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anonymous
writes:Is this relationship worth saving???I met this wonderful man and I thought the relationship was going great. He's in the Army and stationed in Afghanistan. He even asked me to marry him. Then one day I find out that he is still involved with someone else. I confronted him about it and he denied it of course. But I found out more information that proves it's true. He was involved with this girl for 3yrs...and even proposed to her! Then I guess he met me and doesn't know what to do about this debacle. I don't think he ever planned on having a relationship with me, but grew to have feeling for me. I feel that he is really confused as to who he wants to be with. When he comes home he planned on staying with me for a few weeks before he had to go to his base in North Carolina. He even asked me to go with him for a week. Apparently he told her that he wasn't coming home till much later. What do I do???..Do I listen to what he has to say or just break it off??? Reply to this Question
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reader, beenthere +, writes (9 November 2005):
break it off. if he wants to be with you, he'll split from the other woman although, if you accept him in your life, you know the lies he's told and secrets he's kept from you and another woman so you wil find it hard to trust him
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