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writes: Hi,I'm 15 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months. Now he has to move too far away from here and I will never see him again. I dunno what to do because he means the world to me.I love him so much. Please help me. I dunno what I'm going to do without him :(Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, DeviantGirl +, writes (14 November 2005):
It's hard for me to say this, because when I was your age, I thought those who said this were retarded! However, the older I have gotten, the more truth I've seen in the fact that young adults your age that are involved in relationships are not usually in that same relationship very long after high school, even if it makes it that far. I'm sure you're devistated by the heartache that this is causing you, but honestly, I believe the best thing that you could do for yourself is to keep yourself busy. I'm not by any means saying that you shouldn't keep in contact, but fill your time with new and exciting things to keep your mind and heart from aching. You'd be surprized the new people you'll meet and the new things you would learn about yourself. Not only that, but you'll have things to talk about to your boyfriend. The true test of a relationship is distance, and I'm sure you've heard that one too, but based on expierence, it is true, and if you can make it through your teens and into your early 20s with this young man, you can best believe it will probably last a lifetime because there are going to be so many changes in your life. But please, out of all things, don't let this great part of your life slip by and look back to regret all the things you wish you could have done and didn't do because you were too wrapped up in heartache and spending all your time on the internet or phone talking to him! Hope this helps!
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reader, bootie09 +, writes (14 November 2005):
Im 15 as well and that exact same thing happened to me but we lasted 6 months til he moved. Its not gonna work and I know you dont wanna hear that but 98% of long-distance relationships never end up working out. In the beginning you think its gonna work out but the more you go on togther in seperate places the less you start to communicate and loose each other. Sorry this had to happened it happened to me and I finally got over it and moved on, now I met this guy and I'm really happy acyually happier than before and I really love him! The same could happen to you, just rememeber stay strong, were still young we have tons ahead of us!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2005): There is nothing that can be done but you are both going to have to communicate, communicate, and communicate..messengers, e-mail, phones...all that will help. And whether this will last-will depend on the levels of love and committment you have for each other. That will all remain to be seen. Rest assured, my dear, you will survive all this heartache as his leaving will be a highly emotionally, sad time for you and I'm sorry. Life goes on and I'm sure if you both are truely committed, this separation will be a great test of that love. One of life's hard times we all endure at one time or another and many of us grow strong from it. Good luck and hang in there, dear
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