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writes: My ex-girlfriend has resurfaced in my life after a year and a half of being apart. We were together for 2 and a half years, but she moved to pursue her career, and couldn't handle the distance and broke it off. Now, she's been calling me, saying she misses me, and she's sorry, and wants to see me. She wants to travel to see me on New Years, and this excites the hell outta me, but it's gonna kill me, if she doesn't come. Should I trust her? Does it ever work the second time around? She was the love of my life, but that doesn't mean the feelings mutual, even though her recent contacts make me think so. HELP! I know we can't "be together" immediately (distance), but should I even put in the effort so that we could in the future?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): Hi, I think you should try it with her again. My bf is about to leave back to his home state and we might end up breaking up becuase the distance is just too much, even tho i love him and I trust him but I'm really scared of getting hurt. It's so cute that she decided to contact you after all this time, maybe she realized what an awesome person she left and really does want to be with you. I say go for it! You never know what good might come out of it, and if she's back in your life now, maybe it's for a reason ;]
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reader, Tim +, writes (28 November 2005):
 I love somebody and she is my long distance babygirl, yeah when girls call their calls has two meaning either they couldn't find as sweet and lovely anyone else or they been played by their new b/f and turned down and now they want you coz you neva hurted her so u get more point for being nice and lovely to him/her Go for it if u are still single try her, i think she doesn't have more option or what expect getting back to you, you are not a magician for doing that ;) my first lover broke my heart and she got married by force of her family for money to a rich guy but the new love i have she is too young sometimes i can't believe her how much she loves me, i think she is joking, our love is a long distance one ;)Good luck Steve
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