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writes: I was in a relationship with this guy for one year and then he had to go abroad to work. We decided to really end it to save our feelings. We are in contact every week and most recently I thought I was getting over him until he came home and all my emotions blew up in my face - I realised I still loved him but now he is going travelling for six months and I don't know what to do. I know how much he thinks and feels for me but he's a shy boy who's afraid of getting hurt-- I thought I was getting over him but realised I hadn't when he came home. What t do? I don't know.
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reader, pops +, writes (12 November 2005):
Talk to him about what he wants. No one wans to be hurt. It does take a bit of courage to risk your emotions, and maybe that is just not there in him. If so, he will always be timid and afraid. Is that someone you really want to spend a life with?
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