Now he has to move too far away from here and I will never see him again. I dunno what to do because he means the world to me. I love him so much. Please help me. ...

Things have been hard since my ex emailed my current girlfriend and said she was still in love with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - I am currently feeling very distressed over a relationship problem. My girlfriend (let's call her P)and I have been having a long distance relationship for the past 3 months (In fact we just got together 3 months ago too). Things were going very ...

The distance between us is worse when my boyfriend gets depressed. How do I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

12 November 2005 (F) - I'm currently in love with a Marine who has many challenges in his life. He is still a reservist so we don't see each other much. He does devote every Sunday to see me. However, he is going through a lot of emotional challenges with his family and ...

Thought I was over him... until he came back home!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6948 days ago

11 November 2005 (M) - I was in a relationship with this guy for one year and then he had to go abroad to work. We decided to really end it to save our feelings. We are in contact every week and most recently I thought I was getting over him until he came home and all my ...

We're from two different States. Should I up sticks, or should he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6950 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I are talking about getting married, but he lives in Shreveport, LA and I am from Alabama. He wants to move back to Texas where he was born, and I don't want to pull my roots from the 'bama soil. He says he's willing to compromise ...

I don't want what my girlfriend wants, but I don't want to ruin her visit by breaking up...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - I need some help. My girlfriend and I have been dating for just about 2 and a half years. She currently lives in a different city and is coming home for 4 days this weekend. Lately I've been feeling that she has been more of my best friend, than my ...

Life is so busy, I barely have time for the boyfriend I love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I met my boyfriend three years ago at university. Recently, I moved away. Having been together so long, a lot of the passion had gone from our relationship and I thought the distance might help however when we do meet up, there are just awful ...

Need some help and advice on making my long-distance relationship a success!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I met my boyfriend at Uni, we've been together for 2 years and for the past 4 months we've been in a long distance relationship because we both have a work placement with different companies in different cities. It's been difficult lately...

What happens when my girlfriend finishes her course and wants to move away? I'm still studying!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

7 November 2005 (M) - Hi everyone, I hope I can get some answers to my problem, I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years, I am 21 and she is 18. We met while on holidays in Italy, for the first year we stayed together but long distance as she is from London, ...

He's asked me to marry him, but there are a few complications...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Is this relationship worth saving??? I met this wonderful man and I thought the relationship was going great. He's in the Army and stationed in Afghanistan. He even asked me to marry him. Then one day I find out that he is still involved w...

If my long-distance guy wants to marry me someday, why doesn't he make time to call me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - im a 21 yr old girl and have been in a relation for 4 yrs...at first it was great..he was in another country then..later he moved to my city..it was great till then..last month he moved to another city ..he is having some problem with his work and ...

We're friends and we flirt over the phone. He just won't get serious with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6955 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I love your advice column, and I read it weekly. I am a single woman, no kids and I'm 24. There's this guy I've known for a long time (it's been years) We dated on and off, but never seriously. I really care about him a lot. He was in t...

After dating for a month, he had to go overseas for six months. Am I stupid to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, Well, I'm only going to keep this question short and straight to the point: I've been seeing this fella for a month but he has moved to America for 6 months to work but will be home for Christmas for a short while. He has rang me alrea...

We're together long-distance, but my boyfriend still tries to control me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. He recently went abroad about 6 months ago to work and we agreed to keep the relationship going. The problem is that he wants me to tell him everything every time I go out. Whether guys ...

I'm going to visit my online bf in Spain. Should I finish it with him because of the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6957 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - I've been in a relationship with this boy for just over two months. He's 4 years older than me and the biggest problem is that he lives in Spain. I know it seems stupid but I never felt like this about anyone before. It's really hurting my parents ...

We're separated by shyness - and international borders!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - Ok there's this guy I really like. The problem is he never talks to me, oh yeah and he lives in a different country! He comes over here occasionally and I get to see him but never have the guts to go over and talk to him. I just don't know what to ...

What will happen to our relationship if my fiance has to work interstate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6956 days ago

3 November 2005 (F) - My fiance is leaving to work in Florida for 2 months, and I'm worried things won't be the same way when he gets back. Am I being selfish? Or just scared to be without him or what?...

All I want is to be with my boyfriend 150 miles away. Mum and Dad don't understand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

1 November 2005 (F) - Well, I am in a long term relationship with my boyfriend of 8 months and we both are madly in love with each other. But there are many problems...not between us but around us. We both live about 150 miles away from each other and within our 8 month ...